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DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

Disciplinarian and bondage
Mistress. Dominant lady with
a dungeon Multi skilled Dominatrix,
Disciplinarian & Kinkster
NSFW 18+ Own play space
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-73.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

I like dancing and singing and going out I like being happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sub, Threesomes, Tickle Play

Lots of fun no strings .
He has lots of ideas ,I just love sex.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 38-58.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold

We’re a bi couple been together for 7 years and looking to spice up our already awesome sex life and try things with new people we’ve had threesomes before and would like to have sexual experiences with bi man or bi couple for steaming hot foreplay and great sex together no time wasters please
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 19-48.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.
Looking for age range of 25-40
Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .
We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish
Please only message if your within our criteria
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-39.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes It's true I'm naughtier than I look, certainly I deserve so much pleasure from a worth sub.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

I love getting pegged but would love the feel of a real cock and I love the idea of watching a guy ploughing my misses after we've both sucked him off. We like to dress up in sexy lingerie and use lots of sex toys
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 31-47.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Crossdress, Erotic Fiction, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Dom, Sexual Massage

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Sub

Candy love sweet caring understanding. . . . always sexy and smiling
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage, restraints,
role play, collar lead, leash, body worship, discipline,
obedience training, strap on play, using sub as fuck
toy, and Each relationship is unique and the people
involved make their own rules for it and boundaries
must be respected. In this fashion I wanna be your
permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and
only you will have me as well.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 36-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

My ideal man should be older, Must be within the state, and must know that all meetings and sessions will take place at my private dungeon, Must know that this is an alternate lifestyle and not everyone is cool with it, and as such, should be willing to live this life with me discreetly
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Oral, Sexual Massage

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.
Straight
Looking for, ages 22-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

Normally I’m a Dominant woman but there is nothing more I appreciate more than a session with a man of their word . Remember,I want to push your boundaries and respect your limits.we will start our time by discussing your kinks, look at the kinks I cater to and let me know the things you your are looking to explore . You can let your fantasies run free with me . I want you to get into subspecies with me , explore it deeply and learn about yourself.whether you’re a beginner or an experienced sub. Are you not submissive at all but call yourself a fetishist and want to explore a specific fetish on an eye level I will cater those fantasies too give yourself up to your mistress let me control and leave real world behind the door we will create our own.
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction

Do you fantasize about being made to dress like a woman, look like a woman, think like a woman, and act like a woman?
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

We're who we say we are, we don't make plans & leave you hanging, we'll always let you know if change/cancel is needed PLEASE don't plan something with us & then disappear whilst we wait. We're fully aware, sometimes a meet could end up not further, either side, it's part of this lifestyle but don't waste people's time/ get them excited about a meet & then not having the decency to update. We're good looking (our mothers said it) fun & open to new things/ideas. Committed couple, married with a joy of life and the experiences it brings. Please don't approach us as individuals, we have open attitudes, but only play as a couple with total acceptance of the situation. NOT strangers to hard swap but only when together and enjoying a night, a day or a weekend. We are looking for a person/people to include in our life, so we want to connect as people as well as enjoy each other.We will call you out if you play us
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I promise an unrushed relaxing experience..clean/ <br>great hygine <br>no drama <br>100% independent <br>discreet
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Webcam

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Video themselves

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

Am a dominant woman looking to train her submissive oral sex pleasure
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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