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My Bed Or Yours Members Around New Mexico
Poly couple looking for like minded people Couple 51, 45 from Durango Colorado, USA

Touch and communication, being on the water or in it, let’s hike, and travel


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Looking for, ages 18-62. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I am a powerful mistress looking for a serious minded sub to serve me adore me and treat me as his goddess


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I am a nice friendly Lady who likes meeting new people who share similar interes.. Female 28 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

You can’t be unlucky everyday so what your real definition of true love


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Looking for a Master. I can be a really good girl, but when Im naughty I enjoy .. Female 34 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

Looking for someone I can be comfortable with to explore new experiences and continue to push boundaries with.


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Aburrida de la monotonia. Menos estrés y más feliz Female 35 from El Paso Texas, USA

Advierto que Soy gordita. Me gusta k me consientan y abierta a experimentar.


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Curvy, Hot, Sexy and Beautiful Queen Female 27 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

I welcome y'all to my QueenDom. I hope to meet a very submissive and loyal sub here. If you feel you can be that person hit me up


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Im 36 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 37 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Albuquerque region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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Looking for, ages 36-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sub

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Looking for fun and curious my professional life and personal life I have to ma.. Female 51 from Rio Rancho New Mexico, USA

The water and Ocean makes me happy also love leather


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Looking for, ages 41-62. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking I am new to the scene and looking into it Female 53 from Los Lunas New Mexico, USA

I am 5ft 7in tall I am bbw blue eyes auburn hair.

I love being tied up. I want to explore the scene to get to know myself


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Looking for, ages 25-69. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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I am dominant mistress seeking for a malesub to train and own is collar as mine Female 25 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm a dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding male sub to own and collerd on 24/7 in the bdsm lifestyle


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Hello there my name is amie Female 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

im very shy and quite and very mellow just looking to see what is out there


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Couple looking for Bi women and men Couple 34, 34 from Edgewood New Mexico, USA

Married couple looking to have fun. Must be a bi sexual woman or man who loves to play!


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Hello I’m new here I just joined Female 51 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

I’m looking for a man who will love and make me feel comfortable


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Very open minded couple. We have Bi experience so not off the table. Threesomes .. Couple 54, 52 from Flora Vista New Mexico, USA

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Were looking for a permanent exclusive 3rd ddf comfortable with their sexuality.. Couple 36, 31 from Rio Rancho New Mexico, USA

We want a good bond between 3 people best friend type situation but can also share without getting greedy


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Professional Dom, BDSM EDUCATOR, KINKOLOGIST, interest in FLR All Cucks belong i.. Female 25 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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I am a loyal person with a good heart who is willing to take risks in life and .. Female 46 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

Dancing Cars Movies Nature Travelling Reading books Biking Movies Nature Cooking Sports Travelling Music & Concerts


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I’m a kind and peaceful lady.I’m a shy person as well, I don’t get angry easily Female 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I’m a kind and peaceful ladyThis is actually my first time here and I don’t know much about this dating app,


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Looking for, ages 30-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’M A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE SUB TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 29 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, transwomen, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like blood or pain.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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A calm collected lady that loves life Female 37 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I love to travel and have fun with family and loved ones


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Looking for, ages 42-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Dom, Lingerie, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Temperature Play

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I am me, nothing more, nothing less Female 34 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

Get him tied up and suck on his dick till I have my mouth filled with his cum that’s what I want


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Looking for, ages 35-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hello, I’m here to meet a loyal and dedicated sub who is ready to be owned by me.. Female 32 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I’m a naughty Ms and get excited by your loyalty and dedication to me.Please I’m not into pains and blood, I’m a soft and gentle Mistress.


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Im 26 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 26 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I am a very dominant women looking to make a subby very happy. Don't be shy messages me! Im 5 ft 2. 110 pounds. Not submissive.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

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Im 42 years old, living in the Reliance region. Couple 43, 39 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Reliance region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 27 and 47.


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Looking for, ages 27-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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Mature lady looking for her dream man to explore with. Female 52 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

I'm that mature lady who likes to take control, aside that I'm loving, caring, friendly and passionate. . . swipe right if you want to find out more about me


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Looking for, ages 54-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Active member locations

  • Sandia Park New Mexico /
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  • Albuquerque New Mexico /
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  • Santa Fe New Mexico /
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