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Couple looking for male to join us. Couple 46, 41 from Portsmouth, UK

We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways. 
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences, hooku.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I'm a simple lady with the quest to explore all my sexual fantasies, I'm open to anything.


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I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even if it hurts. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.


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Hello future submissive you need a mistress that is experienced and plays her ki.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am single.I am caring, honest, loving, respectful,faithful and loyal woman.i don’t cheat.


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My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. Theres so much to this.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Female 36 from Winchester, UK

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.


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Let’s explore our fantasies and care for our lonely hearts . Female 44 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m easy to get along with and down to earth woman with good sense of humor …like to share jokes and laugh with your jokes as well .


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I like art, stitch and harry potter Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

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Looking for male or female for fun with my partner Couple 43, 43 from Southampton, UK

Anything goes so looking to meet open minded people to have fun with. Can travel or accommodate. She more than happy to dress up an will tell you what she wants


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

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Looking to exploring something new Couple 40, 43 from Emsworth, UK

When  someone  else  takes  control  of a  situation


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Im 37 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
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Hi lovely people how’s it going here Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m down to earth lovely and I treat everyone equally with lot of love


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I’m honest new here looking for anything Goes, I’m not upgraded so do the needfu.. Female 41 from Portsmouth, UK

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Let’s get to know each other better Female 35 from Southampton, UK

I’m here looking for fun and if possible a relationship so if you’re interested message me and let’s get to know each other better


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Im 46 years old, looking for love xx Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I'm 46 years old. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.


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Couple looking to explore some more. Couple 66, 63 from Gosport, UK

We both enjoy sex in the company of or with others. We are looking for males/females and couples who can accommodate.


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Im a mom mistress, I love to dominate and get things done my way, looking for a.. Female 48 from Southampton, UK

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Hi, I’m silvia from southampton, I have been single for a while so my friend int.. Female 56 from Southampton, UK

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Just here for fun don’t mess with me Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I'm 25 years old, I'm interested in meeting a couple or a men aged between 18 and 72.


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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 43 from Southampton, UK

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