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looking for a submissive sub who wants to be dominated and explore this lifestyl.. Female 38 from Sacramento California, USA

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Hi sissy angelsYour favorite mommy is here Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

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I need a passionate, caring, mature male who will know how to pacify and tame me.. Female 34 from Union City California, USA

I have a very kind soul and an open heart! I am very kind to people! Especially to those who need my help! I like helping people, and I will always come to the rescue and will not pass by those in need! I help orphanages and do charity work. I am very tired of being alone and I dream of mutual and pure love!


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Is there a real and serious sub ready to explore Female 49 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a prodom and professional mistress. My dungeon is well being equipped with different kind of toys and kits I use for training.


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Love to make new friends ❤️love outdoors sometimes Female 38 from Penngrove California, USA

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This mistress is not here to waste time only wants an understanding mature slave to train into BDSM lifestyle


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Hi! I don’t know what to say but hi Female 22 from Merced California, USA

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Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance ex.. Female 61 from Alviso California, USA

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Darkness is not just about what we can see, it is a lifestyle we all need to exp.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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Looking for local women to hook up with Female 55 from Eureka California, USA

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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Am here seeking for serious relationship Female 28 from Vallejo California, USA

I am Laura and i am here seeking for serious relationship


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I am a very simple person, hope to find a simple man. You dont have to be rich,.. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

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Just trying to have some freak nasty fun Female 36 from Fairfield California, USA

If I could meet a freak like me I’d die a happy woman


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I am exactly the kind of person who wants to make my other half happy, but I exp.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

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Im 32 years old, living in the Oakland region. Couple 33, 33 from Oakland California, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Oakland region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Im 47 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 47 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.


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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
This is not simply a job to me, it’s a lifestyle. I am and energetic and caring mistress, and have the necessary experience in order to lead you safely to a place where you can explore your submission without judgement.


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True love first Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

I'm Sweet girl and lovely as well...I'm lookin' for relationships


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I’m looking forward to meet a honest and caring sissy to serve, trained and plea.. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable'  You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy  your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples  depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress


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I am a lovely and a very understanding woman. Female 41 from Milpitas California, USA

I am very tender, caring, sociable and easygoing woman who is looking for a true love. And if I love a person I belong him totally and can bring for my man a pure bliss. I want my relations to be harmonious. I adore white long roses, chocolates and serenades during the first months of our relations and I know how to escape the argues and misunderstandings during the rest of the time. I know that romance is an essential part of any relations but there is life itself that shows the real face of the person.


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Hola somos una pareja amistosa y sencillos buena onda no nos gustan los farsante.. Couple 48, 48 from Stockton California, USA

Quisiéramos hacer un trío con un hombre ya que nunca lo hemos hecho y que sea duradero


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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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