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Looking for someone to drain Female 25 from Kent, UK

Female dominator looking for my next sub to drain. I haven’t found someone yet that can keep up or handle it - Specialise in Findom


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Looking for, ages 24-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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Open couple looking for a mature woman for regular meets Open and honest no game.. Couple 42, 43 from Sidley, UK

Were a new couple but ate serious about each other but this is something we both want and both are very adventurous


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Married couple looking to explore our fantasies Couple 48, 46 from Pevensey, UK

Both new to the site and exploring our fantasies. We only want to explore these together as a couple so not looking for extra marital hookups. Some things we are interested in exploring:  - Mrs C being ‘decorated’ and pleasured by Mr C and other by others. - being a plaything for Mr C and others.- being watched via webcam or watched in person.Mrs C prefers to be submissive and restrained so this may feature in meet-ups.


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Im looking for serious minded person to have real good fun Female 28 from Kent, UK

I'm a simple lady interested in exploring all my kinky preferences


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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 38 from Kent, UK

i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive .. Female 27 from Kent, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship.


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Serious dom looking for male partners hookups or more. If you want to know more .. Female 40 from Kent, UK

30s dom looking for experience here with a male sub partner so he can experience new things


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Happily married wife with very high sex drive & a husband that is unwell loo.. Female 54 from Eastbourne, UK

I’m a happy working lady & you’d never guess from looking at me that I’m a very naughty busty housewife with an insatiable appetite for pleasure & showing off my figure.  I’m curvy with a large bust (40DD) & enjoy dressing up in stockings, basques, short skirts & high heeled boots. Please don’t contact me without any profile pictures.


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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


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Looking for a fucking buddy dom Female 29 from Sutton Valence, UK

Am single never married  and love sex a lot love dom


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Couple seeking fun, enjoyment, sexual pleasure. Easy going love banter. Couple 57, 37 from Maidstone, UK

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.


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Lover girl in search of love Female 31 from Laughton, UK

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i am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me Female 48 from Kent, UK

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me


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I’m a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 26 from Kent, UK

I’m a cool and calm lady into feltish things I love it very hard and I love a caring and a very submissive man to serve under me


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Hello i am new here looking for a friendship and see where it leads Female 40 from Kent, UK

Hello i am new here looking for a friendship and see where it leads


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Hello babes what’s good am new here please send me your numbers so that we can t.. Female 35 from Eastbourne, UK

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Am here to explore more fun and training my sub for more sex and erotic pleasure Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Am a dominant woman looking to train her submissive  oral sex pleasure


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I everyone am looking for serious man Female 27 from Kent, UK

I like dancing and singing and going out I like being happy


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31yr old male and 21yr old female couple looking for single male to watch us Couple 21, 21 from Headcorn, UK

I'm 21 years old, living in the Headcorn region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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Open to exploring some filthy kinks Im a super, experienced dom looking for a s.. Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate


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Adventure Seeker Looking for a Partner in Crime Female 39 from Kent, UK

The most important features of my character are sexuality, kindness, honesty. In any life situation, I remain optimistic. I am happy that I have a large number of hobbies. I like to take care of my body - I go to the gym and do yoga. I also do not forget about my intellectual development, I like to develop myself and do it in all different ways. This includes visiting exhibitions, seminars, webinars and all kinds of events. You can discuss any topic with me, because I'm pretty well-read and I can support any conversation, hee hee. So feel free to bring up various topics in conversations. I believe that I will meet a decent person here who needs love and support. I will give all my tenderness and care to the man I love. And I'll show him what true love is!


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Hi meeting new people I love and to play Female 51 from Kent, UK

Having fun when playing naked.
I love cuddles I rough play


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.


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