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Im 42 years old, living in the Reliance region. Couple 43, 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Reliance region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 27 and 47.


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Looking for, ages 27-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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Im 41 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 41 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

Experiencing life to the fullest! Eat good food, travel to new places, meet amazing people.


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Looking for, ages 23-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Hello I’m new here I just joined Female 51 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

I’m looking for a man who will love and make me feel comfortable


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Im 41 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 41 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 to 75


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I am me, nothing more, nothing less Female 34 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

Get him tied up and suck on his dick till I have my mouth filled with his cum that’s what I want


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Professional Dom, BDSM EDUCATOR, KINKOLOGIST, interest in FLR All Cucks belong i.. Female 25 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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Curvy, Hot, Sexy and Beautiful Queen Female 27 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

I welcome y'all to my QueenDom. I hope to meet a very submissive and loyal sub here. If you feel you can be that person hit me up


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. I am looking for a serious relationship that will reached the future. Female 48 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

l am a new member on here and a friend of mine just recommended me this site this afternoon because she was able to meet the right one on here


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Im 26 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 26 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I am a very dominant women looking to make a subby very happy. Don't be shy messages me! Im 5 ft 2. 110 pounds. Not submissive.


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I want it all the time .. is that normal.. Female 46 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Albuquerque region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 29 and 60.


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Looking for love and respect.. Female 49 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm looking for a serious long term relationship that would lead us to a wonderful future together us one with love and fun all the time...


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Your Mistress sitting on your face Female 63 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I am looking for a new Sub that will be loyal and totally submissive to me


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I am a very tender hearten woman at all time Female 37 from El Paso Texas, USA

My name is Amelia. I am a very good looking lady looking for a Dom to own me and control my orgasm . I will serve you both sexually and domestically . I have high sex drive . I have been in this lifestyle for the past 3 yrs, I am a  non limits and I  have a lot of experiences , I am into banging , spanking , whipping, anal and oral sex , domestic use , breath play.


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Looking for a Master. I can be a really good girl, but when Im naughty I enjoy .. Female 34 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

Looking for someone I can be comfortable with to explore new experiences and continue to push boundaries with.


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A calm collected lady that loves life Female 37 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I love to travel and have fun with family and loved ones


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Im loving easy going and very simple Female 38 from Rio Rancho New Mexico, USA

Looking forward to meet new people fun loving and have a lot of sex fantasy


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This is my first experience of using the dating site and I hope that I will be a.. Female 25 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I want my life to be filled with adventures. My biggest dream is to go on a trip around the world.


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Aburrida de la monotonia. Menos estrés y más feliz Female 35 from El Paso Texas, USA

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I am a communicative and open-minded person. I can easily accommodate different .. Female 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I’m simple person ,love traveling and shopping Female 35 from San Jose New Mexico, USA

My friends say I am kind, loving, nice, loyal, calm and very reliable. I am also faithful, devoted and I can be a dreamer sometimes. I appreciate beautiful things but I also enjoy simple pleasures in life.


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I’M A DOM SEEKING A SUBMISSIVE SUB TO TRAIN AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, trans, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like or pain.


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I’m very honest kind caring and easy going woman looking for someone who is very.. Female 44 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I very kind and always happy and I like to spend a good time with positive people, I hate lie and cheatint


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I’m looking for couples or men to have fun with me and my woman! Couple 39, 39 from Kirtland Afb New Mexico, USA

Everything really makes happy and new friendships! We are very out going couple who love to explore


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Im a beginning sub that is looking for a life partner male dom. Im looking for.. Female 32 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I love knowing that I belong to someone. Mind, body, and soul. Possessive does welcomed. I'm still exploring but I love light impact, spanking, discipline, training, bondage, light breath play, sensory, and toys.


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Pretty simple kind and romantic Female 44 from Los Lunas New Mexico, USA

I’m an open minded and honest woman with a kind heart. Very down to earth and a laid back person. Im not too critical about things and very much loving and romantic.


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