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Here for some kinky fun, I don’t care if you’re a newbie/rookie or experienced s.. Female 38 from Ashburn Virginia, USA

As a passionate Dom, I enjoy good positive  conversation with my sub , I’m open minded and down to earth. I’m willing to train and teach my SUB everything I know in the lifestyle.


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Hello I’m looking for my soulmate.. Female 45 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

I’m very loving, love being straight forward I’m all my deeds


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Enveloped within the captivating allure of the feminine,an irresistible magnetis.. Female 38 from Newport News Virginia, USA

I enjoy being treated like a queen that I am, I love sexual worships and being the boss lady in bed. My last sub cheated on me, mike is a bitch ass nigga and hw made me regretted having him as my personal sub, I hope you don't end up like him too.


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Sex Love affectionate care attention physical touch and passion Female 68 from Falling Waters West Virginia, USA

I feel I am a woman of integrity and a family provider. I think I am kind in heart and tender of soul. I am proud in the quality of what I do and responsible. I believe in susanmpaige at geemale  dut come taking care of a man and treating him right I also understand that making love is not just a physical act of two bodies. Reaching out is better


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My favorite person, we both understand each other in anyway Female 50 from Uniontown Pennsylvania, USA

Hello there , how are you doing and nice meeting you here and I would be glad to communicate more with you
See how things or life throws us too…


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You are welcome to my world, a world where you treat my juicy pussy as the queen.. Female 43 from New Bern North Carolina, USA

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Straight

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Im 43 years old, living in the Harrisburg region. Female 43 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

I’m here Natalie looking for someone to hook up with


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Tattoo artist I love to have fun and to bdsm sound and all other fun toys Couple 40, 45 from Hildebran North Carolina, USA

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Hi I’m new here seeking to meet a lovely man to have a good time with Female 39 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

Hi I’m new here seeking to meet a lovely man to have a good time with


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Im 31 years old, living in the Pennsville region. Female 31 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Pennsville region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 32 and 90.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Virginia Beach region. Female 38 from Virginia Beach Virginia, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Virginia Beach region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 99.


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Who knows how to treat a queen. Female 27 from Allentown Pennsylvania, USA

Those who are obedient deserve rewards and naughty ones punishment. Seeking my one true sub.


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Am new here and ready for something serious Female 37 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I think since we just met we should take our time and am sure things will be better if you really dedicate our self to each other and make this friendship into a great opportunity that we never thought of or -- --


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Fun when time permits I’ll be the friend still when your done Female 46 from Manassas Virginia, USA

It’s my first time at adventure,
Just let me know how I’m doing…


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New to the scene and eager to explore my fantasies. I dream of the thrill that c.. Female 49 from Taylors South Carolina, USA

I am stepping into this new chapter of my life with an open heart and curious spirit, eager to explore the realms of my deepest fantasies. My journey hasn’t been the easiest; as a breast cancer survivor, I’ve faced challenges that have reshaped my understanding of strength, beauty, and self-acceptance. But here I am, ready to embrace every aspect of myself, including my desires.
I am new to the scene which means every experience has the potential to be a thrilling discovery. I am looking for someone who understands the value of communication, patience and consent. Someone who can guide me through these uncharted waters with care and respect, making each moment memorable.


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i am experience and not a novice i have been in the lifestyle for quiet a while .. Female 30 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

i am experience and not a novice i have been in the lifestyle for quiet a while now so i can say i am far away from been a novice i am a sexual and domestic sub and i am a Nudist I LOVE BEEN NAKED and i do have a high rate sexual drive i enjoy oral and anal sex and i also do domestic duties such as cleaning washing cooking and taking care of my owner


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Im 47 years old, living in the Dallas region. Female 47 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 81.


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Bi couple 4 bi male twinks. Fantasies role plays desires to be fulfilled Couple 49, 49 from Irondale Ohio, USA

Get most out of life.  kinky freaky bi couple with erotic hot desires to share 4 very pleasurable times


Bisexual, Bisexual

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Looking for the right and understanding person to own and earn my dominance Female 32 from California Maryland, USA

I am an experienced kinky goddess and I have been in this lifestyle for almost a decade and I’m ready to impact my experience on any lucky one.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Send me a message if you’re interested in waking up every morning with a blowjob.. Female 43 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

I enjoy swimming, golf, and traveling..i have seen a lot of places but want to see more...I love sports, travel, art,music and oops, good tv. baseball (Yankees), soccer and I try to play golf and want to learn to play tennis. Comfortable out and about but love my home too.Speaking of fun, I've been told I'm a lot of fun to be around.


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I am a romantic and cheerful girl with whom you will never be bored. I love an a.. Female 49 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I love music and thematic musical performances. I also love theatre, opera, visiting art galleries and exhibitions. I enjoy travelling, especially to historical places. My relaxation is often active - swimming, walking, camping. But I will not refuse reading a good book or watching an interesting movie. And my one more passion is cooking and baking


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I am to the point I need and want to grow in my submission...I am tired of alway.. Female 58 from Gastonia North Carolina, USA

I am tired of always being so strong in everyday life. When submissiveness is all I want


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Im 26 years old, living in the Charlotte region. Female 26 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I enjoy trying new things and new toys, doing anything that's peaceful, fun & relaxing like traveling, dining out, going to the beach, anything that's romantic, listening to most types of music (except rap), watching football (either live or on TV) & spending time with family/friends. ,if you are interested, please kindly feel free to come into my inbox and you will have to take my ownership from my mistress.


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I am here looking for a man who would genuinely love me and wouldn’t waste my ti.. Female 35 from Canada Kentucky, USA

My ideal man is a combination of wit, appearance and character. I see him brave, masculine, smart, interesting, cheerful and confident. It is important for me that he must be strong, that I could feel weak and feminine next to him.


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Just tryna find some satisfaction… Female 58 from Raleigh North Carolina, USA

Young-minded and outgoing. Love to laugh, dance, and play. I’m also pretty open-minded.


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Looking for, ages 40-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Oral, Sexual Massage

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