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Hello there am new here looking for some naughty fun okay so message me Female 44 from Rockbridge Ohio, USA

Hello am new here looking for some hot fun here hope to have what I seek


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Am, a Dominant mistress looking for loyal, true sub Female 40 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 28 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 43 from Greensboro North Carolina, USA

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I am a loving woman, sincere, kind, I lead a healthy lifestyle, mature, family-o.. Female 45 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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am a nice woman seeking for a caring naughty man honest man to spend the rest o.. Female 45 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

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Hello there am Evlen…...Nice meeting you on here as i am new to this online stuf.. Female 40 from Lusby Maryland, USA

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I am seeking a LTR to be my lover and his femdomme. Female 54 from Alexandria Virginia, USA

You want discipline ? I will until your happy. Looking for love? I got some for you.Someone who is all in to my satisfaction. A humble man with substance . Let’s have fun!


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Hi! New here looking for experiences. NightOwl & Impatient! %Jungle Female 45 from Palmyra Pennsylvania, USA

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I have been a mistress for more than 15 years now and I am an active members of .. Female 41 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 53 years old, living in the Iowa City region. Female 53 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 33 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Let take a chance if youre interested Female 39 from Apex North Carolina, USA

I'M REAL! Yes, you heard right, I am a real girl who is looking for real  relationships, I am not here for games! I don't like to play with hearts and I won't let you play with mine! I am sincere, sensual, passionate and have a lot of love in me. And maybe I can find love here?


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 33 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from California Maryland, USA

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I am looking for a man who is honest, faithful, loyal, sincere, caring and lovin.. Female 38 from California Pennsylvania, USA

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kind, serious, confident, cheerful, responsible Female 50 from Winston Salem North Carolina, USA

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I am a Honest ad Openminded woman , I enjoy foreplay and I want to meet a honest.. Female 41 from Finksburg Maryland, USA

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I enjoy helping women who would like to see their husbands f*ck another woman an.. Couple 48, 48 from Brooklyn Maryland, USA

I am a beautiful woman though I am in my late 40s. I would enjoy having a man ravishing me over and over while his wife watches.


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Kinky in nature, passionate in style. Female 44 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

My sexual bucket list is full, needs to be dished out only if you are interested in keeping up with my adventurous spirit?


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Young enough to learn, but old enough to know. Female 31 from Silver Spring Maryland, USA

Just checking some things out and trying to see what’s out there. I lived the lifestyle a few years ago, and now I’m looking for something. I don’t know what exactly it is, so I’m gonna enjoy life and grab what want when I see it. Not a dom, but I top from the bottom. I know what I want and I’m looking for someone I can rely on to enter my soft feminim stage.


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Just use my body make me ur cum slut I have a whole lot of kinks and sexual fan.. Female 19 from Camden New Jersey, USA

Just come talk to me lol I’m turning 19 soon and have a baby on the way


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Im 38 years old, living in the Philadelphia region. Female 38 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Philadelphia region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 60 and 85.


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Straight to the point and direct this lifestyle is more than me


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