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Looking to meet new friends and have fun and see where it takes us. Couple 40, 40 from Portsmouth, UK

Love to get to know people for fun and sexy discreet meet ups. Preferred cockold but could be open to other options.Looking to meet up out and have fun and get to know each other before possibly taken it further if everyone is happy!! NotInto just meet ups in hotels would like to get to know you a bit better first!!Please nobody over 50. Do not message me if you are 50 or over


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Im a mistress Love been in charge Female 51 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm looking to find an experience or new to the life style sub who enjoys pushing boundaries


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Couple looking for male to join us. Couple 46, 41 from Portsmouth, UK

We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways. 
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.


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Looking for a serious friendship that can lead me somewhere Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Single looking for love and care a man that l can spend my time with


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Pretty lovely and cool to stick around. Female 34 from Southampton, UK

A mistress always ready to guide and direct her subs.


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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

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Let’s get to know each other better Female 35 from Southampton, UK

I’m here looking for fun and if possible a relationship so if you’re interested message me and let’s get to know each other better


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Don’t be shy to text let’s get naughty together and have fun. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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Very naughty and adorable and I’m search of a relationship Female 39 from Southampton, UK

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Am just free to everyone who wants to know me but I don’t want games Female 39 from Southampton, UK

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Not Age IS Important in Relationships, But Understanding. My man is: a good open.. Female 50 from Southampton, UK

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I am a woman for whom harmony and comfort at home always come first. Love and lo.. Female 39 from Portsmouth, UK

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If I could grant 2 of your wishes, what would you wish for? Female 30 from Portsmouth, UK

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A new-ish sub, new to the area. Female 68 from Southsea, UK

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I am looking for a man who is ready to start a family, self-sufficient , atte.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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Hey hey heyFun single woman looking to have a good time and want to experiment .. Couple 49, 48 from Gosport, UK

Good fun female  who is laid back and fun, clean obviously We are looking for a bi male to interact with Mr mainly for my pleasure but both, also open to a couple We are new to this but very open minded to right make or couple


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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

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Looking out for a loyal trustworthy sub Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

Open minded, here mainly for a loyal and committed sub, distance is not really a problem if we understand each other


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Well I’m on here looking for true long and long term relationships that can lead.. Female 41 from Portsmouth, UK

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