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Love is the key to happiness to me Let’s have fun together Tiptree, UK , 60

I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Southend-on-sea, UK , 48

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person

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am MISTRESS Dominatrix, Scottish born & bred . I can be softly spoken, kind & se.. Chelmsford, UK , 37

mistress love to explore with her loyal sub....this bdsm sexual lifestyle  discreetly

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Dagenham, UK , 37

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

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We are a couple looking for couples females and males Romford, UK , 19, 19

F 18 m 42 seeking open-minded fun  mfmf mff mfm  east London can't host

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Canvey Island, UK , 47

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman

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looking for fun explore new things Bishops Strotford, UK , 30

massages touch and exploring new things ! excitment !

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I’m here intrested in bdsm lifestyle and also available for hook up Southend-on-sea, UK , 28

I’m so much interested in this Dominant lifestyle and love to hook up most time to check more about my fantasy Dm

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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Southend-on-sea, UK , 26

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.

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I am an attentive lover, always looking to satisfy all of my partner’s needs, so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 27

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Canvey Island, UK , 47

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.

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I’m a lively lady fun to chat and to be with. Let’s get to know each other and s.. Colchester, UK , 26

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 65 to explore naughtiness together with.

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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Im 24 years old, living in the Romford region. Romford, UK , 24

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Chelmsford, UK , 57

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x

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Im 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region. Rayleigh, UK , 52

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.

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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Dagenham, UK , 47

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs.  Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men

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looking for fun and the new experience Romford, UK , 40, 40

Interesting, just a couples single man’s not interesting

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

Thanks.

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Looking for something serious and fun Benfleet, UK , 36

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.

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Heyyyy interested in new things, Southend-on-sea, UK , 39

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.

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Im 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region. Dagenham, UK , 47, 47

I'm 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 18 and 60.

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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Chelmsford, UK , 24

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.

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Love bi sex....watching each other... Bj Southend-on-sea, UK , 64, 62

Very dirty couple,love bi blow jobs wanking and fucking

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