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Looking for girl to join us for fun Couple 40, 29 from Wickham, UK

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Been here multiple times and Im just looking for my one and only. Female 29 from Eastleigh, UK

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An honest lady looking for a genuine man. Don’t like games or drama- Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Am here for friendship first to see where it’s goes. Fun is normal to me


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Hi all, we are male dominant and female submissive looking for other women to j.. Couple 41, 39 from Alverstoke, UK

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I am a woman for whom harmony and comfort at home always come first. Love and lo.. Female 39 from Portsmouth, UK

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Looking to exploring something new Couple 40, 43 from Emsworth, UK

When  someone  else  takes  control  of a  situation


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Hi lovely people how’s it going here Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m down to earth lovely and I treat everyone equally with lot of love


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I came to this dating site to find an adult and experienced man for a serious re.. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

I came to this dating site to find an adult and experienced man for a serious relationship. I'm not going to play games, and play with feelings!


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I am usual woman, I am giving, trustworthy, caring, understanding and romantic. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I'm a tender and open-hearted woman who dreams to find her man in life, her second half whom I will be able to live long and happy life together, full of love, care and mutual understanding.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Winchester region. Female 38 from Winchester, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Winchester region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 90.


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Single and searching. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

Looking for that man. A man who is going to make me happy.


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Hi guys, I just joined need man Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am kind and calm, I love to share and support my partner in crime am always learning new things and wanting a man who loves to hold and care for me forever


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I’m into passionate encounter. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

In a bid to chase this lifestyle, I choose dominance.


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I am looking for a man who is ready to start a family, self-sufficient , atte.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am a creative individual, highly sensitive and gentle. I always strive to find happiness even in the smallest things. I long to encounter love and aspire to be an exemplary wife.


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Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for .. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for a long term serious and honest relationship with the end result is marriage


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Im 55 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 55 from Southampton, UK

I'm 55 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 93.


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Hopefully and looking forward to find someone honest and sincere Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m called Angelina  from Southampton uk, have no children never been married as well.


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I adore action, dancing, new emotions and unforgettable impressions. My life mus.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I am a kind woman with positive energy. My personality is shining with incredibly charming attitude to life. I am a totally emotional creature: tiny in my inner world and a loving and caring person in my everyday life. I love life and like to make my life interesting, amazing and full of emotions. I tend to travel, to see different nations and their traditions, to try the variety of food.


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Looking for extra fun f is 62 and a sexy bbw m 52 and dad bod Couple 52, 52 from Bridgemary, UK

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand


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Im 34 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 34 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.


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I;m married and seeking for a discreet relationship on this site, I need sex des.. Female 34 from Portsmouth, UK

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We are a married couple in our late 30s looking for some fun with another couple.. Couple 38, 38 from Winchester, UK

I am a 36 yo Red headed female. Slim build and very adventurous. My husband is a 40 yo male well built with an expert tongue. We are both open to trying new things. And very excited to meet people.


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