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I am looking for someone who can be not only my lover, but also my best friend, .. Canvey Island, UK , 37

I like new people and new places that is why I am on this one of the best dating sites among the other Ukrainian girls. I appreciate family values very much

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To meet women who like sex with men. Latchingdon, UK , 70

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.

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Looking for a threesome in Southend. Nice big cock and regular sex Southend-on-sea, UK , 41

Good looking men big cocks love anal sex oral sex virginal sex

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Chelmsford, UK , 57

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x

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Love bi sex....watching each other... Bj Southend-on-sea, UK , 64, 62

Very dirty couple,love bi blow jobs wanking and fucking

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New here and to all this so seeing what it’s all about Southend-on-sea, UK , 50

I love holidays in the sun and being by the sea makes me happy

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Just here for the fun. Probably would go with whatever outcome this platform may.. Canvey Island, UK , 30

I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Canvey Island, UK , 47

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 65

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.

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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Canvey Island, UK , 47

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.

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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Canvey Island, UK , 51

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

Thanks.

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We are a couple looking for couples females and males Romford, UK , 19, 19

F 18 m 42 seeking open-minded fun  mfmf mff mfm  east London can't host

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I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is inc.. Romford, UK , 29

Want to know who knows the capital of every country in the world? Me.

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34 F and 36 M looking for a guy to have a 3some with. Colchester, UK , 35, 35

Couple seeking a guy for a 3some. Discreet, no strings.

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Love is the key to happiness to me Let’s have fun together Tiptree, UK , 60

I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………

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Hi Dominant Sadist Woman Cougar living near Romford Essex UK. Romford, UK , 53

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.

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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Chelmsford, UK , 43

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.

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Looking for young very well endowed and clan discreet guys please. Black guys ve.. Brentwood, UK , 58, 58

Needing some spice and excitement locally. Cleanliness is a MUST - I’m shy and nervous. Role play is sun idea where you can be the handyman

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looking for fun explore new things Bishops Strotford, UK , 30

massages touch and exploring new things ! excitment !

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Dagenham, UK , 37

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need

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In love couple looking to fulfil desires. MMF Threesomes are what we are into. L.. Rainham, UK , 41, 41

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.

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