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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Southend-on-sea, UK , 29

Ask me anything you might want to know. Just a dm away

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Im looking for something ongoing and hopes it becomes something serious and per.. Chelmsford, UK , 51

I'm Mistress Eliza and I'm looking for a lil lost kinky sub to train to become that perfect sissy slut for me

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Love is the key to happiness to me Let’s have fun together Tiptree, UK , 60

I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………

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I am looking for someone who can be not only my lover, but also my best friend, .. Canvey Island, UK , 37

I like new people and new places that is why I am on this one of the best dating sites among the other Ukrainian girls. I appreciate family values very much

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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Canvey Island, UK , 51

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life

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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Chelmsford, UK , 31

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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To meet women who like sex with men. Latchingdon, UK , 70

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.

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Looking for something serious and fun Benfleet, UK , 36

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.

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I’m a lively lady fun to chat and to be with. Let’s get to know each other and s.. Colchester, UK , 26

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 65 to explore naughtiness together with.

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Upminster, UK , 25

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

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Sexy , attractive, open minded couple looking for the right men , women and coup.. Bishops Stortford, UK , 45, 43

Me - blonde slim but with curves in the right places
Him - atheletic and dark

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We are a couple who want to explore with single males or other couples Basildon, UK , 43, 43

We are a couple who want to meet other couples or single males

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Dagenham, UK , 37

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Chelmsford, UK , 57

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x

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Heyyyy interested in new things, Southend-on-sea, UK , 39

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.

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I’m here to dominate, who wants to be my sub Romford, UK , 27

Come let mistress fulfill your desires , if you’re not prepared to submit then walk on , I’m not looking for time wasters. If you’d like my attention you need to be specific and prove yourself .

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Southend-on-sea, UK , 48

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person

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Fun daddy, sub, top, bottom dynamic seek mfm, fmf, mfmf, kinky fun Romford, UK , 19, 43

Male and female hl fun loving couple here.
Looking for some,
Kinkyy fun fmf, mmf, mfmf, female 19. Male 43. Female bi male straight ilford, Romford or Milton Keynes area PM if interested.

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I’m very horny and clingy I have a high sex drive and I will love to meet someon.. Benfleet, UK , 40

I warm cool bed with enough cuddling and snuggling when the night gets near

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I’m new to this site, I work really hard but need to play hard too! I’m down t.. Braintree, UK , 49

Hard working respectable lady … most of the time.. ;)

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Chelmsford, UK , 24

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.

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looking for fun and the new experience Romford, UK , 40, 40

Interesting, just a couples single man’s not interesting

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