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A DOMINANT MISTRESS HERE. WHERE IS MY SUB Female 51 from California City California, USA

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from San Diego California, USA

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seeking fwb fun and more maybe could lead to something serious Female 36 from San Diego California, USA

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Hi I’m new here wanting to meet new friends Female 38 from Anaheim California, USA

Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love.


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I am open minded person looking for fun. Female 27 from California City California, USA

I love to travel more often , I love outdoor stuff like surfing and hiking.


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Iwant a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust again and can give hi.. Female 40 from California City California, USA

I'm here and i want you to know that I'm not the types of women who usually come online just for playing games or breaking heart. I do respect myself very well, so i will not introduces myself In doing such things like that.


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i wanna date here lead to married Female 46 from Los Angeles California, USA

The first thing that you can see on the site is my photo. And the same is right now, you can see only my cute photos and rather small description of my character, my hobbies and who I am looking for! But I can assure you that by responding to me, you will find out what kind of fire burns in my soul, what sparks emanate from me and what kind of fire of love can turn out! By responding to me, you will not waste your time, you will find a source of positive feelings, emotions and pleasure. I am a very calm woman, but in me there is a passionate fire! I am a very bright and optimistic person! I take this life and every moment with a smile. I never conflict, as I can always find a good solution for everyone. I have a real zest for life.


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I’m confident but not perfect and am hoping to find that special man Couple 41, 41 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am a woman for whom harmony and comfort at home always come first. Love and loyalty for me are not just words, but a lifestyle. I am not looking for superficial acquaintances, my goal is a real, serious relationship. I am often seen with a smile on my face, because I am a cheerful and positive person.


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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 31 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Hi? Let’s get to know each other, if my user names approved you can get in touch.. Female 54 from Riverside California, USA

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I’m a cool lady looking for a love one Female 24 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Habitante de Las Vegas de 27-años, buscando Hombre Female 27 from Las Vegas Nevada, USA

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The Brat of your dreams is here. Loving, caring, but demanding. Come spoil the G.. Female 27 from Huntington Beach California, USA

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im an easy going woman with a heart of gold, be who you are Female 59 from Riverside California, USA

my name is Gloria, i'm 59 years old, i have been single for 3years now, i'm here to give it a try if i can be lucky enough to meet with my partner


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IM loyal lady whos single , i have never been before,i enjoy cooking hunting fis.. Female 53 from Pacoima California, USA

im loyal honest and faithful lady who's a little shy, but i enjoy reading and cleaning the environment especially where i live.


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Im looking for a real serious sub whos ready to serve and worship at my feet n.. Couple 42, 53 from Los Angeles California, USA

That's serious sub who's ready for a fetish lifestyle..Hi sub


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I’m a very calm woman, I love everything that comes on way… I love cooking, rea.. Female 26 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Dominant mistress seeking for male submissive to train and own is collar as mine Female 37 from California City California, USA

I Like feminization, bondage, Chasity, shemale, /panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging, anal, alot if things really
Don't like blood, faeces or pain


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Come explore my horizons .sweet and fun to be with . Female 43 from Pasadena California, USA

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I am a dom looking for a submissive Female 31 from Los Angeles California, USA

like feminization,  boy,   shemales,  panties/lingerie,   humiliation,   pegging,   anal,   alot of things really.  
Don't like blood,  or pai


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I’m pretty adventurous and easygoing with a great deal of youthful humor and hea.. Female 38 from Long Beach California, USA

I think I'm pretty easy to get along with,  because I like to listen just as much as I like to talk. People find it easy to communicate with me and that's a big reason why. I consider myself to be outgoing. I can strike up a conversation with just about anyone. But it hasn't always been this way – I was super-shy as a kid. I'm a social butterfly now, but was definitely a social caterpillar back then! I developed my entrepreneurial spirit in college. I'm always thinking of new ideas and ways to bring them to life. I'm at my happiest when I'm taking in a good show with friends – this didn't just happen, though. I've been really into music since I was a child as well as horses.


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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I’m a confident and experienced individu.. Female 50 from Long Beach California, USA

I’m blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. I can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman


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Im a single woman looking for that one man!! I can be naughty if you can bring .. Female 37 from California City California, USA

I am fun loving, great sense of humor.  Always make fitness and healthy eating a priority, but love to indulge with a great pizza and sundae!  Kayaking and hiking are so fun and I love anything outdoors. Staying in and cooking together, watching a movie and cuddling is something I look forward to doing with you!   Looking for someone who also makes fitness and health a priority, loves the outdoors, loves to laugh and have fun..


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Seeking a connection thats both captivating and prosperous☺️✅ Female 27 from Palm Springs California, USA

I'm 27 years old, living in the Palm Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 70.


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