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Im 44 years old, living in the Oregon City region. Female 44 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I am a communicative and open-minded person. I can easily accommodate different people. I cannot only listen but hear. At the same time I have a pronounced personality and personal point of view on everything. I am an ideal subordinate, but creative and independent enough to make my life full and interesting.


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Curves, Sex Talk

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I love tattoos I love sex Please be nasty And be clean Fetish fetish fetish Female 33 from East Olympia Washington, USA

I am an addict to sex
I love tattoos
Hotels are all I love
I love dicks
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I love spanking
Kill me with hot touches and sex


Bisexual

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Im 28 years old, living in the Federal Way region. Female 28 from Federal Way Washington, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the Federal Way region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 18 and 70.


Bisexual

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We are making every day count and wish to share pleasures and orgasms. Couple 66, 53 from Olympia Washington, USA

We are a open minded. secure, married couple who seek single or couples who are like minded. No homo - phobics or ignorant racists are wanted in our bed. We are well educated, lived in other countries and science/technology based. We enjoy intellectual and fun conversations too - a turn on !
Many interests and too many hobbies - enjoy working on our projects and love our ever growing English Gardens and two story greenhouse at home. Setting up for Honey Bee colonies for 2021. In fact we are really "Down to Earth".


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Trying to find new sub that will live the lifestyle with me Female 36 from Olympia Washington, USA

I like traveling trying new things with sub if they want I like teaching newbies in this lifestyle and I am looking for a long term relationship,  I have this thing for older men.


Straight

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I’m here for dom and subAnd bed fun Hit me up when you need my service Female 25 from Portland Oregon, USA

I’m here for dom and subAnd bed fun Hit me up when you need my service


Straight

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I’m looking to meet a serious minded male that understands what it means to serv.. Female 33 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


Straight

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Im 48 years old, living in the Everett region. Couple 48, 45 from Everett Washington, USA

We enjoy movies, games, having drinks and cooking food. Sitting on the deck having a drink by the fire


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I like to learn something new! Female 37 from Portland Oregon, USA

I can say that I am an elegant, sweet, very communicative, funny and of course young at heart lady! I know exactly what I want from life and one of my biggest wishes is to meet my destined man and to make him the happiest in the universe!


Straight

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Hi my name is Rose,single with no kids am new on here and dont know much i like.. Female 76 from Seattle Washington, USA

Hi my name is Rose, single with no kids am new on here and don't know much i like your profile and will like to get to know more about you.


Straight

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***If you are a DOM...we will NOT work! I AM NOT A SUB.**** I am new to Femdom l.. Female 42 from Vancouver Washington, USA

****A NO IS A NO. IF I HAVE TO SAY NO MORE THAN ONCE THIS TELLS ME YOU HAVE BOUNDARY ISSUES AND THINK A NO MEANS PLEASE TRY HARDER. THAT IS NOT BORDERLINE ANYTHING YOU ARE FLAT OUT A PREDATOR.**** AGE RANGE STARTS AT 30 GOES UP TO 52. IF YOU ARE YOUNGER OR OLDER THAN THAT THE SHORT ANSWER IS NO. We are all to old for the games. I am looking for someone that can add to my happiness and me theirs. I am a go with the flow person but do have my limits of what I am willing to do.


Straight

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I’m an Alpha Mistress,A Dominant Queen who loves her subs to be submissive and L.. Female 32 from Portland Oregon, USA

I am interested in all kind of new and exciting adventures, openminded for new experiences and also like it kinky and naughty. I'm more dominant and like it slutty and filthy with you.Let me know if you're interested in some kinky stuff and message me. Ask me for more pictures if you like and send some of your own too..Looking for that special older being, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly…


Straight

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I joined the Dating site because I still believe in true love, in romance and th.. Female 26 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm looking for someone that is not afraid to show open affection. I'm a little bit shy and I need someone that is easy to talk to until we get better acquainted.


Straight

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I AM FUN GOING LOVE PEOPLE AND BEING SOCIAL. Female 47 from Portland Oregon, USA

I like a variety of things and wanting to explore  new things recently moved to Portland.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Webcam

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Hi!! I am super new to the poly world. Actually a poly virgin. I have finally ac.. Female 53 from Estacada Oregon, USA

I love road trips, traveling, horseback riding. Spending quality time with friends.    I am shy at first but fun when I get comfortable around a person. PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE UNLESS YOU LIVE IN OREGON!


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Threesomes

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Im 38 years old, living in the Marysville region. Female 38 from Marysville Washington, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Marysville region.


Straight

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brand new sub looking for short term dom Female 23 from Corvallis Oregon, USA

I'm 23 years old, living in the Corvallis region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 33.


Straight

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Married and looking for hookups outside marriage. Female 32 from Vancouver Washington, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Body Hair, Curves, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Am a Dom looking for a loyal and obedient sub to train. Am not cruel but strict .. Female 38 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

Am a domantrix willing to explore my kinky side with a new and loyal sub that enjoys the same fetish with mistress


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Searching for a best friend so lets communicate and get to learn more about eac.. Female 30 from Gig Harbor Washington, USA

i'm looking for a companion, let's communicate and get to get learn about each other


Straight

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im into making my man happy and giving him everything he wants Female 39 from Seattle Washington, USA

i get excited when a man makes me feel special andd give me all  want


Straight

Looking for, ages 58-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Older Dominant Mistress on the look out for a submissive single sissy slut who i.. Female 40 from Tacoma Washington, USA

Sub must be very open minded to try New Adventures ready to be collared and owned by this Goddess & trained for all types of sexual use also not to be shared with others, not afraid to try new sexual fun Very willing to obey this Mistress Commands & Order's.


Straight

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I am serious, confident woman. Inspite of my age, I am rather mature. I have a s.. Female 28 from Seattle Washington, USA

Sometimes I love active rest and sometimes I am very home girl. I do lots of sport, I love jogging, fitness, skiing, skating. Paiting makes me feel relaxed.I adore cooking .


Bisexual

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Hi, how are you doing? Im Stacey, Im 36 Yrs and Im looking for an honest and .. Female 36 from Vancouver Washington, USA

Hi, how are you doing? I'm Stacey, I'm 36 Yrs and I'm looking for an honest and fun relationship that's going to last and grow. Hope to hear from you soon.


Straight

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Travel aficionado and worse Italian cook …. . Lol Cruises, fishing, long road.. Female 41 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm here mainly for a good, honest online relationship and I'll do all I can to live up to your expectations, within reason. If you contact me and ask about what I have said here, I'll gladly talk about them. I'm willing to be the kind of honest friend that you don't have to hesitate about whatever you want to say. Please do. We are all equal
Thanks and I hope to hear back from anyone who likes to communicate, laugh, and enjoy being someone's pen pal


Straight

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