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A submissive personality, hoping to find someone who can push me beyond my limit.. Female 34 from California Maryland, USA

visiting beautiful places and having fun within crating memories , passion for exploring boundaries and creating a safe consensual space.


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I seek to find a good,loving and caring man who’s into BDSM actives for a seriou.. Female 29 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Couple looking for girlfriend or boyfriend. Couple 24, 31 from Anderson South Carolina, USA

24yr female 31 yr male looking for a girlfriend..


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I’m single and welcoming, I’m looking for someone serious and ready to settle do.. Female 41 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

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Lets not waste time on chat. Hit Me up so we can have some fun. Were all here .. Female 33 from Wilmington Delaware, USA

I am a lonely woman who is ready to have fun. What brought me to the site? As for my personality, I am smart, honest, kind and very caring. Also I am sensitive and very affectionate.


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I’m here for something serious and funY’all Female 24 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

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Im seeking that sissy/ submale i can use and control, Be it sexually and domest.. Female 30 from Bridgeport Pennsylvania, USA

I'm seeking that slave/sissy/submale i can use and control,Be it sexually and domestically... I will be interested in


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Seasoned Mistress and Dom! Mistress enjoys humiliating sub and making them suffe.. Female 37 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

Sensual domination,  sadistic cock and ball temptress! ! ! (Remember to send that second message for us to be able to interact)


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I am looking for someone that enjoys the simple things in life, just as I do. i .. Female 61 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Does anyone even read the profiles Female 50 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

Been on here a while. I've come to the conclusion that 98% don't even read the profiles based on quite a few telling me that my profile makes them so hot. So come on guys..PLEASE READ AND CHECK OUT MY INTERESTS


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please any fakes or phonies need not apply. I don’t do the 50 shades of boring, .. Female 38 from Fallston North Carolina, USA

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Am single looking for a serious Female 44 from Washington Pennsylvania, USA

Single honest kind loving caring loyal and also love


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Im 44 years old, living in the Pittsburgh region. Female 44 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 44 years old, living in the Pittsburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.


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Im 41 years old, living in the Carlisle region. Couple 42, 42 from Carlisle Pennsylvania, USA

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Hello everyone, I’m new here looking for a date Female 37 from Clinton New Jersey, USA

I’m cool and  a open up person . I’m here to find a soulmate if possible


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Hi how are you doing today I would love to see you face to face one day let’s ha.. Female 54 from Luray Virginia, USA

Hi how are you doing today I would love to see you face to face one day let’s have a nice dinner night but first we need to get to know more about each other I’m here seeking for something fun and serious maybe friends with benefits we’ll how can I’m you maybe we can exchange pictures


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I’m single lovely, romantic, caring and understanding. Female 40 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

Am an easy going person and looking out for mature man who  I can spend the rest of my life with. If you think you are my dream man kindly write me let’s chat better


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New to this seeking something serious if I find Couple 39, 39 from Marietta Ohio, USA

Well, Never thought I would be doing this, but at my best
friends request,it's one of the most difficult things to do. To
say who we are on a screen, using only words. No expression, no gestures, no intense engagement, not a sense of
energy, of chemistry. And, to be honest, I feel that most people base everything on the things that ultimately don't
matter. (My opinion, and some statistics haha)I am
someone who strives to be the best I can be, in whatever I do. I love
to learn, to evolve, to share, to care, to laugh and I am looking for someone similar.


Straight, Straight

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 27 from Hockessin Delaware, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the Philadelphia region. Female 37 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Philadelphia region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 80.


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Im 21 years old, living in the Ellenboro region. Female 21 from Ellenboro West Virginia, USA

I'm 21 years old, living in the Ellenboro region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 85.


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Dominant woman seeking submissive male for training and servitude in the bdsm li.. Female 53 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

I like my men ready and willing to serve mistress in all ways possible
Matured and serious minded males only


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35 bi female in a couple, love making fun friends. Female 34 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

I love books and music, relaxing in nature, motorcycle rides and anything kinky or naughty.


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sexy goddess looking a submissive partner Female 38 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential su All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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I am new here looking for a serious relationship that can leads me to marriage Female 37 from Denver North Carolina, USA

I am an open person. I love everything about creativity. I take various courses that can contribute to my personal development and in future help me to achieve my own goals and the formation of a career. I love to spend time with friends, go out of town to the mountains or to the sea.


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