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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 50.


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Looking for, ages 41-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

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I am a professional dominatrix. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mi.. Female 42 from Portsmouth, UK

I am a professional dominatrix. However don't pretend to know everything. The world of kink is vast. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mischievous, love spanking and bdsm. I have a lovely little dungeon that is growing everyday. Love my feet pampered and always maintained. The dream is to have a house full of devoted subs worshipping my every need and a basement of caged filth.


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging

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I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make .. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make my submission contact me on whats app


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have .. Couple 44, 44 from Warsash, UK

Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have a great fun time with..come say hi..x
Single guys are welcome but please attach a face pic with your message as it saves a lot of time..also Caroline is not a fan of beards or overly pushy men...also we prefer manly men/rugby/fit build to really slim guys - if the thought of DP freaks you out then we probably are not the couple for you..
We also might be interested in group fun with groups of guys/couples, so any existing interesting groups say hi x


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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First timers up for pretty much anything Couple 51, 51 from Winchester, UK

Message if you would like to meet up for some hard sex fuck my girlfriend or watch me fuck your Mrs or we can all play together it's our first time so we are up for suggestions willing to give anything a try


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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We are both confident in the bedroom and love dirty minded people who are willi.. Couple 59, 44 from Portsmouth, UK

We are a polite, discreet and respectful couple. Both practice safe sex. I'm 58, she's 42. We are both exceptionally broad minded and love deviant pleasures
She is bisexual, and loves to be dominant and in control. I can be submissive one minute and alpha the next, depending on my mood. She can squirt for Britain, if you hit the right button . We wish to meet couples or singles.  Think that's enough info for now. If you want to know more, then by all means ask, we have much to tell

If you like the sound of us, please drop us a line. Anyone who is disrespectful will be ignored or blocked.


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

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As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

So in any event the distance between us helps most of what we both need and desire to achieve, If the photo in your profile is genuine it does attract physically but I need more than your body.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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Love feels great but get the taste from your partner/feet worshiping, orgasms an.. Female 43 from Portsmouth, UK

Sexually practices with a well behaved partner feels more better


Straight

Looking for, ages 34-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Feet

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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Licking my pussie is a pretty damn good way to make me smile ~ Female 30 from Southampton, UK

Lick my Lips before you fuck me. What i mean is My pussie Lips.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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I never know what to write in this things looking for my better half Female 40 from Portsmouth, UK

I never know what to write in this things looking for someone to make me laugh watch programs with just do normal day to day stuff I'm shy at first till we've gotten to know each other better looking for someone to match or that don't mind my weirdness


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power


Straight

Looking for, ages 23-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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I’m looking for a passionate playmate who isn’t afraid to live life to the fulle.. Female 48 from Southampton, UK

Nature lover looking for someone who appreciates the tranquility of hiking trails, the beauty of starry nights, and the mountains.


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, MILF, Petite, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Couple looking to explore and to fulfill fantasies Couple 40, 40 from Emsworth, UK

Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even if it hurts. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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Play time to share Madame with soft man that like to leak pussy. Preferably at H.. Couple 64, 59 from Portsmouth, UK

Seeing another man touching her leg while discussing.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 50-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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Hi lovely people how’s it going here Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m down to earth lovely and I treat everyone equally with lot of love


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Webcam

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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 44 from Portsmouth, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


Straight

Looking for, ages 53-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Impact Play, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

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Its really nice exploring this lifestyle, Dominant in nature Female 32 from Winchester, UK

I'm a Dom, looking for a submissive one to explore more of this kinky lifestyle with


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Looking for, ages 70-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets

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Hi there im new on here looking for some naughty fun and fwb..Hit me up Female 38 from Southampton, UK

Hi there im new on here looking for some naughty fun and fwb..Hit me up


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

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Couple looking to explore. Get in contact! Couple 38, 38 from Portsmouth, UK

Couple in 30s looking to expand our sexlife, looking forward to seeing what’s out there


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im 28 years old, living in the Westminster region. Female 28 from Winchester, UK

I'm 28 years old, living in the Westminster region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 68.
I'm  with a Athletic body shape Dark brown hair
I drink socially


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Looking for, ages 27-68. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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M 33 , f 42 looking for couple or individuals Couple 30, 41 from Petersfield, UK

M 33 and F 42. Swap, swing, cuckold. Unfaithful wife. Group


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-42. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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