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I want to take things slowly but if you have a bottle of good wine and cheese at home I might be able to spe3d things up.xxx
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes
True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways.
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes
We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 51-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub
I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes
I’m easy to get along with and down to earth woman with good sense of humor …like to share jokes and laugh with your jokes as well .
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub
We are a very happy couple . we are both very horny and massively naughty in the bedroom or were ever we are at the time .we are both up for trying new things. but we have push are naughtiness really really fare and now we would like to take it to the next level and find someone or a couple to join us for nsa fun or even partner switching but have to be in the same room we both can have multiple orgasams/cum loads and in a row so if this sounds like something you want or would like to no more about plz say hi and give us a text
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam
I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
I am like a wind in the field, I always bring the feeling of freshness and new emotions. If you want to feel these emotions, I can promise that I may be the best at it! I am very open-minded and I will show you my world which looks like a garden full of colorful flowers. I am also like a fish in the water, which means that I am always feel comfortable in different situation and with different people.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Body Hair, Sex Talk
In a bid to chase this lifestyle, I choose dominance.
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Pegging, Sexual Massage
I never know what to write in this things looking for someone to make me laugh watch programs with just do normal day to day stuff I'm shy at first till we've gotten to know each other better looking for someone to match or that don't mind my weirdness
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 18-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
Hey guys I’m 25 and trying out an open relationship. I don’t have loads of experience but open to ideas.
I’d like to try a older guy with more experience.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Bukkake, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Lace, Lingerie, Oral, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism
In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay
If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys
Seeing another man touching her leg while discussing.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 50-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Threesomes
I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 70 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Curves, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approaching be bold and go straight to the point and be very obedient.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sub, Webcam
Your ultimate dominatrix, I’m new here looking for a loyal sub …need your total obedience and devotion
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-63.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys
Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay
We are couple looking for spicy ️ our fun in bedroom
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 21-35.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Threesomes
I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub
Good Day , how are you doing and how’s your day going , it’s all pleasure to meet you , Let’s get to know a bit more and exchange photos, if possible meet up for cup and conversation to see where it goes, get in touch
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Lingerie, Sexual Massage
I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
Life's so short so spoil yourself haha, it's your girl Freya always giving them the best and clean dishes to serve
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 38-58.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Fetish, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play
Active member locations
- Otterbourne /
- Bishopstoke /
- Catherington /
- Bitterne /
- Southampton UK /
- Clanfield /
- Hambledon /
- Botley /
- Eastleigh /
- Wickham /
- East Meon /
- Swaythling /
- Bishops Waltham /
- Pitt /

