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Hello, Im looking for someone to have some fun with! send me a message Female 27 from San Jose California, USA

Currently single and I'm looking for a long term fwb partner


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Darkness is not just about what we can see, it is a lifestyle we all need to exp.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm here to explore every aspect of this alternative lifestyle, I'm well experienced and continually learning to be the best for myself and my partner. Will you allow me to explore with you?


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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 28 from Sacramento California, USA

I go by Nora, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in Brisbane, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


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Im 28 years old, open to anything Like to explore Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

I'm 28 years old, I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.


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Real looking to find fun let’s get it together Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I love having fun making new friends serious minded people here


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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Let get to know each other and explore fantansies Female 57 from Berkeley California, USA

I am ready to begin sincere and open communication, without hiding anything. In any endeavor, and especially in love and relationships, in order to be successful, you need to give 100%, and I am ready for this.


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Down to earth, looking for what I really want here Female 38 from Modesto California, USA

Very free spirited, down to earth, humble and can be nast…y


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IM A DOMINANT SEEKING FOR A SUB Female 30 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


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Im 34 years old, living in the Livermore region. Female 34 from Livermore California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Livermore region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.


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Im ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Lets explore and enjo.. Female 27 from West Sacramento California, USA

I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man


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Hello everyone here... kisses love to chat and hope to find my luck here Female 39 from Union City California, USA

I am a kind and tender woman, I am usually out going,cheerful and curious. I am friendly and like good communication.if I like someone,I start communicating with them as a friend and to find out if we have something in common. I am very enthusiastic


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Single and seeking for that one man to build a serious relationship with . Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

I am honest, energetic, easy-going, sociable, optimistic, purposeful, kind, sincere, sensitive, serious, self-confident, responsible, open, active, and loyal , loving man to build a relationship together .


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We are a couple looking for new friends to hang out beers maybe more we are open.. Couple 37, 35 from Sacramento California, USA

Easy outgoing couple ,fun  and  really horny wife and we want to explore more and more


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Down for fun, but online and in person Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

New here and looking to explore , hmu . I’m always interested


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I’m looking forward exploring my kinky desires with a subordinate older male and.. Female 41 from San Jose California, USA

Living the alternate bdsm lifts with an older subordinate male is really what gets me excited.


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Im a good communicator and believe that trust and respect are essential in any .. Female 40 from Oakland California, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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MARRIED COUPLE, Looking to meet up with some new friends and see how things go. .. Couple 55, 58 from Sacramento California, USA

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I am looking for a decent, kind, intelligent man without bad habits to spend unf.. Female 43 from Walnut Creek California, USA

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I need a passionate, caring, mature male who will know how to pacify and tame me.. Female 34 from Union City California, USA

I have a very kind soul and an open heart! I am very kind to people! Especially to those who need my help! I like helping people, and I will always come to the rescue and will not pass by those in need! I help orphanages and do charity work. I am very tired of being alone and I dream of mutual and pure love!


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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Female 33 from Union City California, USA

I’m happy when I make people happy, I do like to have fun as well. I love to draw, and paint. design clothes, sing, play the guitar, drums, bass, violin, and piano. I've been playing music since I was five years old. so music's been a part of My life... forever.


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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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LOOKING FOR A SUB TO DOMINATE? Female 30 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


Straight

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Looking for consistency, consideration, and aftercare. Female 42 from Modesto California, USA

Still trying to figure this one out. Learning, exploring l, and trying new things.


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