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Im a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive sub to train and make him enjoy.. Female 27 from Canada Kentucky, USA

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Don't like blood  or pain.


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Im 36 years old, living in the Canada region. Female 36 from Canada Kentucky, USA

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For me personally, the ability to remain myself and reach my limits; it is impor.. Female 49 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

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I am a mistress looking for a dedicated sub willing to sub Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

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I enjoy the eroticism of BDSM, the power exchange and the control I command over.. Female 27 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

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Just Exploring and making memories Female 27 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

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Im an easy going mistress who wants a loyal male Female 36 from California Pennsylvania, USA

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Im outgoing looking for a lot of exciting things Female 49 from Fayetteville North Carolina, USA

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I’m an experienced Dom, seeking a male sub to train, collar, own and dominate. L.. Female 52 from Wilmington Delaware, USA

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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO CHAIN AND COLAR AS MINE Female 33 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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