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Single Im on here looking for a long term and serious relationship Female 37 from Dallas Oregon, USA

I have been single for 5 years now i want a relationship that would lead to marriage


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Looking for, ages 55-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Taking the bold step this time , let’s give a try . Female 49 from Colton Oregon, USA

Simplicity, adventurous and loving . Love to help the needy and less privileged  .


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Miss Laura is open and ready to teach willing subs the way of BDSM Female 50 from Seattle Washington, USA

Miss Laura is strict but yet loving Dom that knows how to discipline and love her sub


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Worship the goddezz of aquarius Female 40 from Salem Oregon, USA

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Dont pass this up buttercup, let me run Female 38 from Everett Washington, USA

Let me spend money and do as I say in every way.... Obey me and u will be happy I take requests if I allow you to


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Prepare for a night of sensory overload as I blindfold you and guide you through.. Female 36 from New Westminster British Columbia, Canada



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Why dont your try me on your bed Female 27 from Seattle Washington, USA

It is difficult to describe myself and to be objective, but I will try). My main quality is a caring attitude towards the people around me, maybe that is why I have always wanted to become a nurse. I am a helpful and reliable lady. I am romantic and a little naive because of my age. I am a family-oriented lady and I will always choose an evening with my family instead of a noisy party in a night club. I am a diligent lady and if I do something - I try to do it well. My heart and mind are open for this world, I like to learn something new every day, to study and improve myself in everything - to train my brain and my body too).


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Im 43 years old, living in the Marysville region. Female 43 from Marysville Washington, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Marysville region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 90.


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I’m Jane 43 widow seeking friendship that could lead to more . Hit me up if you’.. Female 43 from Tacoma Washington, USA

I will be happy if I meet a man with a good heart and a good sense of humor. I do not care about age, height and weight, as well as social status; my life experience has shown me that all this does not matter. The kinship of our souls is the main thing. I want to talk together, have a sincere hug, and walk hand-in-hand.


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Let me control you. Sensually, emotionally, sexually and mentally. Give up every.. Female 30 from Portland Oregon, USA

Let me control you. Sensually, emotionally, sexually and mentally. Give up everything and submit your body to your mistress. I will control everything including your dick eg., when you cum etc


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Am looking for the right person to start a new relationship with and can lead to.. Female 39 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am a confident woman who came here to find her happiness. I have a great desire for a real meeting and only for this purpose I am looking for a man on this dating site. As for me, this is the best of all dating sites and I think that it will definitely help me find my happiness. I am not afraid that I will have a real meeting, this is my great goal here


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Hello, I am very serious about dominating. You seem like a potential sub to a mi.. Female 43 from Tillamook Oregon, USA

I am fun loving, and carefree. I like all sports, especially basketball. I like taking my dog for walks. I enjoy going to the movies, going to sporting events or just hanging watching Netflix. I love submissive men, newbies,stone age.... as long as you are mature and true as you claim to be.I hate  game players,BEWARE


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Looking to be a potential sister wife Female 36 from Lynnwood Washington, USA

I’m the sweetest bitch you’ll ever meet! Looking to love and combine mine with them. :)


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I have my own motto - Always smile, even it is hurt. I want to find real and hon.. Female 31 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I am easy-going lady, kind, communicative and open person. I am inquisitive, I like to learn and find new things and feelings.


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Im 35 years old, living in the Seattle region. Female 35 from Portland Oregon, USA

Like I said this wont be enough so you reach me and let get to know each other from there .


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Im 48 years old, living in the Everett region. Couple 48, 45 from Everett Washington, USA

We enjoy movies, games, having drinks and cooking food. Sitting on the deck having a drink by the fire


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I’m single .im loving ,caring and very passionate.Have a good sense of humor an.. Female 36 from Tacoma Washington, USA

Looking for friendship and maybe more .I don’t just sleep around .I have standards but also like to make sure I have chemistry with someone before I go there ,I am recently out of a long term relationship and am just getting back out there and see how it goes first ,this is all new to me and it will be very glad if we could take the next step .


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Im 34 years old, living in the Marysville region. Female 34 from Marysville Washington, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Marysville region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 42.


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I am looking for something fun Female 36 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am truthful and trustworthy and lserious about what I am seeking


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Hello there everyone I am new here Female 35 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I am a very creative person, I think, with a good sense of humor. Caring, sweet, not silly, economical, passionate and able to love. I am sure that I can make a man happy and he will want to do it for me. I have always held good positions at work, engaged in creative activities, even sang in a restaurant. I really love to cook and I'm good at it. I've been married for eight years now, what can I say. it's an experience, I wouldn't call it a happy time.. Basically I am a very happy person, what I lack for the full picture is a man.to love and be loved. I hope I can find one here. I am waiting for you!


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Call me miss autumn Here to be nice and play good Let’s get kinky Female 37 from Vancouver British Columbia, Canada

Be who you are
Be unique
Everything is beautiful
Talk to me
Tell me what you are


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I am a Dominant Mistress who enjoys having fun and Dungeon happy times Female 29 from Seattle Washington, USA

Just a fun freakand wild knowledge on dominance,hmu


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I’m looking to meet a serious minded male that understands what it means to serv.. Female 33 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


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I would like you to know a little more about me,and life has been filled with he.. Female 44 from Tacoma Washington, USA

I want to find a man, who wants a relationship based on Truth,  Real Love not love,  Compassion, Friendship, Loyalty,  and Honesty! ! ! !


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If our interests align msg me :) Female 23 from Vancouver Washington, USA

Love to be open minded and try new things :) always wanted to have a dom but have never experienced it fully


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