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Looking for a submissive male in need for a mistress Female 33 from Southampton, UK

What I truly love, is to be in control! What you need to do, is to give it up. It can be done in so many wise ways and it's so amazing how far it can go.
Whilst I enjoy being in control, I also understand the responsibility that comes with it, and I always take into consideration health and safety.


Bisexual

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Hi we are a fun loving couple looking to spice things up and explore more if you.. Couple 33, 33 from Bitterne, UK

Hi there this is Ben and kerry we would love to get to know you we like too have fun go to the gym go for long walks with our dog we are laid back and up for anything all you have to do is ask


Straight, Straight

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I never know what to write in this things looking for my better half Female 40 from Portsmouth, UK

I never know what to write in this things looking for someone to make me laugh watch programs with just do normal day to day stuff I'm shy at first till we've gotten to know each other better looking for someone to match or that don't mind my weirdness


Pansexual

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I like art, stitch and harry potter Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I don't know what to put here yet I'll came bk later


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I am very understanding, open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and car.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I love to have fun.enjoy a good laugh..like cooking and sorry but don't eat food out that much i love the movies and beach


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Im 53 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.


Straight

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Hi lovely people how’s it going here Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m down to earth lovely and I treat everyone equally with lot of love


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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

Am seeking for a male that will obey and be under my foot


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Im 30 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 30 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 30 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 90.


Straight

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Hey Ash here.. I would make our experience the best you ever hard.. hit me up le.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I sure would bring your wildest fantasies to life.. I love to pleasure , hit me up let’s get freaky xx


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 64.


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Heyya dont be shy to text. will be fun talking to you Female 43 from Southampton, UK

I am cool, friendly and easy going. I love try new things


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Do not entertain time wasters straight to the point ready for all the fun we can.. Female 38 from Winchester, UK

The magic is in the touch you feel the essences you draw from my presence the warmth of my body to yours in pleasuring your desires


Straight

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Looking for sex , romance and affectionate love Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

Sexy , naughty , submissive and I can dominate too


Straight

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Hello there I’m single looking for a man Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I’m a single lady looking for  someone who will make my day be a happy one, someone who i will grow old with. . . loving. . caring. . . honest. . . sincere and understanding. . . . i will not like to be with a man who cheats or lies i need someone who i will put all my trust and love on. . .


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Im 29 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I'm 29 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.


Straight

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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


Straight

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Leave no stones unturned when walking through life and so finding passionate ple.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

I wish I could write about what gets me excited but here is a picture, everyday we find our way to each other, I want nothing but sparks and unforgettable pleasure heights.


Straight

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Seeking for a BDSM partner, dont come at me faking Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I love spending my time with the people I love....


Straight

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We are a married couple in our late 30s looking for some fun with another couple.. Couple 38, 38 from Winchester, UK

I am a 36 yo Red headed female. Slim build and very adventurous. My husband is a 40 yo male well built with an expert tongue. We are both open to trying new things. And very excited to meet people.


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I consider myself one of those girls who try to achieve everything on their own... Female 35 from Southampton, UK

After all, I can easily find a common language with people. I work as a pastry chef in one of the most popular restaurants in our city. In my work, my imagination knows no bounds, because the pastry chef is the same artist.


Straight

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I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even if it hurts. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.


Straight

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Looking for some gentle spanking and tying Female 48 from Portsmouth, UK

Newly single girl who loves to try new things, music and debate both bring out my passion!


Straight

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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


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