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I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.


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im a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 38 from Rochester, UK

Are you ready to get dominated by me and I'm ready to leak every each of my body


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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

I’m 45,   5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ‍♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️


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I am an experienced female sadistic Pro Dominant Female 65 from Sheerness, UK

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.


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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Couple 30, 34 from Woodham Ferrers, UK

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys


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I am looking for someone who can be not only my lover, but also my best friend, .. Female 37 from Canvey Island, UK

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Looking for young very well endowed and clan discreet guys please. Black guys ve.. Couple 58, 58 from Brentwood, UK

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I like to pick mushrooms. I like to photograph people and not only. I also love .. Female 33 from Dartford, UK

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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Female 26 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.


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Im 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Female 28 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.


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I’m here intrested in bdsm lifestyle and also available for hook up Female 28 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman


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We are a couple looking for a male to join us for some fun Couple 47, 47 from Gillingham, UK

New to this . The idea of someone joining us is a big turn on for us both


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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Female 25 from Upminster, UK

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Large lady looking to explore . Female 42 from Chatham, UK

I want to explore the lifestyle , having always found my experiences wanting I would like to explore the possibility of submission


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Wanna have fun, check me out I have a surprise for you Female 43 from Shorne, UK

Love been shown and treated good.
It brings out the best in me


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I’m interested in meeting a man between 35 and 45. There is a lot more to learn .. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

Message me if you would like to know more about me and the secrets I hide away in the bedroom


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I identify as a sparky dome , looking for my boys! Come find me. I dont like to.. Female 35 from Rochester, UK

I'm  a Dom, come serve me to bring some extra colors to your life


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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Female 57 from Chelmsford, UK

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x


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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Female 51 from Canvey Island, UK

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life


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A couple, we would like to make one of our fantasies come true. We have no exper.. Couple 50, 49 from Dartford, UK

A couple, we would like to make one of our fantasies come true. We have no experience with this. My queen..my sl...ve..oh maybe yours too!


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