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New to the scene, but very interested in exploring this world, I’m a big girl so.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

Completely letting go is what makes me happy, I dislike making decisions so the ability to relax and give over control is what relaxes me.


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I came to this dating site to find an adult and experienced man for a serious re.. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

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My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. Theres so much to this.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

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I’m here looking for my soul mate Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life


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Hi am new here ! Act more smart and get me a way to reach you off here Female 39 from Winchester, UK

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An honest lady looking for a genuine man. Don’t like games or drama- Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Am here for friendship first to see where it’s goes. Fun is normal to me


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Hey hey heyFun single woman looking to have a good time and want to experiment .. Couple 49, 48 from Gosport, UK

Good fun female  who is laid back and fun, clean obviously We are looking for a bi male to interact with Mr mainly for my pleasure but both, also open to a couple We are new to this but very open minded to right make or couple


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Hello everyone, feel free to enter my dm Female 45 from Southampton, UK

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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


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I love nothing more than to be both served and worshiped Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.


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Im 28 years old, living in the Westminster region. Female 28 from Winchester, UK

I'm 28 years old, living in the Westminster region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 68.
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Sexy couple looking to have some fun with a female. Couple 44, 42 from Southampton, UK

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Looking for girl to join us for fun Couple 40, 29 from Wickham, UK

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Seeking the gift of subs as he pleases me Female 33 from Southampton, UK

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Love feels great but get the taste from your partner/feet worshiping, orgasms an.. Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

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Single and wanting to play a switch but enjoys being a sub too Female 37 from Southampton, UK

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Pretty lovely and cool to stick around. Female 34 from Southampton, UK

A mistress always ready to guide and direct her subs.


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I;m married and seeking for a discreet relationship on this site, I need sex des.. Female 34 from Portsmouth, UK

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I dream to have a responsible man who can care about himself and his family. It .. Female 39 from Brockenhurst, UK

y world is very colorful and bright, but not everyone can enter it. But if you make a step inside me, you will find a bouquet of energy, love of life, positive and optimism. I am kind and attentive. I would say that I am a romantic and tender girl. I am not afraid to express my feelings. I try to be honest and sincere with people because I think that lies will always come out. I try to find something good in every situation. Read me, And you'll never forget meeting with me


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.


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STRICT MISTRESS SEEKS SISSY MAID Female 62 from Lymington, UK

MAID POSITION AVAILABLE It’s easier to tell you what I’m not looking for really which is a quick fling, mind games (I’d win ) or time wasters… What I am looking for is a long term loyal, fun, relationship with a maid who knows how to treat a Mistress and isn’t afraid - well maybe a tad, to allow her to take complete control.  I have a large circle of good friends and am very social, I enjoy being on the water sailing, cafe hopping, chilled white wine and cooking, to the outside World I seem a delight, the sort of lady your Mother would approve of…I’m a compassionate, intelligent, curvy, who loves nature, the ocean, and importantly animal welfare. I have 2 rescue cats who are very dear to me that must be totally accepted, other non negotiable points are smoking or drug use, any relationship status other than single:;If you feel you’d like to chat then don’t be shy I’m really easy to talk with as long as you know how to curtesy!!!


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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


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I would like to meet a couple for fun and see where it goes , Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I think I would like 2 bisexual men or a couple for sex


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I am honest woman with one daughter. I was married for twelve years and we had o.. Female 48 from Portsmouth, UK

J have been a widow for five years now and I wanted to be lonely by not being with another man but I have tried and I just can't control myself that way I really need a man who will love me and spend my whole life with now someday and forever


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Looking for extra fun f is 62 and a sexy bbw m 52 and dad bod Couple 52, 52 from Bridgemary, UK

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand


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