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I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

Fun and open minded . Open to suggestions and swaps
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes

Lost souls often wander aimlessly, seeking purpose. In my empire, I offer direction. As your Goddess, I provide a path for you to follow, a role to fulfil. Embrace your true calling: worship me. Find purpose in every tribute, every act of service. Revel in the satisfaction of serving your Goddess.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 36-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Very tall and sexy
Very disciplined well mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

Your kink mistress for all round fantasies in the lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

Am an open minded and experimental soul who will try anything at least once. What gets me excited is deep conversations (hate small talk, I know what the weather is), outrageous flirting, and extended eye contact charged with sexual chemistry and anticipation.I’m a participant in the alternate adult game of BDSM the game is about rules and roles,I will help you embrace your role.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

I can't say much . Anything fun makes me happy , especially when am being toasted hahah
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, Age play, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Erotic Fiction, Impact Play, Lace, Lingerie, MILF, Pegging, Sex Games, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 66.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

skeptical about this online dating but keeping my fingers crossed, hoping to find someone who wants to spoil me, I'm a good cook, hate dirt, over a good cup of coffee, like nice perfumes, healthy, i do have a sense of humor and enjoy life as it is.
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-70.
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Interests,

I'm 27 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 18 and 99.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

i am can cook, i can polay teniss ball. i like to go swiming.if you want to know more about me just ask me and i am open book
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, S&M, Sex Toys

We like to watch, join and swap. Don't really have and boundaries apart from being discreet and respectful.
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-48.
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Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes, Webcam

We are a couple, living in the Maidstone region. We are new into this looking to explore our fantasy's. Me Bexxx is 53 yrs old. We're interested in meeting an attractive man aged up to 55. For threesome or Bull duties. No strings attached, discreet arrangement. Would prefer someone close to us or if they are willing to travel to us.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Sub

Am an explicit mistress, one of a kind and am in search of a new sissy/sub.if I find you worthy of service, then alone I can invite you into my dungeon to come explore my dark desires.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Feet, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I want to explore the lifestyle , having always found my experiences wanting I would like to explore the possibility of submission
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

Strict, yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism. Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Open for a healthy relationship keep a healthy conversation
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun

I like dancing and singing and going out like being happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

I’m 45, 5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Roleplay, Sub

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold

Are you ready to get dominated by me and I'm ready to leak every each of my body
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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