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No longer engaged... need cheering up lol Female 35 from Las Vegas, Nevada

Recently broke of my engagement and will admit am missing a man's touch. Up for some dates to take my mind of it.


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Love from the other side feels good Female 37 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm friendly, easy going, fun to be with, I have a good sense of humor, I love the beach, I also love traveling and I would like to have a dom I can be submissive to and we could travel places together and have fun both erotic and fantasies.


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Hi I’m Telly! I’m a brat who just wants to be a brat! Female 29 from Riverside California, USA

I’m a single working mother. I like to have fun and push the boundaries. I enjoy conversations and the chase.


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i went online cause i am not the type to look for men in bars no clubs  and besi.. Female 49 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am Beth by name,40yearw old, From baitmore Maryland. I stand 5''8 tall. Black hairs/blue eyes, I am Divorced, I had My Master Degree's in Sales & Marketing System, In Charles Darwin University Australia, My dad is from Australia, while my Mom is from the States, So i relocated back here in ,San Diego CA, i love it here, I am Self Employed, I am into Sales and the Suppliers of Ceramic Arts and Galleries work. I love what i do for a living.


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Hi there I’m looking for a very loyal Female 32 from Whittier California, USA

I’m looking to meet a serious minded sv that understands what it means to serve a great goddess like me . It doesn’t matter if you’re a newbie or experienced. I’ll simply mold you to serve me my own way


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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 35 from California Hot Springs California, USA

A Dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding malesub to own and coller on in the bdsm lifestyle


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Im 48 years old, living in the Palm Springs region. Female 48 from Palm Springs California, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Palm Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 85.


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Traveling , reading books , spending time in nature , barbecue , hiking , horseb.. Female 41 from Santa Monica California, USA

I came to this dating site to find an adult and experienced man for a serious relationship.I'm not going to play games, and play with feelings!I'm not at the age to waste time on such things!I need a real and sincere relationship.For me, there are no borders in the form of oceans and thousands of kilometers.I'm ready to come to my ma .If you are looking for a woman with serious intentions and prefer real life,then let's start something big.I grew up in a very good family with very high moral standards!I am ready to do everything for my man and family, because I am sure that family is the greatest treasure of all people.I am not a conflicted person,I like an open discussion,I do not like to hide my feelings.


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I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its issues. Am honest.. Couple 40, 40 from Los Angeles California, USA

am a cute caring lovable woman who is into anything really at this point in my life, whether it be a serious relationship or just Dating, but know my ultimate goal is to find a mate though.


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 39 from San Diego California, USA

I am Emma Jay, and it's imperative to address me as Mistress. With several years of professional Dominatrix experience in Brisbane, I prioritize genuine encounters over fixed menus. While I lean towards organic experiences, here's a brief glimpse into my expertise, encompassing Latex fetish and worship, diverse Bondage techniques (utilizing chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and the art of indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other refined skills.


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I am quite a very interesting mistress you would love to get acquainted with...I.. Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am quite a very interesting mistress you would love to get acquainted with...I love meeting new people exploring new things and lots more .. am ready to meet an arrangement and teach sub all that he needs to know about the bdsm lifestyle as well as exploring his fantasies. We can text more privately and an arrangement for a nice discreet place to and explore together if you’re serious and ready.


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I have been a mistress for more than 15 years now and I am an active member of a.. Female 39 from California City California, USA

I'm experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that¡¯s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!


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I want Someone calm if you want to talk to me both inside and outside ,honesty, .. Female 29 from Newberry Springs California, USA

I want someone to love me for me and me alone and not love me for what I do for them cause I give it all when it comes to a relationship and always there for my man, if he does this, I will treat him like no woman as ever I treated him and make him my one and only Love. Mostly


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Fun Is love and I want to meet an extraordinary people like me Female 33 from Irvine California, USA

Fun to be with and very happy, friendly and a lotss


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Hey there, we might have some common interests so feel free to talk to me... Female 39 from Anaheim California, USA

I'm a woman who radiates kindness touches hearts effortlessly, generosity and consideration uplift those around me, creating an environment filled with warmth and love. I am sociable, reliable and I'm not afraid of obstacles and also ready to solve any difficulty in life.


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Seeking a connection thats both captivating and prosperous☺️✅ Female 27 from Palm Springs California, USA

I'm 27 years old, living in the Palm Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 70.


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Seeking for BDSM submissive male to explore my desire Female 25 from San Diego California, USA

Masters are involved in many BDSM, newbies are welcome


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Im 37 years old, living in the California City region. Female 37 from Los Angeles California, USA

Hello guys my name is faustina but you can simply call me Tina 41 years of age


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I’M A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND EXPLORE IN THIS LIIFESTYLE Female 40 from Las Vegas Nevada, USA

Am a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized


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First time player, starting slow but eager Female 36 from Placentia California, USA

I’d like to explore the sub position. I started but my dom disappeared. I’m such a good girl, obedient. I’d like to learn more


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Im ready to make you explore new areas of fun and enjoyable moment just hit me u.. Female 30 from Pasadena California, USA

I'm danniellie always happy and God-fearing I hate lie and cheating


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For he was aware of the great secret of life: Women dont look for handsome men... Female 38 from Riverside California, USA

was just like any other mistress; and the charm of novelty, falling down slowly like a dress, exposed only the eternal monotony of passion, always the same forms and the same language.


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l am Iooking for a serious, kInd, tender, famIy-oriented man, who knows what he .. Female 25 from Las Vegas Nevada, USA

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Wanna know more about Female 37 from Pasadena California, USA

I’m available for fun sweetie, where are you , text me combine the number


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Dominant woman searching for a loyal and submissive sub thats ready to serve at.. Female 39 from San Diego California, USA

I'm an independent, honest ,intelligent and attractive woman with a good sense of humor .


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