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Been here multiple times and Im just looking for my one and only. Female 29 from Eastleigh, UK

I've been indulge in BDSM for almost 5 years now and I'm looking for someone with the same interest.


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45 curvy plus size Chunky but Funky.. Fun loving Glass half full kinda gal open .. Female 45 from Fareham, UK

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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power


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I am new here looking for real connection Female 45 from Southampton, UK

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 59 and 99.


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Submissive slut that loves giving oral pleaaure Female 45 from Portsmouth, UK

I am a submissive slut that loves giving oral sex. Message me to find out more


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Not Age IS Important in Relationships, But Understanding. My man is: a good open.. Female 50 from Southampton, UK

Appearance and age are not important. And I don't think that age difference between us should be a barrier, the most important thing is for us to be sure if we really find understanding, happiness trust, faith and joy within each other


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Im 39 years old, living in the Salisbury region. Female 39 from Salisbury, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Salisbury region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot


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Just here for fun don’t mess with me Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I'm 25 years old, I'm interested in meeting a couple or a men aged between 18 and 72.


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Opened minded ebony, willing to explore great desires and kinky part. I’m inter.. Female 28 from Southampton, UK

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looking for someone i can call Female 48 from Salisbury, UK

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Im new on here ,looking for my perfect match.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

I'm generous,kind ,sincere ,loyal , modest ,trust wealthy


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Looking for discreet matches with the right one. Im married and I need to be ca.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 50.


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I adore action, dancing, new emotions and unforgettable impressions. My life mus.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

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I seek a BDSM relationship with a submissive male. Im open to long term relatio.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I love hanging out with friends and getting to meet new people.


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We are both shy to start with but Im a straight male and my partner is bisexual.. Couple 44, 43 from Woolston, UK

Ask and find out as both have high sex drive and always on look out for another women to join us


Straight, Bisexual

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A new-ish sub, new to the area. Female 68 from Southsea, UK

I met a Dominant man online a while back, and he ignited a spark in me. I've been engaged in online Dom/sub play ever since. I'd love to find a physical partner. Seeking companionship, intelligent conversation and fun. NSA.


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A woman embracing her dominant side seeks a dedicated submissive partner open to.. Female 51 from Southampton, UK

I am here to satisfy your needs; simply remain loyal and devote yourself to pleasing me, observing as I transform your fantasies into reality.


Straight

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New to this and would love to know someone … Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 85.


Straight

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I`m very calm and positive person. I try to live always with smile on my face. I.. Female 43 from Salisbury, UK

I`m very calm and positive person. I try to live always with smile on my face. I`m very kind and I appreciate the same people. I`m serious lady and purposeful lady.I try to get from life everything positive and nice, because it is very important for me nice and long life


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Bring the new energy out of me and see how we fire Female 53 from Salisbury, UK

Exploring the site to see what’s here for me! Built difference


Straight

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LET ME SUCK YOU LIKE A VACUM IM BETTER THEN YOUR GIRLFRIEND HEAD DEMON Female 26 from Portsmouth, UK

I offer eat ,enticing 69 style,Bj. Bdsm, Raw body to body, cream pie ,Nuru massage, crazy shower and kissing. I love Anal,  oral, head and pussy available


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Hi guys, I just joined need man Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am kind and calm, I love to share and support my partner in crime am always learning new things and wanting a man who loves to hold and care for me forever


Straight

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