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If you are not willing to video call so I know you are who you say you are DO NO.. Female 31 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I love to cook. I love to help people when I can. What makes me happy is cooking. I love to read and also the beach is my  favorite place.NOTE : I know this is like a sex or hookup site but I AM NOT here for that. so stay away. If you are someone serious about talking and getting to know each other in the hopes of a relationship. Message me thank you. I want someone who still believes in love.


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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Prepare for a night of sensory overload as I blindfold you and guide you through.. Female 36 from New Westminster British Columbia, Canada



Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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I love tattoos I love sex Please be nasty And be clean Fetish fetish fetish Female 33 from East Olympia Washington, USA

I am an addict to sex
I love tattoos
Hotels are all I love
I love dicks
I love fetish.
I love spanking
Kill me with hot touches and sex


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub, Webcam

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Hi, how are you doing? Im Stacey, Im 36 Yrs and Im looking for an honest and .. Female 36 from Vancouver Washington, USA

Hi, how are you doing? I'm Stacey, I'm 36 Yrs and I'm looking for an honest and fun relationship that's going to last and grow. Hope to hear from you soon.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Im a mistress and I like being in charge Female 51 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm looking to find an experienced or New to the lifestyle sub who enjoys pushing boundaries


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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lets Start Acquainted Explore Female 26 from Vancouver Washington, USA

I joined the service in 2014, that's when I found my partner to join our life together . He was living here in Vancouver and I was in Redmond then he asked me to relocate to join him here . He passed away during the COVID19 pandemic in 2019, then returned back to the service last year in December, to meet a gentleman from Orlando,FL but things couldn't work out so ,I decided to try again for the last time .


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Just looking for a bit of fun♡ Female 18 from Nanaimo British Columbia, Canada

I get excited about pretty much anything, I’m an open book.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-28. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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We are a couple that is happily married, but needs a spark especially for the wi.. Couple 54, 54 from Salem Oregon, USA

We enjoy the outdoors, we like to play disc golf. Go camping. Go hiking another types of activities outside. We also like to travel. We are looking for a couple or single man or woman that we could get to know. Have fun. Get it out of the bedroom and go do things just on a whim.


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I seek a kinky Sub who will love honor serve and obey me that’s in need of trai.. Female 35 from Seattle Washington, USA

I have desires I wish to fulfill. If you’re up for a kinky lifestyle drop a message. I’m interested in a female too. You’re welcome


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

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Single looking for a serious relationship Female 38 from Portland Oregon, USA

I am hoping to find someone who love sex and we there


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I’m ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to any submissive as long as I.. Female 33 from Portland Oregon, USA

I’m Mel, red head. I’m a loving person that wouldn’t tolerate any stress or discomfort. All you have to do is just Be Yourself


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

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The most important features of my character are sexuality, kindness, honesty. In.. Female 41 from Dallas Oregon, USA

I can support any conversation, hee hee. So feel free to bring up various topics in conversations. I believe that I will meet a decent person here who needs love and support. I will give all my tenderness and care to the man I love. And I'll show him what true love is!


Straight

Looking for, ages 32-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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Im just looking to have a good time Female 35 from Portland Oregon, USA

I am looking forward to something real...one of my kinks is to milk out that cum off your dick, and alot more.
You can find out


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Looking for, ages 26-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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What’s on your sexy bucket list?? Female 41 from Albany Oregon, USA

Single, shy (until I get to know you), 4.2.0. friendly, bisexual bbw wanting to explore and broaden my horizons ☺️ I’m embracing my kink side and want to explore. Not looking for anything serious, but definitely need to feel comfortable with a person to completely let go.
Im not one to meet up without a little conversation. I need to feel comfortable and safe to be able to open up. I’m here to embrace my feminine energy and learn to relax and let go of control. Take care of me and seduce me with your masculine energy. Make me feel seen/heard and safe.
I like messaging back and forth to build the connection/tension. I like to tease and anticipate what it would be like if we were together. I crave soft, gentle, massage touches but also hard, dirty fucking. Confidence and being forward will get you a long ways, though it’s intimidating to me. Just be caring and gentle…at least in the beginning .

Help me build a sexy bucket list and a sexy playlist of music!! Send me your fav sexy song.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 24-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for a sub who needs a dom Female 29 from Corvallis Oregon, USA

Xoxo

Wanting to find a mutually beneficial relationship with someone


Straight

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Im 40 years old, living in the Hillsboro region. Female 40 from Hillsboro Oregon, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the Hillsboro region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 80.


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Looking for, ages 47-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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I’m very kind and honest lady looking forward to meet a nice man that have a goo.. Female 56 from Auburn Washington, USA

I’m Golria by name living at California and am here for a long term relationship that will stand good and better by meeting each other Sooner day.I’m 39 years of age and hope age is just a number.I will be glad to join this site


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Looking for, ages 53-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Crossdress, Outdoor Fun, Voyeurism

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I’ve dipped my toe in the sub world, and really enjoyed it. I’m Curious to learn.. Female 45 from Seattle Washington, USA

I’m terribly shy, and not an instigator but I love making my partner happy by doing as I’m told. I love dressing up, restraints, blindfolds, and giving up control


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Looking for, ages 45-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Sub

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Do you want to find out more about wild fantasies that live in your mind?So you .. Female 30 from Seattle Washington, USA

Do you enjoy traditional CP, when you are placed over my knee and repeatedly beaten with one of my straight canes?Or are you bold enough to test out my vast array of electric


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New and very curious. Looking for a tutor to show me the ropes of being a good d.. Female 56 from Gresham Oregon, USA

Excited about starting a new adventures.  Having someone to explore all my naughty fantasy. Learning someone else's turn on is hot. Can't wait to put them all together for a sexy explosion.


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Im 31 years old domme In search of a sub to explore this kinky lifestyle with Female 31 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm 31 years old I’m dominant,strong..I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 35 and 81.


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Living everyday like its my last. Female 35 from Seattle Washington, USA

Desire, ecstasy, fetish... find it all for yourself.


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Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Looking for good sex partner who can makes me wet and happy.. Female 38 from Hillsboro Oregon, USA

Calm and sex type just want to talk about sex and feel good


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Leather / Latex, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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Miss Laura is open and ready to teach willing subs the way of BDSM Female 50 from Seattle Washington, USA

Miss Laura is strict but yet loving Dom that knows how to discipline and love her sub


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Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M

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I like to learn something new! Female 37 from Portland Oregon, USA

I can say that I am an elegant, sweet, very communicative, funny and of course young at heart lady! I know exactly what I want from life and one of my biggest wishes is to meet my destined man and to make him the happiest in the universe!


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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