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An experienced master who is in search for a male partner to shares a genuine enthusiasm for exploring our shared kinks and fetish preferences.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

I like partying, exploring and have lots more fun, wanna meet couple for swinging and foursomes.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sub

I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like to share my love with my special man. I am optimistic, energetic, devoted, active. I prefer reasonable talks and compromises.
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-86.
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Interests, Bondage, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Mature, MILF, Pegging, S&M

I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like to share my love with my special man. I am optimistic, energetic, devoted, active. I prefer reasonable talks and compromises.
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-87.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Bondage, Cuckold, Dom, Electro Play, Feet, Leather / Latex, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, Sub, Temperature Play, Webcam

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 31-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

Nothing pleases me more than yes mistress, done mistress, thank you mistress
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 45-86.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

in for some naughty and kinky fun, my fetish includes sucking off a gigantic cock and letting it worship my pussy. lot of kinks to explore, in for discreet meets and hookup with a slut who is ready to explore with me as his mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Leather / Latex, Sex Talk

I am a caring, gentle woman who is not afraid of showing affection, being warm and tender, thoughtful and loving. I am understanding and patient as I believe that differences make us who we are, I am willing to listen to opposite opinions, analyze them and find compromises. I am enthusiastic and energetic, having flexible mind and ability to find a solution even of the most difficult problem, I always focuse on the positive.
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-87.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, Bondage, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Lace, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sub, Temperature Play

I am very economical, but help around the house in the family is, of course, necessary. I would like to live in a house where I can make a garden and a vegetable garden. Travel often with my husband. I like it when the man is the head of the family.
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-85.
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Interests, Age play, Bondage, Cuckold, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Temperature Play

Domination, submission, chastity, pegging, humiliation, bondage, discipline, sissificatin, assworship and pussyeating
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I am open and sociable. You will never be bored with me! I have many interests and hobbies! I like to actively spend time, I do not like to sit still! I would really like to meet a man here who will want to give and get back from me every inch of love and passion I have in my heart. The most important quality in me is honesty and openness! You will see this when we start our communication
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
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Interests, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Sex Games, Sex Talk

I seek the gift of submission from a sub who is willing to be loyal and submissive as I enjoy exploring kinks
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Available and outdoor , sexy and exotic, complete sex addicted
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

I’m looking for an alpha sub/ slut who is obedient, loyal, playful, coral, who lives to please. A sub body love, a houseboy, capable of giving mind numbing massages, who looks good in an apron and nothing else, I am a very sexy pervert looking woman/ mistress, Very active in participation and am ready to meet my other half, a sub to owned.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish

I love men who know what they want, and are open to having fun and are also ready to go lengths just to be in my world..
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-75.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-40.
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Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Lace, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Toys

I am looking for a sub male to please me and explore our fantasies together
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetishes, I will give you the opportunity to escape your everyday life and let yourself be fascinated and revitalized by my divine dominant, sensual eroticism. I'm an experienced dominant mistress who have lead this lifestyle for a very long time and also a loving mistress who seek a loyal sub/slav,e. that is ready to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle with me for a long term relationship, I am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, foot worship, pussy worship, nipple play and lost more, With all this side are you ready and willing to be trained and dominanted by me as your MISTRESS!? IF YES, GET IN TOUCH MAINLY HERE FOR MATURE MINDS ONLY!! loyal submissive sub whom if faithful and always tells the truth ready to serve so I can train
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Webcam

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Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

I relax with the same joy as I work. I want to find someone suitable for me to enjoy these moments of everyday magic, called life together, I very much hope that this dating site is waiting for me just such a man and my hobbies are art and painting . I'm an artist and I love art . I love different exhibitions . I am also an active woman .
Straight
Looking for, ages 58-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Cuckold, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

Straight but curious mistress.clean and discreet and looking for a submissive sweet man to train, long term relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-72.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

Hoho dom Sally here looking for a submissive sub to teach and also coach on how to be the perfect sub.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I’m available and down for anything fun, I’m fun to chat with
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Discreet Meets, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Looking for a like minded sub to explore his kinky side
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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