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Sensational feeling when our bodies touch Female 39 from La Loma New Mexico, USA

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Hello I’m new here I just joined Female 51 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

I’m looking for a man who will love and make me feel comfortable


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The tip of the iceberg, there is more to see . Female 38 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Married couple here looking for SD to help us out? Couple 30, 35 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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Cultured seeking a partner who appreciates the arts. Loves visiting museums, att.. Female 39 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I am ready to mingle and for fun Female 32 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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I’m very honest kind caring and easy going woman looking for someone who is very.. Female 44 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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This is my first experience of using the dating site and I hope that I will be a.. Female 25 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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New to Albuquerque, very shy but I want to explore my kinky sides and try suckin.. Female 20 from Kirtland Afb New Mexico, USA

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Hello, I’m seeking a soul mate and a best friend to spend the rest of our lives .. Female 36 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Hi am here looking for someone Female 38 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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What month of the year has 28 days? Female 26 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I like watching movie like horror romantic while eating popcorn


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Im 44 years old, living in the Las Vegas region. Female 44 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I am a cheerful, sweet woman with a calm kind character. I like to bring good to people, so I work in the medical field. I like active rest, have a great time somewhere in an unfamiliar place with good company. I am not a girl - I am a mature woman. I do not want to waste my time - I choose to live now). I am serious about finding a man for a long-term relationship, but I think it is impossible to build something without a real date and a look into the eyes).


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Hello Im very quiet shy and a bookworm and definitely more on the sub side of l.. Female 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I love to travel read and sit and enjoy the small things


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Looking I am new to the scene and looking into it Female 53 from Los Lunas New Mexico, USA

I am 5ft 7in tall I am bbw blue eyes auburn hair.

I love being tied up. I want to explore the scene to get to know myself


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Im 41 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 41 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Very open minded couple. We have Bi experience so not off the table. Threesomes .. Couple 54, 52 from Flora Vista New Mexico, USA

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Spoil me and ill spoil you.... Female 36 from Kirtland Afb New Mexico, USA

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I am dominant mistress seeking for a malesub to train and own is collar as mine Female 25 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Just want no strings attached just to enjoy a night Couple 39, 32 from Odessa Texas, USA

A outgoing person who is confident. That is easy to talk to.


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I came out recently as bisexual after years of denial. Looking for more people l.. Couple 55, 55 from Las Cruces New Mexico, USA

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I am crystal. I want too say. I am a sub or a slave I love too Female 37 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I love being. Spanked and.  Wip and punished  iam a out going girl


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I’M A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE SUB TO OWN AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, ,  or pain.


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Active member locations

  • Bernalillo New Mexico /
  • Sandia Park New Mexico /
  • La Loma New Mexico /
  • Moriarty New Mexico /
  • Los Lunas New Mexico /
  • Las Vegas New Mexico /
  • New Laguna New Mexico /
  • Lincoln New Mexico /
  • Isleta New Mexico /
  • Tijeras New Mexico /
  • Belen New Mexico /
  • Carrizozo New Mexico /
  • Cedar Crest New Mexico /
  • Rio Rancho New Mexico /

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