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Im open to anything positive and interesting Female 45 from New York New York, USA

I am an experienced b*sm mistress, and sub trainer


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Looking for, ages 49-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM

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Your favorite addiction, come be a good disciple for your deity Female 20 from New York New York, USA

I am a personal fan of control and organization especially when it comes to your livelihood and vulnerabilities while giving you the satisfaction that you deserve. I am looking for finsubs to mold into my perfect and personal servants for long and short terms, using orgasm control, chastity, behavioral modification, brain washing humiliation and many more to perfect them to my liking. I desire to have a network of subs to serve me.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

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I’m happy to join this special dating site and I hope we can be a serious match .. Female 54 from Delaware City Delaware, USA

I am a positive person, so I see life in bright colors! I am a calm and active lady. I don't like to sit at home and do nothing. That's why I always try to practice myself, develop my skills in everything.Sociable, I love people, nature, beautiful and delicious food, I like to create comfort around me, I know how to love, I consider myself a well-groomed woman, I love my family and appreciate family values. I dream of seeing the whole world in the company of my man. I love animals, kind, gentle, sincere.


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I am very happy to push experienced subs hard, making sure you experience the ex.. Female 32 from Richford Vermont, USA

I’m a dom looking for a submissive male who’s ready to serve me as he’s mistress be loyal, obedient, honest no room for games nor time wasters if you are interested send me a direct message or here


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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from South Dartmouth Massachusetts, USA

Physically, I am blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.


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I am ready to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, let’s explore and en.. Female 41 from New York New York, USA

Open minded, here mainly for a loyal and committed sun, distance is not really a problem if we understand each other.


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“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you .. Female 36 from New Hampton New Hampshire, USA

I love to gym and do yoga but my body is too weak lol


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Im a dominant woman who enjoys training older men in been loyal and respectful .. Female 25 from New York New York, USA

I don't hospitalized men that have know interest into the lifestyle order then orgasm


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I’m an experienced Dom, seeking a Male sub to train, collar, own and dominate. .. Female 48 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I love most regular fetishes like Tease & Denial, role-play, bondage, orgasm control, body worship, light whipping, spanking, tickling, stretching (rack), suspension, body worship , feet and ass worshiping strap on play, pony training, butt plugs I love tease and denial, tickling, sph


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Am a journalist, that’s my occupation lol Female 33 from Florida New York, USA

Am a Dom looking for a sub, just sub nothing more don’t do hook ups or friends with benefits


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I am seeking a long-term partner with whom I can also share my interest and pref.. Female 64 from Morrisville Pennsylvania, USA

I am a middle-aged professional woman. I have a provider level job in healthcare.  I look much younger than my stated age and I am in decent shape. I have experience in the lifestyle from when I was single, and since my marriage ended. I am not seeking hook ups, but rather seeking a long-term relationship with a male Dom, who also appreciates the lifestyle.


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Im 58 years old, living in the Newark region. Female 59 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I'm 58 years old, living in the Newark region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 99.I'm with a Average body shape


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Recently realized i love being a sub to a giving and kind dom. I am in need of .. Female 35 from Newark Delaware, USA

I am 5’10”, 165lbs
I just want a man that is kind but has a firm hand when it comes to being my sexual master.  I still need more training, and i want it!   I need a man who is willing to degrade me and treat me like a lady.   Pics upon request.


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Goddess seeking a kinky sub to use and explore Female 39 from Yarmouth Port Massachusetts, USA

Armpit worship, pegging, boot & foot worship, fist, bondage & discipline, body worship, spanking & whipping etc


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Hmu if you’re down for some real fun don’t have time for games Female 29 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

Just be straight forward with me let me know what you want and we see how it goes


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Me and my girlfriend is looking to explore. She has a fantasy of two guys at one.. Couple 32, 32 from Shrewsbury Massachusetts, USA

Just want to explore to figure that out. Me and girl friend is new to this


Straight, Straight

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vive cada dia como si fuera el ultimo Female 37 from New York New York, USA

me encanta el autocuidado, consentirme y hacer felices a quienes me rodean


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I’m looking for serious relationship, I’m new on here an I want to meet an hones.. Female 44 from New York New York, USA

I’m looking for serious relationship,I’m new on here an I want to meet an honest man,if you have interest in me you can send me your # by words….


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I’m Experienced Dom, seeking a Male sub to train, collar , own and dominate. .. Female 35 from Mullica Hill New Jersey, USA

I'm a Dom looking for sub to follow the rules.  Will be punished for disobedience. rewarded when good. wil only cum with permission. I love most regular fetishes like Tease & Denial, role-play, bondage, orgasm control, body worship, light whipping, spanking, tickling, stretching (rack), suspension, body worship , feet and ass worshiping strap on play, pony training, butt plugs I love tease and denial, tickling.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I ride my bike to the park on weekends, and I often go hiking when I have time. .. Female 37 from Florida New York, USA

I can tell you a lot about myself. I've been living in the United Kingdom for ten years now! I now work in a Manicurist . I can be described as, hardworking, purposeful, gentle and kind. I love a lot and refuse very little. I like to experiment and develop as a person!


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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I want a brave man whom I will share my life, my thoughts and feelings, my soul .. Female 53 from Hampton New Hampshire, USA

I am a positive lady and I always know what I want. My life is very exiting and full of interesting things, I have no time to bore, have many friends and happy events. But inside I am a little girl who wants have a happy family.


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Attractive in-shape interracial couple (BF/WM) in our 50s looking for open minde.. Couple 56, 61 from New York New York, USA

Love the outside and staying fit & healthy.  We also have real professional lives so looking for others who understand that too....really looking for sexual adventures more than friends - we have plenty of those..:

If you are a single straight guy please don’t send us a message saying “Hi want to chat” because the answer is no, unless you can explain why we would be a good fit.  Also we play as a couple and only as a couple.

Also please be local or travel regularly.  It is cool to hear from people in Texas and California but realistically we are not going to meet up...


Bisexual, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Roleplay, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im 35 years old, living in the New York region. Female 36 from New York New York, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the New York region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a man aged between 25 and 81.


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Lifestyle mistress not a prodomme Female 38 from Newark New Jersey, USA

Much like a drug, I find that indulging my assertive side results in an increased compulsion to dispense domination. The more I indulge, the more I crave.I enjoy many aspects of domination, from acts of humiliation to worship and sensual torment. I am fully versed in all areas of BDSM play and I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my sub just as much as he enjoys his time with me.Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.When in my presence,


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I am looking for that older special one ready to live that alternate BDSM kinkiy.. Female 25 from New York New York, USA

Smell of flowers and my lovely set of tools to keep in calm in pleasure


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