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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Southend-on-sea, UK , 26

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.

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We are a couple looking for couples females and males Romford, UK , 19, 19

F 18 m 42 seeking open-minded fun  mfmf mff mfm  east London can't host

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In love couple looking to fulfil desires. MMF Threesomes are what we are into. L.. Rainham, UK , 41, 41

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.

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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Upminster, UK , 25

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Chelmsford, UK , 31

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Looking for young very well endowed and clan discreet guys please. Black guys ve.. Brentwood, UK , 58, 58

Needing some spice and excitement locally. Cleanliness is a MUST - I’m shy and nervous. Role play is sun idea where you can be the handyman

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looking for fun explore new things Bishops Strotford, UK , 30

massages touch and exploring new things ! excitment !

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Looking for something serious and fun Benfleet, UK , 36

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Dagenham, UK , 37

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Canvey Island, UK , 47

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.

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I’m here intrested in bdsm lifestyle and also available for hook up Southend-on-sea, UK , 28

I’m so much interested in this Dominant lifestyle and love to hook up most time to check more about my fantasy Dm

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Im 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region. Dagenham, UK , 47, 47

I'm 46 years old, living in the Silvertown region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 18 and 60.

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 36

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.

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Well Hello . Fabulous couple looking for safe sexual playtimes with couples fe.. Dagenham, UK , 47, 38

I'm Kaz. I'm white age 40 +. My fellas names Malick he's black he's  aged 30+.
We would love to find a couple to explore.
Looking for some safe fun sexual experiences. If u fancy a meet up with us. Get in touch please xxxx

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Sexy , attractive, open minded couple looking for the right men , women and coup.. Bishops Stortford, UK , 45, 43

Me - blonde slim but with curves in the right places
Him - atheletic and dark

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need

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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Romford, UK , 53

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.

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my what app Is O 7 nine, five,8 six,I,7 one 3,eight. Stock, UK , 51

I’m young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.

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Im 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region. Rayleigh, UK , 52

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.

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Hi Dominant Sadist Woman Cougar living near Romford Essex UK. Romford, UK , 53

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Canvey Island, UK , 47

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Southend-on-sea, UK , 48

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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You do not need to have prior experience with BDSM to book with Me. I will meet .. Colchester, UK , 50

I am a dominant woman I train men on how to live the bdsm lifestyle and also exploring their deep dark secrets fantasies

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