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Im an alpha dominant woman seeking for a loyal and submissive male Female 38 from Denver North Carolina, USA

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Happily married couple, looking to spice up life. He loves to watch her enjoying.. Couple 53, 51 from Fayetteville North Carolina, USA

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I like traveling, bowling, cooking, listening to music, singing karaoke and danc.. Female 53 from Reston Virginia, USA

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Im 29 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Female 29 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the Baltimore region.
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I drink socially I don't smoke


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Im Mistress Nyghts. Primal Sadist. Disciplinarian. Looking for a male and femal.. Female 49 from Richmond Virginia, USA

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This Dom is seeking a loyal sub for punishment, pleasure and training to be a go.. Female 38 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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I’m looking to explore with a submissive male here! Female 57 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 28 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 45 years old, living in the Carnegie region. Female 45 from Carnegie Pennsylvania, USA

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Life is great, but maybe it can be better with you. Female 39 from California Pennsylvania, USA

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