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A 36years old still searching Female 36 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 42 years old, living in the Delaware City region. Female 42 from Delaware City Delaware, USA

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I’m Experienced Dom, seeking a Male sub to train, collar , own and dominate. .. Female 35 from Mullica Hill New Jersey, USA

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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from California Maryland, USA

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I love my life and am also a hard working woman Female 38 from Siler City North Carolina, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the Philadelphia region. Female 37 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 49 years old, living in the Philadelphia region. Female 50 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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I am smart , woman interesting lady with a big desire to find love. Female 42 from Seaford Delaware, USA

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