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I am kind and calm, I love to share and support my partner in crime am always learning new things and wanting a man who loves to hold and care for me forever


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Im 46 years old, looking for love xx Female 46 from Southampton, UK

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Im very kinky and love to explore really fun experiences just have pleasure, I.. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

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My world is one of exploration, experimentation and carnal debauchery Female 23 from Portsmouth, UK

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.


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Looking to exploring something new Couple 40, 43 from Emsworth, UK

When  someone  else  takes  control  of a  situation


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I am new here looking for real connection Female 45 from Southampton, UK

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
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Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man, that has a high se.. Female 33 from Totton, UK

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Im 37 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
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Here for our orgasms.. don’t be shy Female 25 from Southampton, UK

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I’m an experienced mistress and I seek a sub Female 30 from Portsmouth, UK

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Hi handsome guy My pleasure here is to meet the right man and Marry him Female 58 from Southampton, UK

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Trying to be myself and to be happy Female 41 from Southampton, UK

I’m a sensual and romantic woman who was born for love and be loved. I am a woman who is serious and knows what she wants and needs in this life. My character is kind and soft, you will never hear me raising my voice, I do not like conflicts, I prefer to discuss all matters face to face. I also believe in true and pure love. I think that I am a woman for marriage, and I will be a good wife, lets try. I believe that it will help me to find one man for all my life. I do not want to play any games, and all I what is to create a strong and happy family.


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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New to this and would love to know someone … Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
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Im 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
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I love nothing more than to be both served and worshiped Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 64.


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Looking for sex , romance and affectionate love Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

Sexy , naughty , submissive and I can dominate too


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I have a calm character, I easily forgive insults, and rarely enter into conflic.. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I like to workout. I love walking with him on the playground. I also love to be active on my weekends. I do all sorts of exercises and practices. I'm sure it's true. I manage to achieve a lot of what I aspire to. I try to think positively and go to my goal


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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


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new but ready to learn! Not really sure what to write Female 21 from Southampton, UK

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I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for an.. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Female 36 from Winchester, UK

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.


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