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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Dagenham, UK , 47

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs.  Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men

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Krausemarie386 at geemale . Com txt me let’s get to know more about each other Braintree, UK , 42

I'm 42 years old, living in the Braintree region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 64 and 99.

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Love is the key to happiness to me Let’s have fun together Tiptree, UK , 60

I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………

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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Upminster, UK , 25

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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NOT 22 BUT 38!!!! Sweet Dominate woman, ready to explore those fantasies in your.. Colchester, UK , 23

Available for threesome with couples too. Don't come to me with false desire. Serious business only

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Hello, I’m a happy go lucky 55 year old lady, I’m looking for a dom to try new .. Great Burstead, UK , 56

I love porn, toys and watching people enjoying and having sex .

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I’m new to this site, I work really hard but need to play hard too! I’m down t.. Braintree, UK , 49

Hard working respectable lady … most of the time.. ;)

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Money excites me and makes me happy, as do gifts and holidays
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We are a couple looking for couples females and males Romford, UK , 19, 19

F 18 m 42 seeking open-minded fun  mfmf mff mfm  east London can't host

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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Chelmsford, UK , 24

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Chelmsford, UK , 57

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x

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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Romford, UK , 53

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.

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34 F and 36 M looking for a guy to have a 3some with. Colchester, UK , 35, 35

Couple seeking a guy for a 3some. Discreet, no strings.

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Sexy , attractive, open minded couple looking for the right men , women and coup.. Bishops Stortford, UK , 45, 43

Me - blonde slim but with curves in the right places
Him - atheletic and dark

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I’m here to dominate, who wants to be my sub Romford, UK , 27

Come let mistress fulfill your desires , if you’re not prepared to submit then walk on , I’m not looking for time wasters. If you’d like my attention you need to be specific and prove yourself .

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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Chelmsford, UK , 31

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Chelmsford, UK , 43

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.

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Im 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region. Dagenham, UK , 47, 47

I'm 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 18 and 60.

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

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I know what you want and what you need

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 36

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.

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cuckold couple looking for single guy Chelmsford, UK , 68, 67

we are a mature couple looking for a single guy aged 25 - 45 for 121 meets with wife would prefer regular meets

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Well Hello . Fabulous couple looking for safe sexual playtimes with couples fe.. Dagenham, UK , 47, 38

I'm Kaz. I'm white age 40 +. My fellas names Malick he's black he's  aged 30+.
We would love to find a couple to explore.
Looking for some safe fun sexual experiences. If u fancy a meet up with us. Get in touch please xxxx

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Southend-on-sea, UK , 48

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person

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You do not need to have prior experience with BDSM to book with Me. I will meet .. Colchester, UK , 50

I am a dominant woman I train men on how to live the bdsm lifestyle and also exploring their deep dark secrets fantasies

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To meet women who like sex with men. Latchingdon, UK , 70

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.

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