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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 38 from Maidstone, UK

DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

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Disciplinarian and bondage Mistress. Dominant lady with a dungeon Multi skille.. Female 37 from Kent, UK

Disciplinarian and bondage
Mistress.  Dominant lady with
a dungeon Multi skilled Dominatrix,
Disciplinarian & Kinkster
NSFW 18+ Own play space


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Looking for, ages 30-73. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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I everyone am looking for serious man Female 27 from Kent, UK

I like dancing and singing and going out I like being happy


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sub, Threesomes, Tickle Play

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Looking for someone to join him and I for fun Couple 47, 54 from Gravesend, UK

Lots of fun no strings .
He has lots of ideas ,I just love sex.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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Bi couple looking for a bi couple or bi man Couple 39, 39 from Bearsted, UK

We’re a bi couple been together for 7 years and looking to spice up our already awesome sex life and try things with new people we’ve had threesomes before and would like to have sexual experiences with bi man or bi couple for steaming hot foreplay and great sex together no time wasters please


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 19-48. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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New to the lifestyle and want to explore Couple 37, 46 from Northfleet, UK

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.

Looking for age range of 25-40

Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .

We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish

Please only message if your within our criteria


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, lets explore and.. Female 45 from Kent, UK

A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes It's true I'm naughtier than I look, certainly I deserve so much pleasure from a worth sub.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

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Open to exploring some filthy kinks Im a super, experienced dom looking for a s.. Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play

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Am looking for a submissive sup Female 32 from Ashford, UK

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Kinky couple seeks like minded couples and bi males for bedroom adventures Couple 45, 45 from Tonbridge, UK

I love getting pegged but would love the feel of a real cock and I love the idea of watching a guy ploughing my misses after we've both sucked him off. We like to dress up in sexy lingerie and use lots of sex toys


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 31-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Crossdress, Erotic Fiction, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Hello, I am looking for someone special, someone who can surprise me every day a.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Dom, Sexual Massage

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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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I Dont bite feel free to text me and I will reply ...looking to meet someone lo.. Female 44 from Kent, UK

Candy love sweet caring understanding. . . . always sexy and smiling


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Im a dominant mistress who has lived
this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Female 42 from Purfleet, UK

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage,  restraints, 
role play,  collar lead,  leash,  body worship,  discipline, 
obedience training,  strap on play,  using sub as fuck
toy,  and Each relationship is unique and the people
involved make their own rules for it and boundaries
must be respected.  In this fashion I wanna be your
permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and
only you will have me as well.


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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Couple seeking fun, enjoyment, sexual pleasure. Easy going love banter. Couple 57, 37 from Maidstone, UK

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 36-57. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

My ideal man should be older, Must be within the state, and must know that all meetings and sessions will take place at my private dungeon, Must know that this is an alternate lifestyle and not everyone is cool with it, and as such, should be willing to live this life with me discreetly


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Oral, Sexual Massage

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Black heart… Just like my soul Female 31 from Kent, UK

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.


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Looking for, ages 22-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

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My goal is to live a life full of love , joy and fulfillment . I don’t want to p.. Female 34 from Ashford, UK

Normally I’m a Dominant woman but there is nothing more I appreciate more than a session with a man of their word . Remember,I want to push your boundaries and respect your limits.we will start our time by discussing your kinks, look at the kinks I cater to and let me know the things you your are looking to explore . You can let your fantasies run free with me . I want you to get into subspecies with me , explore it deeply and learn about yourself.whether you’re a beginner or an experienced sub. Are  you not submissive at all but call yourself a fetishist and want to explore a specific fetish on an eye level I will cater those fantasies too give yourself up to your mistress let me control and leave real world behind the door  we will create our own.


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Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction

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Do you fantasize about being made to dress like a woman, look like a woman, thin.. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

Do you fantasize about being made to dress like a woman, look like a woman, think like a woman, and act like a woman?


Straight

Looking for, ages 26-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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If you want a laugh and a great time, we are the ones for you Couple 58, 52 from Faversham, UK

We're who we say we are, we don't make plans & leave you hanging, we'll always let you know if change/cancel is needed PLEASE don't plan something with us & then disappear whilst we wait. We're fully aware, sometimes a meet could end up not further, either side, it's part of this lifestyle but don't waste people's time/ get them excited about a meet & then not having the decency to update. We're good looking (our mothers said it) fun & open to new things/ideas. Committed couple, married with a joy of life and the experiences it brings. Please don't approach us as individuals, we have open attitudes, but only play as a couple with total acceptance of the situation. NOT strangers to hard swap but only when together and enjoying a night, a day or a weekend. We are looking for a person/people to include in our life, so we want to connect as people as well as enjoy each other.We will call you out if you play us


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im 29 years old, living in the Shoreham region. Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I promise an unrushed relaxing experience..clean/ <br>great hygine <br>no drama <br>100% independent <br>discreet


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Webcam

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New to this will be are first time looking for fun Couple 27, 26 from Queenborough, UK

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Video themselves

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Im 40 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 40 from Kent, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Am here to explore more fun and training my sub for more sex and erotic pleasure Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Am a dominant woman looking to train her submissive  oral sex pleasure


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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