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I might be looking for you too, lets give it a try. drop a line. Thank you Female 38 from Mclean Virginia, USA

I consider myself a very good person with a lot to offer to the right person. I just don't give my heart away easily. I’m very passionate person and anything I get involved in, I do it right. I’m very positive and a solutions person.


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Hello new world am trying to explore the gift of nature again which is Love Female 59 from Cornelius North Carolina, USA

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I enjoy my power over you, I may humiliate you, trample on you or your genitals... Female 33 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

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I pride myself on both quality of sessions and authenticity so will only session with a very limited number of submissives on days that I am ‘in session’. You can be assured that there is no revolving door to my play space, you will be given the time and commitment that you require before, during and after session.
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Just looking for some kinky fun with a fun loving dude Female 23 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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i am single and ready to mingle Female 34 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

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I’m single and looking for a serious relationship but certainly with the right p.. Female 40 from California Pennsylvania, USA

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Mistress seeking to be pleased Female 45 from Canada Kentucky, USA

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I’m single looking for a serious relationship. b Female 43 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I am mature and positive woman who wants to be happy. I think that at my age I still can be happy. I am ordinary woman with broken heart but now I hope I will find the right man who will help me to fix it. I always try to stay positive and see in people only good things. I like to sport and cooking. My dream now is to create family and I think I am ready for it, what about you?


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I want to meet a mature, intelligent and polite man. I dont care about status, .. Female 28 from Toronto Ohio, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the California region. Female 37 from California Maryland, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the Canada region. Female 35 from Canada Kentucky, USA

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Im looking to have a sub male i can share my lifestyle with! Female 48 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the Pennsburg region. Female 38 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Pennsburg region.
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Looking for male to join my male friend and me once or twice a month. Hope fin.. Female 70 from Winchester Virginia, USA

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I am easy going person, lovely and down to earth. I am looking for honest and ca.. Female 50 from Lumber Bridge North Carolina, USA

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I am here looking for my last love Female 38 from Cameron North Carolina, USA

Hello I love to travel and I am a nature and outdoors lover, that's why I love to travel, I have a very noble and sweetheart, I like to help people around me and I love my profession, I have my expectations very high here, I enjoy good and interesting conversations, I can and like to talk about anything, with me you won't get bored, do you want to find out


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I’m a dominant mistress looking for loyal sub Female 37 from Dublin Virginia, USA

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Looking for a sub.I will make your choices,I will tell you to pack and bag cause.. Female 44 from California Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 43 years old, living in the Halethorpe region. Couple 43, 42 from Halethorpe Maryland, USA

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I’m A Gemini & He’s A Virgo, You Do The Math lol. We’re very laid back individuals. We have a “No Drama” policy. Nothing but positive vibes.


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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

A dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding sub


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Send in messages I like to cook and my meals are very tasty. I dance, it gives m.. Female 54 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I am joyful and optimistic, and I have an ability to make my man feel better no matter what. I am able to really open up to my partner, do nice things for him, value his opinion and give him personal space. I am understanding and supportive and I will always be there for my man even if it is not that easy for me. I am very sympathetic and concerned for my partner's well-being. I am generous and warm, persistant and very faithful


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into someone can handle me in bed x make me wet and make me moan louder until i .. Female 24 from Washington Virginia, USA

want to try some kinks called anal thing and im so interested too see someone give me that while im on vacation  into some near with me and im down too meet up


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Just looking for someone to spend time with. Female 60 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

Ok. . . so. . . more.   I like most kinds of music. . . jazz,  classical,  hip-hop,  rap,  trap,  rock,  classic rock,  alternative,  country. . . honestly it's not about the genre,  it's about the particular song or piece.

Let's see. . . no alcohol,  no drugs. . . been there-nobody wants to see that!  If you can drink and enjoy drugs and still have your life. . . more power to you!  No judgement but I can't hang with that.

Love animals. . . had had cats and dogs. . . love both.  No pets cuz of where I live though.  

Uhmm. . . don't wanna do stuff with a bunch of people.  Don't mind going where a bunch of people are. . . just don't wanna go WITH a bunch people.  Love fun stuff. . . Dave&Busters,  gun range,  movies,  dinner. . . also happy to just stay in.   I like a relaxed,  down-to-earth,  funny,  smart person who is totally comfortable with all his bi-sides!  I've been married to a woman for 20 years; we're separated.   Would like to date a guy now.


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Here for NSA fun, feel free to hit me up lets see how it goes.. Female 37 from Winston Salem North Carolina, USA

I am very honest and sincere person with good sense of humour. Also I am cheerful and easy going.


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