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I’m a strong dominant woman who’s looking for a true submissive man who’s ready .. Female 36 from California City California, USA

I’m a dominant mistress who seek a true submissive man


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Call me your mistress I would love to dominate you Female 55 from Los Angeles California, USA

I love to be worshiped with loyalty and acceptance


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am here looking for fun same times something serious to see where this will take.. Female 38 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work right?


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Not like the other girls, in so many ways Female 55 from Orange California, USA

I see so many humans, so little humanity...where have all the real people gone?
I am a submissive, anyone looking for a Femdom please look elsewhere. I am in Orange County California, currently I can only respond to individuals in my area. Thank you
I am not a very important person, I am unable to read messages. Please don’t think that I am intentionally ignoring ANYONE


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A HONEST AND TRUSTWORTHY AND HERE TO TRAIN A SERIOUS SUBMISSIVE Female 32 from Los Angeles California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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I am kind of new to this site and still trying to find how it works.. I am kind, caring, and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. After one hurt I have better understanding bout how to love a man. Everybody has a past. It makes ourselves better from the experiences. Let's memorize al the good things, cherish what we have right now and create a cozy home together.


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Looking for a loyal Sub from the age 40-70, Im very adventurous and I& love to .. Female 42 from California City California, USA

I love to express myself through different mediums, I love communication and attention always


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 39 from San Diego California, USA

I am Emma Jay, and it's imperative to address me as Mistress. With several years of professional Dominatrix experience in Brisbane, I prioritize genuine encounters over fixed menus. While I lean towards organic experiences, here's a brief glimpse into my expertise, encompassing Latex fetish and worship, diverse Bondage techniques (utilizing chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and the art of indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other refined skills.


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Dominant well reserved mistress in for training and exploring the kinkiest part .. Female 35 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm sexy mistress Susan ready to teach and explore this lifestyle with a submissive who is willing to learn the most interesting part of the lifestyle


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IM A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AND EXPLORE WIT.. Female 30 from Los Angeles California, USA

I’m into  feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  crossdresser, trampling,  cuckold submissive alot of things real
My limit are like blood,  faeces ,  or extreme pain.


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I love it hard crazy, rough and i just cant wait to have those moments with tha.. Female 38 from Palos Verdes Peninsula California, USA

I love to cuddle a lot and always ready to learn something new. Older matured men attract me more because I know I will learn from them. I have a high Sx drive and love to cuddle a lot. I love to explore new fantasies. I enjoy freakky crazy rough Sx and hope i meet a man who love Sx as much as i do. Make me happy and my entire body will be all yours. I can't reply to paide members so go straight to how i can reach you when you message if you are a paide member please.


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I’m a cool independent lady Female 42 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I love fun a lot and love to party and dance and I also love hicking


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I’M A DOM THAT WANT TO BE IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING Female 35 from Malibu California, USA

I’m a DOM,I have been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that’s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!
I’m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair w firm hand great kisser/lover! 
I LUV giving oral & anal pleasures mixed w passionate kisses bondage & spankings!


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I am looking for that special oolder one who will rekindle the flame of passion .. Female 26 from California City California, USA

BDSM lifestyle enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive to me


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Hi there, I care for a chat and see where it goes.. Female 38 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am a simple girl who enjoys a simple life.I’m honest,caring and understanding..


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I’m single lady with two kids and I’m looking for a serious relationship and tru.. Female 43 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Looking for a willing and ready sub to try out bdsm fetishes lifestyle with Female 25 from Orange California, USA

I’m a sweet dom, looking to make magic happen and also looking for a sub to try out kinks and fetish with. Don’t let procrastination hold down
You can make that move


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Being loyal without illusions, and for that reason you shall feel the weight of .. Female 32 from San Diego California, USA

I couldn't help touching myself yet another time. Are you ready to get kinky with me.


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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. So, you.. Female 30 from Los Angeles California, USA

As you may have seen on My profile on the site, I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way.


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I happy to be on this site. I am new to this site i would be glad if i find my l.. Female 37 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am honest. truthful. faithful, loving, respectful and caring. I hate lies and cheats. I Swear i will do everything possible  to make my partner the happiest man on earth.


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Hello! We are a stag/vixen couple, we welcome singles... Couple 47, 47 from Hesperia California, USA

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Be happy and safe,life is too short,always be positive Female 63 from California City California, USA

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Im a caring mistress, looking for a loyal sub, for a long term fun relationship Female 40 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm a caring mistress, looking for a loyal sub, for a long term fun relationship


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I am on this site with great hope that I will find my loved one. I am looking fo.. Couple 37, 37 from Chino California, USA

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Lifes too short to be lonely and end up boring, Im hoping too find true love o.. Female 43 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm the girl you don't want to stop talking to.I believe with honesty and patience a strong relationship can be built.


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