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Heyy i am a sub looking for a dom Female 19 from Kent, UK

I’m 19 from the uk
I am a student
And I can be whatever you want


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Things have changed but I still want to talk dirty and get so wet Female 41 from Kent, UK

I'm 41 years old, such a slut currently pregnant but want to hear what you want to do to this horny slut


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Serious dom looking for male partners hookups or more. If you want to know more .. Female 40 from Kent, UK

30s dom looking for experience here with a male sub partner so he can experience new things


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Attractive couple, living in the Maidstone region. Couple 53, 59 from Maidstone, UK

We are a couple, living in the Maidstone region. We are new into this looking to explore our fantasy's. Me Bexxx is 53 yrs old. We're interested in meeting an attractive man aged up to 55. For threesome or Bull duties. No strings attached, discreet arrangement. Would prefer someone close to us or if they are willing to travel to us.


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Hello i am new here looking for a friendship and see where it leads Female 40 from Kent, UK

Hello i am new here looking for a friendship and see where it leads


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Explore and fill in all the missing parts of life Female 53 from Canterbury, UK

Enjoying my company and training a worthy partner if found on how to Enjoy the adventures of life (kinks


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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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Straight but curious mistress.clean and discreet and looking for a submissive sw.. Female 34 from Bearsted, UK

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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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am the perfect balance between intelligence and creativity, capable of surprisin.. Female 48 from Kent, UK

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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Female 51 from Canvey Island, UK

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life


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Am looking for a submissive sup Female 32 from Ashford, UK

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with


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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, lets explore and.. Female 45 from Kent, UK

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Swinger couple wanted for discreet fun Couple 41, 27 from Herne Bay, UK

Fun and open minded .  Open to suggestions and swaps


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am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desir.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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Uk CPL looking for local couples Couple 52, 44 from Rochester, UK

Pic swaps to start  meets to follow same room same bed


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Im 24 years old, living in the Ashford region. Female 24 from Ashford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.


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60 and 32 year old couple, looking to meet like minded people for fun timesamp; Couple 60, 60 from Herne Bay, UK

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Hello, I am looking for someone special, someone who can surprise me every day a.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman.


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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship


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Alpha Submissive Seeking A Powerful Dynamic. Female 36 from Kent, UK

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.


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