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Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot Female 33 from Southampton, UK

Male submissive come and play your new mistress and have some fun together


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Im a explicit Dom who loves to explore darkest kinky experience. Loves subs wi.. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

If you win my heart with your sibmissive goal we can build a relationship in this lifestyles


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An honest lady looking for a genuine man. Don’t like games or drama- Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Am here for friendship first to see where it’s goes. Fun is normal to me


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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9yrs+ Teacher to sissy sub’sClasses, Task, and Dungeon visits are a Must Female 35 from Southampton, UK

If you won’t follow and obey orders, I won’t even reply you at just your first disobedience. I don’t waste no time.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 45-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Love making life easy , let’s love each other with honesty Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I am a honesty woman, purposeful, loving, open to everything new. I lead an active lifestyle, but sometimes I like to hang out and enjoy the moment, look at the world and say that I am a happy person with joy in my eyes


Straight

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Hello lovely people I’m down to earth and loyal Female 45 from Southampton, UK

I treat everyone equally and tolerate the views of others with big respect


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Hello am a loving woman, caring and I believe in God. Good-hearted and ready to .. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I would like to meet a man who is caring, loving, kind and romantic.


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Looking for some gentle spanking and tying Female 48 from Portsmouth, UK

Newly single girl who loves to try new things, music and debate both bring out my passion!


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Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sub

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Love ♥️♥️ Caring Single Female 34 from Portsmouth, UK

I Love my self, I'm good to be loved and I'm beautiful


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Looking for, ages 18-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


Pansexual

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Im 44 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 70 and 99.


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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


Straight

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I seek a BDSM relationship with a submissive male. Im open to long term relatio.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I love hanging out with friends and getting to meet new people.


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


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LOOKING FORWARD TO MEET THE RIGHT PERSON Female 47 from Southampton, UK

I’m looking for real connection with someone on here and then see where it goes.


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We are both confident in the bedroom and love dirty minded people who are willi.. Couple 59, 44 from Portsmouth, UK

We are a polite, discreet and respectful couple. Both practice safe sex. I'm 58, she's 42. We are both exceptionally broad minded and love deviant pleasures
She is bisexual, and loves to be dominant and in control. I can be submissive one minute and alpha the next, depending on my mood. She can squirt for Britain, if you hit the right button . We wish to meet couples or singles.  Think that's enough info for now. If you want to know more, then by all means ask, we have much to tell

If you like the sound of us, please drop us a line. Anyone who is disrespectful will be ignored or blocked.


Straight, Bisexual

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Submissive slut that loves giving oral pleaaure Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

I am a submissive slut that loves giving oral sex. Message me to find out more


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Exhibitionism, Sub

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Im a mom mistress, I love to dominate and get things done my way, looking for a.. Female 48 from Southampton, UK

Life's so short so spoil yourself haha, it's your girl Freya always giving them the best and clean dishes to serve


Bisexual

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Need a sub who can handles my darkest side. Xx Female 33 from Southampton, UK

Your ultimate dominatrix, I’m new here looking for a loyal sub …need your total obedience and devotion


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Looking for, ages 24-63. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for .. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for a long term serious and honest relationship with the end result is marriage


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Looking for, ages 50-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature

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Independent girl who doesnt need a man in her life but needs to have fun to liv.. Female 30 from Southampton, UK

So I'm basically looking for some good time. I'm not here to waste my time so if you're not real, find someone else. I want something real and fun.


Bisexual

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Im 36 years old, living in the Winchester region. Female 36 from Winchester, UK

Findom, welcoming those whom shall worship my feet, from Winchester and beyond.


Bisexual

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Opened minded ebony, willing to explore great desires and kinky part. I’m inter.. Female 28 from Southampton, UK

I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for anything that wants dom.


Straight

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Here to have fun who is gonna take me home Female 33 from Southampton, UK

I am loving caring and trusting I will always make you happy and your favorite dom


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