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Looking for my real self through fun, exploration and friendship Female 65 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

Novice, looking for Dom to help me fulfill my life long fantasy of being a Sub.  Also, interested in regular meet ups with a man or a woman.  Casual and comfortable in my style of dress and in my life. Retired military medic, rabid Green Bay Packer fan, artist, business owner, traveler, animal lover, risk-taker


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I am a loyal person with a good heart who is willing to take risks in life and .. Female 46 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Poly couple looking for like minded people Couple 51, 45 from Durango Colorado, USA

Touch and communication, being on the water or in it, let’s hike, and travel


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I am very happy to push experienced subs hard Female 35 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

Although I prefer to session in person, I do offer online chastity keyholding. If you don't already own a chastity device, I highly recommend ordering one from House of Denial then contacting me to take over as your keyholder.


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I’m looking for couples or men to have fun with me and my woman! Couple 39, 39 from Kirtland Afb New Mexico, USA

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Im 44 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 45 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

Hi there i'm new here so do needful send a greeting


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i am new here looking for some mutual fun and a fwb Female 41 from Corrales New Mexico, USA

Sunshine in my hair, fitness in my heart, and a smile that lights the room, all this is me! I am a beautiful blonde woman who enjoys taking care of herself inside and out. I prioritize my well-being through fitness and a healthy lifestyle, but my true passion lies in the warmth of genuine connections. If you are seeking a kinde, intelligent, and adventurous partner, I would be thrilled to hear your story. Let's embark on a journey of shared laughter and exploration together. I would love to give my love and warmth to a special man whom I will find here.


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I am a nice friendly Lady who likes meeting new people who share similar interes.. Female 28 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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Just looking to have som subs send me some fun pics. Female 20 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

Dom, and pretty so hmu and we can have some fun together


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Im 44 years old, living in the Las Vegas region. Female 44 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I am a cheerful, sweet woman with a calm kind character. I like to bring good to people, so I work in the medical field. I like active rest, have a great time somewhere in an unfamiliar place with good company. I am not a girl - I am a mature woman. I do not want to waste my time - I choose to live now). I am serious about finding a man for a long-term relationship, but I think it is impossible to build something without a real date and a look into the eyes).


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My pussy needs attention any takers? Lol Female 25 from Kirtland Afb New Mexico, USA

Working too much need some fun times. Alone and waiting lol


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I’m very honest kind caring and easy going woman looking for someone who is very.. Female 44 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I very kind and always happy and I like to spend a good time with positive people, I hate lie and cheatint


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Curvy, Hot, Sexy and Beautiful Queen Female 27 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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Hi handsome, Im single I love the outdoors, fishing, hunting, hiking, and any o.. Female 40 from Edgewood New Mexico, USA

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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 38 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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Looking for a hard good guy who can make me happy and make my day as well too te.. Female 50 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I’m simple person ,love traveling and shopping Female 35 from San Jose New Mexico, USA

My friends say I am kind, loving, nice, loyal, calm and very reliable. I am also faithful, devoted and I can be a dreamer sometimes. I appreciate beautiful things but I also enjoy simple pleasures in life.


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Im 36 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 37 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Albuquerque region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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I am dominant mistress seeking for a malesub to train and own is collar as mine Female 25 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I am a communicative and open-minded person. I can easily accommodate different .. Female 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I cannot only listen but hear. At the same time I have a pronounced personality and personal point of view on everything. I am an ideal subordinate, but creative and independent enough to make my life full and interesting.


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I’m just here for fun n adventure Female 22 from Kirtland Afb New Mexico, USA

Being in in charge, I like to be in control of everything


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This is my first experience of using the dating site and I hope that I will be a.. Female 25 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

I want my life to be filled with adventures. My biggest dream is to go on a trip around the world.


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Looking for fun and curious my professional life and personal life I have to ma.. Female 51 from Rio Rancho New Mexico, USA

The water and Ocean makes me happy also love leather


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Pretty simple kind and romantic Female 44 from Los Lunas New Mexico, USA

I’m an open minded and honest woman with a kind heart. Very down to earth and a laid back person. Im not too critical about things and very much loving and romantic.


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Looking I am new to the scene and looking into it Female 53 from Los Lunas New Mexico, USA

I am 5ft 7in tall I am bbw blue eyes auburn hair.

I love being tied up. I want to explore the scene to get to know myself


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Active member locations

  • Cedar Crest New Mexico /
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  • Rio Rancho New Mexico /
  • Willard New Mexico /
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