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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Upminster, UK , 25

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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Krausemarie386 at geemale . Com txt me let’s get to know more about each other Braintree, UK , 42

I'm 42 years old, living in the Braintree region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 64 and 99.

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I am looking for someone who can be not only my lover, but also my best friend, .. Canvey Island, UK , 37

I like new people and new places that is why I am on this one of the best dating sites among the other Ukrainian girls. I appreciate family values very much

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I’m a lively lady fun to chat and to be with. Let’s get to know each other and s.. Colchester, UK , 26

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 65 to explore naughtiness together with.

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I am an attentive lover, always looking to satisfy all of my partner’s needs, so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 27

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Im 24 years old, living in the Romford region. Romford, UK , 24

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Southend-on-sea, UK , 48

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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To meet women who like sex with men. Latchingdon, UK , 70

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.

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Anyone in Chelmsford area want to meet up with me? Chelmsford, UK , 64, 23

Sub bi smooth chastity looking for eme..

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need

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Looking for something serious and fun Benfleet, UK , 36

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.

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looking for fun explore new things Bishops Strotford, UK , 30

massages touch and exploring new things ! excitment !

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 36

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.

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Hi a friend said this is the place I should go to look for fun Basildon, UK , 40

Love to play and have fun with men online or for realz

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am MISTRESS Dominatrix, Scottish born & bred . I can be softly spoken, kind & se.. Chelmsford, UK , 37

mistress love to explore with her loyal sub....this bdsm sexual lifestyle  discreetly

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Southend-on-sea, UK , 29

Ask me anything you might want to know. Just a dm away

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You do not need to have prior experience with BDSM to book with Me. I will meet .. Colchester, UK , 50

I am a dominant woman I train men on how to live the bdsm lifestyle and also exploring their deep dark secrets fantasies

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Love bi sex....watching each other... Bj Southend-on-sea, UK , 64, 62

Very dirty couple,love bi blow jobs wanking and fucking

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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 65

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.

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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Romford, UK , 53

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.

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Hi Dominant Sadist Woman Cougar living near Romford Essex UK. Romford, UK , 53

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.

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Im 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region. Dagenham, UK , 47, 47

I'm 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 18 and 60.

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