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Hi am new here to try something fun and naughty a regular sex buddy Female 42 from Middlesborough, UK

Hi easy fun going person looking for some sex fun games hookup hit me up let  have some fun only serious minded people no games


Straight

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Saddle up! Seeking a ride-or-die companion for lifes adventures Female 27 from Sunderland, UK

Spending time building strong social connections and having a supportive partner.


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I am a dominant woman looking for submissive male to live this wonderful lifesty.. Female 28 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I have lived this lifestyle for a long time... and i have always longed for a man who will worship everything i am.. and in return, i will give you satisfactions you  can't imagine


Straight

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Nice to be loved... I like giving massage, traveling, doing fitness, etc Female 46 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I want to find true love and a true man on this dating site. It is important for me to receive love and give it in return. I am a person who really knows what she wants.


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I’m cool but hate nonsense plz Female 36 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

Everything is cool to get me excited but hate fake profile and fake people


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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 30 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for anything that wants domination.


Straight

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Im Mistress Mary searching for a loyal and submissive sub thats ready to serve.. Female 40 from Durham, UK

Intelligent, Attractive,  Dominat,  Possessive,  Independent and Discreet with a good sense of humour .


Straight

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I consider myself physically and mentally superior to men in every way Female 36 from Sunderland, UK

I entered the lifestyle at a young age. I adore this lifestyle above all else, it allows me to be devious and creative perfect balance. If you would like explore there concepts further with me then please do not hesitate to reach out.


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I am single and ready to mingle Female 45 from Newcastle, UK

I love being around my family and friends so that we have some time together


Straight

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Hello handsome Im Barbara by the way Im single and ready to mingle Im here se.. Female 34 from Newcastle, UK

Hello handsome I'm Barbara by the way I'm single and ready to mingle I'm here seeking a long term relationship which I think it can end in marriage.I'm kind,honest,open minded and a sensitive woman. I like to know more about my man because I care.


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A cheating uni girl looking for bad men Female 20 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm 20 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 57.


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We are new to this and just looking for fun Couple 46, 46 from Durham, UK

We are a couple looking for some fun weekends only can’t accommodate but can travel


Straight, Straight

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Keep it short and sweet… no bad vibes Female 45 from Middlesborough, UK

Love cooking, traveling and mostly outdoor activities


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Superior Goddess and fully equipped Dominatrix ready to intoxicate a submissive .. Female 35 from Darlington, UK

I seek submissive men who genuinely wish to serve Me in My tempting luxurious and well appointed chamber where overnighting is possible by arrangement.


Straight

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Hello there what are you looking for here I’m only interested in subs Female 31 from Middlesborough, UK

Being able to feel in charge
Being able to take control


Straight

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Just get in touch if u fancy some fun Couple 45, 49 from Darlington, UK

Sexy under wear I like but no under wear is good just come find out wot I like not really anal but a try every thing ele


Straight, Straight

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Im 55 years old, living in the Marton region. Female 55 from Marton, UK

The thought of someone waking me with a hard cock inside me really turns me on. Live on my own and front door will be left open to the right one. All quiet... Does this turn you on too. Hurry


Straight

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Im a dominant mistress who has lived this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Female 39 from Witton Gilbert, UK

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage,  restraints,
role play,  collar lead,  leash,  body worship,  discipline,
obedience training,  strap on play,  using sub as fuck
toy,  and Each relationship is unique and the people
involved make their own rules for it and boundaries
must be respected.  In this fashion I wanna be your
permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and
only you will have me as well.


Straight

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Here, looking for a serious relationship with someone who know how to love and c.. Female 25 from Washington, UK

Hello and it was nice to meet yo here I’m Clara Werner, 47 of age, born and raised in Germany. My mom hails from South Africa, and my dad, originally from Germany, They both met in the UK due to business and they got married, and I’ve spent most of my life in the UK, But am  currently living in Vancouver, Washington, I will be glad to hear back from you if you are interested...


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My sub side has been dormant for some time but now my desires have awoken again .. Female 53 from Darlington, UK

Firstly I am in an open marriage which means I am definitely not looking for a relationship. I'm looking for excitement, fun and the desire I get from D/s. I am very submissive when I am with the right person and it is that connection I seek.PLEASE NOTE: I AM ONLY INTERESTED IF YOU LIVE IN THE LOCAL AREA AND ARE AGED BETWEEN 45 AND 65. PLEASE READ MY PROFILE. I AM ONLY INTERESTED IF YOU HAVE REAL EXPERIENCE IN D/S.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 44-64. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im a delicate flower that needs to be admired. Its been a challenge trying to .. Female 29 from Sunderland, UK

Life's little adventures and the promise of new experiences. I thrive on spontaneity and love embracing the unexpected.


Straight

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Lustful Liaisons 32 am a dominant and independent female, living in the Sunderla.. Female 40 from Sunderland, UK

I'm a local and independent dom own a residential dungeon, living in the Sunderland region. I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man suitable to own and make my personal submission


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Available for casual fun hmu xxx if interested only xx Female 49 from Darlington, UK

Available for casual fun  hmu  xxx if interested only xx


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Whatever you are. Be a good one Female 30 from Darlington, UK

A loyal and experienced mistress, looking for a serious partner.


Straight

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Submit to me.surrender that cock and those little balls to me.dedicate your life.. Female 33 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

Playtime doesn't start just minutes before playing.. It starts the minute before the last session ended


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  • Stanley /
  • Spennymoor /
  • Sunderland Bridge /
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  • Chester-le-street /
  • Witton Gilbert /
  • Byers Green /
  • Bishop Auckland /
  • Crook /
  • Shildon /
  • Houghton Le Spring /
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