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Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I’m 30 years old, living in England, seeking a loyal submissive
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

I am submissive , ebony lady with high body drive , fetish and se3ual desires to be pleases and fulfilled , I am looking for a dominant , naughty , wild and sassy Mature male to explore , dominant and love my body
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

I'm looking for a sub to explore anal pleasure, and explore sexual boundaries in a respectful and fun atmosphere. I'm looking for regular meetings and if theres really good chemistry open to Long term intimate relationship as well
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I am an honest person who doesn’t play games with other peoples emotions. I am the optimist. I am the one who sees the glass half full and always looking for the silver lining. I look for simple pleasures and not so simple pleasures in life. I believe that you do have to enjoy life to the fullest; you never know when it could end.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I’m looking for a serious and honest term relationship
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Curves

I am a positive person, so I see life in bright colors! I am a calm and active lady. I don't like to sit at home and do nothing. That's why I always try to practice myself, develop my skills in everything.Sociable, I love people, nature, beautiful and delicious food, I like to create comfort around me, I know how to love, I consider myself a well-groomed woman, I love my family and appreciate family values. I dream of seeing the whole world in the company of my man. I love animals, kind, gentle, sincere.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

A serious sub,nice honest one ,kind , obeying sup
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets

Am single and i will love to meet the right man and have fun as well
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Toys, Sub

I am only interested in a loyal submissive to have a long term relationship with
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Am a dom am a dom don't reply any text that's not from a sub
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I always enjoy a faithful relationship and would always prefer having one loyal and humble man to a colony of men/(sub)
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

I am a DOMINATRIX and i enjoy training men to be loyal and submissive, ready to please his mistress and live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Voyeurism

looking for that kind and good honest man and try something new XX
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I'm 22 in loving relationship wanting try new stuff
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-33.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

Just wanna have fun don’t be scared to txt I won’t bite
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-58.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

In my world, life bursts with energy and passion. From embracing sports and conquering modeling challenges to creating culinary delights and striking out in bowling alleys, every moment is an adventure. My voice finds freedom in karaoke, and my mornings bloom with invigorating exercises, laying the foundation for a vibrant and health-driven lifestyle. As a dynamic young woman, I weave together the threads of fitness, creativity, and exploration, crafting a life that exudes joy and fulfillment
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Talk

I like to wear fancy shoes with tall heels, pants that fit snugly, and shirts that make me stand out. It gives me a happy feeling and helps me believe in myself more. This makes me feel like I am in control and sure of myself, which is really important to me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I am willing to try anything to please the other person
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-29.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Sado/maso switch looking for cute women to play with, and pathetic men to serve me. I am a FinDom to men but ladies may have my time for free :) I'm a kinky, alternative, tattooed and pierced kitty looking to fulfill my insatiable kink needs - not looking for a relationship as I'm in a long term partnership but this will all be outside of it :)
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 18-39.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub, Webcam

I'm looking for love! I'm not here to play with me! I'm very easy-going person, like to explore new things and don't imagine my life without adventures. My family and close people are the most important people in my life and I cannot imagine my life without them.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I got a good looking body and I’m 36 years old been searching for years now to find the perfect Dom
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

I'm a normal girl with a respectable full time job but I'm the opposite at night. Not looking for a relationship, just looking to explore. Really like to perform oral and I can squirt, if you would feel comfortable with me doing so, but can also control it if messy is not your thing! Only slept with one person and only looking for one person. I'm clean and want to keep it that way!
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

Being your mistress and making your dreams come true
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I wouldn't want to waste my time with someone who isn't ready for servitude, you shouldn't reach out to me if you are here to woo ladies into your bed
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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