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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE SUB TO OWN AND TRAIN WELL AS MINE Female 32 from Dallas Oregon, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy You worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  faeces,  or pain.


Straight

Looking for, ages 23-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 33 from Salem Oregon, USA

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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A beautiful body, good looks and a kind soul, it all unites in me. To tell the t.. Female 42 from Cheney Washington, USA

For me it is very important to understand and respect each other. I want to live in peace and harmony with a man. I want to meet a man who is able to make decisions, love, provide, appreciate and respect and never let go and accept me with all my advantages and disadvantages.


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I live at moses lake area , WA Female 49 from Moses Lake Washington, USA

Would love to meet in person , you get reach me with my username..I enjoy hiking camping horse riding and more ..


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Looking for a Soft Dom with great hands who is interested in cultivating a LTR. Female 53 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm not interested in long distance relationship. Im looking for a relationship and not just sex. I'm looking for someone who is interested in Soft Dom/submissive dynamic. I'm ready to submit to your will if you're the right man.


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Looking for, ages 50-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sexual Massage, Sub

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I’m sub mistress who’s searching for a well disciplined sub who can obey all the.. Female 41 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the Seattle region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Hello, its a pleasure that you see my profile. I hope you can give yourself the.. Female 39 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I would love to meet a loving, dedicated, loyal, honest, thoughtful and passionate man. A gentleman who has a life plan, likes to travel, take care of himself, exercise and collect wonderful moments. I would like us to achieve a great connection in all aspects, more than just a couple, we would be best friends, accomplices, companions and a complement. Let's have a wonderful relationship and the most important thing is that we can fall in love with our virtues and defects and in the future build a beautiful home. Is building your own family in your long-term plans?


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I am a faithful and honest girl and I want to become very happy Female 52 from Seattle Washington, USA

My hobbies are quite diverse. I like to go to the pilate rollerblading in the park and in general I'm for an active life style! I like to cook. Recently I had a new hobby - I make jewelry from beads, this activity is very reassuring. I have many interests and I will tell you about them, of course.


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Well Am Here Seeking For A Soulmate And Am Single With Non Female 41 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

Well I am searching for someone who shares the following qualities with me.Thoughtful, loving, goal oriented, along with sense of humor. I love to laugh and smile. I also love to read, watch TV and cook, my interests are many..


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Looking to meet new people and have fun!. Female 51 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm very much dominant and i'm opened to exploring with sub males.


Straight

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I’m up for fun if you are interested Female 30 from Corvallis Oregon, USA

I’m good at laughing and easygoing
I love to meet new people


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I want a serious and long term relationship that involves commitment that will l.. Female 38 from Portland Oregon, USA

I'm Leena by name a little message to see if you are on , Am looking for a soul mate someone that is looking for a long term. . I hope you might be the one for me in the future. . .


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Im 33 years old, living in the Seattle region. Female 33 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Seattle region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 55 and 90.


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Glamorously built lady open to new conversations and most importantly meeting ne.. Female 35 from Portland Oregon, USA

I’m an open minded person, easygoing and fun to be with


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Am here looking for serious relationship Female 41 from Tacoma Washington, USA

Am a very honest woman looking for love and serious relationship


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I am a dominant and independent woman and I seek an obedient sub Female 37 from Vancouver Washington, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Vancouver region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 82.


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Im 29 years old, living in the Portland region. Female 29 from Portland Oregon, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the Portland region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 23 and 99.


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Looking for, ages 23-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Body Hair, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, MILF, Nylons, S&M, Threesomes

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Does this mean you are going to make love with me tonight? Female 38 from Salem Oregon, USA

So you’ll get your kicks by exerting your will over me.”
“It’s about gaining your trust and your respect, so you’ll let me exert my will over you. I will gain a great deal of pleasure, joy, even in your submission. The more you submit, the greater my joy – it’s a very simple equation.”
“Okay, and what do I get out of this?”
He shrugs and looks almost apologetic.
“Me,” he says simply.


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Looking for, ages 35-71. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Sex Toys

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hi :) i’m looking to try new things ! Female 19 from Portland Oregon, USA

I’m really interested in all this stuff, but I’ve never tried it and i’m really excited to find out more!


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Looking for, ages 18-28. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

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Financial dom looking for an honest, trustworthy, truthful, loyal and opened min.. Female 29 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm looking for an honest, trustworthy, truthful, loyal, straight forward and opened minded person who wants to submit himself to me because I'm worthy of him service, I'm looking for long term relati[...]


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Looking for, ages 19-68. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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Im looking for someone who appreciates me for who I am, flaws and all. Female 48 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm looking for someone who appreciates me for who I am, flaws and all. I promise the same in return. I believe in treating others with kindness and compassion, whether it's lending a listening ear or offering a helping hand. Warning: my sense of humor can be a bit cheesy at times, but I promise it comes with a side of genuine laughter and good vibes.


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Lingerie, Mature, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

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Im 35 years old, living in the Seattle region. Female 35 from Portland Oregon, USA

Like I said this wont be enough so you reach me and let get to know each other from there .


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Hi!! I am super new to the poly world. Actually a poly virgin. I have finally ac.. Female 53 from Estacada Oregon, USA

I love road trips, traveling, horseback riding. Spending quality time with friends.    I am shy at first but fun when I get comfortable around a person. PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE UNLESS YOU LIVE IN OREGON!


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Threesomes

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I like having a good time and exploring my kinky side. The world is full of adv.. Female 46 from Tacoma Washington, USA

I love to travel. I love reading all kinds of books. I like the beach.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 34-63. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

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Something serious and lasting. Female 43 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!


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Looking for, ages 50-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Feet, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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