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I am easy to get along with, open-minded, reasonable, and generous. If youre in.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.


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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
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Im Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her.. Female 36 from Portsmouth, UK

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Im looking for a loyal sub but if youre a dom and you excite me, Ill switch t.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle


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Hiya there this is Ben and kerry Couple 33, 33 from Bitterne, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Bitterne region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 30 and 55.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Muscular body shape Dark brown hair
I drink socially I smoke


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Just getting started would like couples to show me the way Female 39 from Woolston, UK

I enjoy being told, watched and filmed. I would like to explore so much more


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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 44 from Portsmouth, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


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I love nothing more than to be both served and worshiped Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.


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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences, hooku.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I'm a simple lady with the quest to explore all my sexual fantasies, I'm open to anything.


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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m not insearch of a perfect partner as long as you can obey me and worship my body, I’m willing to accept you as mime. If you’re a first times who wish to be dominated by me you should message me away


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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


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Im 46 years old, looking for love xx Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I'm 46 years old. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.


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Couple looking to explore some more. Couple 66, 63 from Gosport, UK

We both enjoy sex in the company of or with others. We are looking for males/females and couples who can accommodate.


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Im 22 years old, living in the Southsea region. Female 22 from Southsea, UK

I'm 22 years old, living in the Southsea region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 33.


Bisexual

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Looking for a honest and caring man to be with and a man who performs well in be.. Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I like cooking and trying new recipes because I will be opening a restaurant soon....


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I am a professional dominatrix. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mi.. Female 42 from Portsmouth, UK

I am a professional dominatrix. However don't pretend to know everything. The world of kink is vast. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mischievous, love spanking and bdsm. I have a lovely little dungeon that is growing everyday. Love my feet pampered and always maintained. The dream is to have a house full of devoted subs worshipping my every need and a basement of caged filth.


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Hello there I’m single looking for a man Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I’m a single lady looking for  someone who will make my day be a happy one, someone who i will grow old with. . . loving. . caring. . . honest. . . sincere and understanding. . . . i will not like to be with a man who cheats or lies i need someone who i will put all my trust and love on. . .


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I’m seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my control Female 37 from Westhampnett, UK

Online sub come and play with your new mistress and let’s have a good day together


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Hey there I’m Cindy by name and I’m new on here Female 42 from Southampton, UK

I’m seeking for something nice and anything goes I will love us to get to know each other better if you have geeeemal


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Horny couple looking for funn Couple 27, 38 from Havant, UK

Young couple easy to get on with and looking to explore


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Im 53 and my partner is 42. Taking our time to make new friends and enjoy life. Couple 53, 42 from Portsmouth, UK

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Im looking for love! Im not here to play with me! Im very easy-going person, .. Female 38 from Lurgashall, UK

I made a decision for myself that I want to build a relationship that will last forever, that is, my search is a very serious goal and for this I want to say that I want to be with a man who really wants to build a relationship forever. For me it is important to have a good friend by my side who would be a reliable support in my life and with whom I can share all beautiful and hard sides of our life together.


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Am just free to everyone who wants to know me but I don’t want games Female 39 from Southampton, UK

Am here trying to see what the best this site can bring out. Am just simple person


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