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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


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Will be happy and leaving here as soon as I find a match. Im an experienced Dom.. Female 32 from Dover, UK

You're looking for a female that is more dominant in bedroom and willing to try new things and no extreme pains,  then you can join me as my submissive male or switching roles would be fun


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I am an experienced female sadistic Pro Dominant Female 65 from Sheerness, UK

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.


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Im 24 years old, living in the Ashford region. Female 24 from Ashford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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Am here for serious relationship Female 32 from Kent, UK

I like dancing and singing and going out like being happy


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I definitely need a man who is not afraid of action. I need a man who is ready t.. Female 42 from Kent, UK

I am a loving woman, caring, sweet, understanding and romantic. I have many goals in life and one of them,


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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship


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Looking for a serious relationship Female 38 from Kent, UK

Serious,looking to meet and I’m honest and caring..I’m a very happy person


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Am looking for a submissive sup Female 32 from Ashford, UK

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with


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Married couple enjoying people Couple 48, 48 from Canterbury, UK

We have brought bedroom fantasies to are realities and looking to fulfill both of our long held desires. If any couples/men interested get InTouch. Hope to see someone soon


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Im 35 years old, living in the London region. Female 35 from Canterbury, UK

I am a honest woman who knows how to keep her man.


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Hello, I am looking for someone special, someone who can surprise me every day a.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

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I hope to find something serious and meaningful. Female 42 from Kent, UK

skeptical about this online dating but keeping my fingers crossed, hoping to find someone who wants to spoil me, I'm a good cook, hate dirt, over a good cup of coffee, like nice perfumes, healthy, i do have a sense of humor and enjoy life as it is.


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Hi dear, ive been anticipating the day a loyal sub will come my way and please .. Female 43 from Canterbury, UK

A dominate young lady looking for a loyal sub, age is not a limit


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Fully bisexual and versatile. MMF MFF Female 33 from Garlinge, UK

Anything and everything. No limits but respectful of others.


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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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Couple looking for events, threesomes and voyeurism Couple 33, 33 from Folkestone, UK

New to the scene couple looking to find places to play with others


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I Dont bite feel free to text me and I will reply ...looking to meet someone lo.. Female 44 from Kent, UK

Candy love sweet caring understanding. . . . always sexy and smiling


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I’m a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 26 from Kent, UK

I’m a cool and calm lady into feltish things I love it very hard and I love a caring and a very submissive man to serve under me


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Things have changed but I still want to talk dirty and get so wet Female 41 from Kent, UK

I'm 41 years old, such a slut currently pregnant but want to hear what you want to do to this horny slut


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Looking for a fucking buddy dom Female 29 from Sutton Valence, UK

Am single never married  and love sex a lot love dom


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Mistress Susan and here to have fun with my lovely sub and take him away Female 24 from Canterbury, UK

Very tall and sexy
Very disciplined well mistress


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Looking for male to join us in some sexy fun!! Couple 36, 27 from Canterbury, UK

Young and fun love to live life and everything that comes with it!


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Hi meeting new people I love and to play Female 51 from Kent, UK

Having fun when playing naked.
I love cuddles I rough play


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I’m Elizabeth I’m looking for a dominant to have good sex fun with Female 27 from Canterbury, UK

I’m Elizabeth I’m looking for a dominant to have good sex fun with


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