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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship,  Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  faeces,  or pain.


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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


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Seeking the gift of subs as he pleases me Female 33 from Southampton, UK

With m an you will find dominance in all e do aspects


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Do not entertain time wasters straight to the point ready for all the fun we can.. Female 38 from Winchester, UK

The magic is in the touch you feel the essences you draw from my presence the warmth of my body to yours in pleasuring your desires


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I am easy to get along with, open-minded, reasonable, and generous. If youre in.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.


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Very naughty and adorable and I’m search of a relationship Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I love and also get naughty when with my love and also I love caring men


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Pretty lovely and cool to stick around. Female 34 from Southampton, UK

A mistress always ready to guide and direct her subs.


Bisexual

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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.


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Hi guys, I just joined need man Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am kind and calm, I love to share and support my partner in crime am always learning new things and wanting a man who loves to hold and care for me forever


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I;m married and seeking for a discreet relationship on this site, I need sex des.. Female 34 from Portsmouth, UK

I;m married and seeking for a discreet relationship on this site, I need sex desperately


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As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

So in any event the distance between us helps most of what we both need and desire to achieve, If the photo in your profile is genuine it does attract physically but I need more than your body.


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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My secret desire is to be ravished, lovingly and given the chance to pleasure yo.. Female 43 from Southampton, UK

I'm an open minded woman. I like hiking, ski, cananda snow ski pro. always on birth control. 43 yrs old Southampton ready to meet and ready accommodate on arrangements. scumbags stay off. show me the side you don't get show people


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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Female 36 from Winchester, UK

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.


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Female 27 and male 33 looking for someone to connect with Couple 27, 33 from Salisbury, UK

We both enjoy gaming. Him ps4 me ps4 and switch.Both like to read and enjoy


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I have a very good and kind heart. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

I love music and everything related to music I also love to travel and have visited many countries.


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Im 46 years old, looking for love xx Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I'm 46 years old. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.


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Am fun to be with and cool to handle Female 43 from Salisbury, UK

Looking for some time to mingle with the best ,and some relaxing moment


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Play time to share Madame with soft man that like to leak pussy. Preferably at H.. Couple 64, 59 from Portsmouth, UK

Seeing another man touching her leg while discussing.


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Im 43 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 43 from Southampton, UK

I'm 43 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 89.


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Me and my male partner looking for girl to join to us in the bed for a fun time Couple 33, 43 from Sandown, UK

We are so open ask me im message ! Really would like the nice 'play' and just enjoy the time but together !!


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Im looking for a loyal sub but if youre a dom and you excite me, Ill switch t.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle


Bisexual

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Im 44 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 70 and 99.


Straight

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Wild side explorer, you gon enjoy your time with me Female 27 from Southampton, UK

Miracles happen when you Do what makes you happy ..


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I’m an experienced mistress and I seek a sub Female 30 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m dominant , experienced , kinky ,  I’m experienced


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