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I am a cosmologist with a passion for BDSM and domination.  Looking forward to going on an amazing session

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To give one another sexual pleasures and fulfilling one another fantasies

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I like to go to the gym, play, dance, run. listen to music . I like the nature

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I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalrous man. When he likes to help me with a jacket, open doors for me and walk hand in hand. I especially enjoy going out in public with my man on his arm.

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I'm 36 years old, living in the Upper Holloway region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.

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Honesty is very important. I am seeking a man who is looking for a serious relationship based on understanding, respect, honesty, love, trust

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I'm 34 years old, living in the Uxbridge region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 99.

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I AM HERE FOR A SUBMISSIVE PARTNER DO NOT TEXT ME IF YOURE NOT A SUB Uxbridge, UK , 26

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Work-focused, looking for respectful and mutual enjoyment Hertford, UK , 44

Back after a long break to see what is going on with the site... Looking for something mutually enjoyable, uncomplicated, and a bit dirty.  Intelligence is an absolute plus, must everything else is negotiable. Extra points for an original message - I know you guys like a good copy and paste for the numbers, I don't judge, but quickest way to get my attention is by talking to me in particular..

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Im a great optimist. Life is always a bright tale for me and I try to enjoy eve.. Luton, UK , 48

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I need to be totally controlled and dominated and punished for not being a good girl

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I am a journalist and work as a TV presenter . And thats why I like everything.. London Colney, UK , 37

I value every moment of life. I believe that every situation in a person's life allows him to make a choice in which direction to move.So, If you want to try something new, I will support you and do it with you! Also, If you feel sad, I will definitely cheer you up and If you have a playful mood, I will share it with you

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Im 37 years old, living in the Uxbridge region. Uxbridge, UK , 37

I'm 37 years old, living in the Uxbridge region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 61 and 98.

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Im 27 years old, living in the San Francisco region. London Colney, UK , 27

I'm 27 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 23 and 90.

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Experienced Dom looking for a submissive male who will worship me and give me to.. Tottenham, UK , 31

I'm 31 years old, living in the Lewisham region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 26 and 70.

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Im understanding and charismatic although Im also shy; with me you wont get b.. Tottenham, UK , 37

I like wigs so I'm always with a new look. I am charismatic, open, smiling and very sweet. My family is very important to me, I would like to be able to give them the same love, care and understanding that was given to me

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Hi everyone Im mrs Sexy smile and Im here to meet someone whos more reasonab.. London Colney, UK , 43

Hi everyone I'm mr's Sexy smile and I'm here to meet someone who's more reasonable  to get along with

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looking for single ladies and couples... and all the tv.cd and anybody else who .. Islington, UK , 43

I am Esther by name new on here seeking for my soul mate. I hope you are smart enough to hold me or catch me

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an attractive well proportioned strict ProD who has a strong attraction towards .. Farnham Royal, UK , 44

If u r willing to endure hours of extreme pain. You should know the only fact of interest to me, can you take the pain until you squeal like a pig?


My craving is hurting people, getting off on hearing you moan and crying for mercy is my fetish addiction. I am always approachable if you genuinely feel you could contribute to my therapy sessions. I was recently asked if crying is considered a safeword, my response was I don't do safewords, that would be me relinquishing some control. Total Power Exchange is the game and my interest would begin at the end of your comfort zone.

My main interests are CBT

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Am honest loving caring understanding Westminster, UK , 33

Am honest loving caring and understanding beautiful

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Hi! I'm pearl vatentina, an adventurous soul with a passion for exploring new horizons. My journey lies in the realm of BDSM, a thrilling adventure I embrace strictly within dungeon settings. Let's embark on an exciting exploration of pleasure and boundaries together, ensuring a safe and consensual experience. No home visits, just the electrifying energy of dungeons. Excited to find a like-minded partner to share this captivating journey with!  #BDSMAdventurer

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