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Disciplinarian and bondage Mistress. Dominant lady with a dungeon Multi skille.. Female 37 from Kent, UK

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If your dick isnt bigger than mine Im locking you away in chastity and flushin.. Female 38 from Canterbury, UK

Lost souls often wander aimlessly, seeking purpose. In my empire, I offer direction. As your Goddess, I provide a path for you to follow, a role to fulfil. Embrace your true calling: worship me. Find purpose in every tribute, every act of service. Revel in the satisfaction of serving your Goddess.


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Sexy couple looking for fun with couples, women and men Couple 54, 54 from Maidstone, UK

Enjoy fun with couples and men had a few experiences and would like to do more


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Rochester, UK

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress


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Professional mistress looking for a male or female to spank Female 29 from Kent, UK

Hi am Sandra who love to be spanked I take all implements including the dreaded cane but my favorite


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Im 38 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 38 from Kent, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 81.


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I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, lets explore and.. Female 45 from Kent, UK

A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes It's true I'm naughtier than I look, certainly I deserve so much pleasure from a worth sub.


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Alpha Submissive Seeking A Powerful Dynamic. Female 36 from Kent, UK

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.


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Attractive couple, living in the Maidstone region. Couple 53, 59 from Maidstone, UK

We are a couple, living in the Maidstone region. We are new into this looking to explore our fantasy's. Me Bexxx is 53 yrs old. We're interested in meeting an attractive man aged up to 55. For threesome or Bull duties. No strings attached, discreet arrangement. Would prefer someone close to us or if they are willing to travel to us.


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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive .. Female 27 from Kent, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship.


Bisexual

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I’m interested in meeting a man between 35 and 45. There is a lot more to learn .. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

Message me if you would like to know more about me and the secrets I hide away in the bedroom


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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

I’m 45,   5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ‍♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️


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Looking for someone to drain Female 25 from Kent, UK

Female dominator looking for my next sub to drain. I haven’t found someone yet that can keep up or handle it - Specialise in Findom


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave.  All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Bi Top to become part of the relationship with myself n Slutty Bi Partner ! Im .. Couple 49, 51 from Herne Bay, UK

Geeky Twosome looking to become a Threesome ! But ONLY if you pass the Mrs Tests !!!! LolShe's a HOT   FIREFOX, A CONFIDENT SSBBW and He's a Sexy Slut !! You, your a Top dog who is respectable, honest and open with lots of chat, it's NOT all about sex, ideally your Geeky and down to earth who understands quirky uniqueness but you also love devoting time and energy into extra curricular activities too !! You must LOVE animals and coffee. NO TEA DRINKERS OR GUYS HOLDING FISH WILL BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY.  ( No, I'm serious! .. I can't trust a tea drinking Fish holder - your plain weird ! Say after me - FISH ARE NOT SEXY )


Bisexual, Questioning

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Im 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region. Female 38 from Hothfield, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


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Im 36 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 36 from Kent, UK

I am an easy going person who loves to spend time with family, friends, and the people I care more about


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Married couple enjoying people Couple 48, 48 from Canterbury, UK

We have brought bedroom fantasies to are realities and looking to fulfill both of our long held desires. If any couples/men interested get InTouch. Hope to see someone soon


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Dominant craftswoman seeking inspiration. Female 49 from Rochester, UK

Am an open minded and experimental soul who will try anything at least once. What gets me excited is deep conversations (hate small talk, I know what the weather is), outrageous flirting, and extended eye contact charged with sexual chemistry and anticipation.I’m a participant in the alternate adult game of BDSM the game is about rules and roles,I will help you embrace your role.


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I love a good and lovely partner Female 30 from Chatham, UK

I love  being honest and transparent to my sub, let's have fun in my scared dun space


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I can describe myself as a good wine. I have a life experience that taught me a .. Female 46 from Canterbury, UK

Now I know how to make a happy and healthy relationship and create a strong and happy family that will always be in love! and not make mistakes. The most important thing that I learned is to believe in the best, never give up and fight to the end for my happiness!


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Bi couple looking for a bi couple or bi man Couple 39, 39 from Bearsted, UK

We’re a bi couple been together for 7 years and looking to spice up our already awesome sex life and try things with new people we’ve had threesomes before and would like to have sexual experiences with bi man or bi couple for steaming hot foreplay and great sex together no time wasters please


Bisexual, Bisexual

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I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make .. Female 38 from Hothfield, UK

I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make my submission contact me on whats app


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hey there I’m looking for fun and long term xx Female 43 from Rochester, UK

I will do anything to make my guy happy anything ..


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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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