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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. Peterborough, UK , 34

I always enjoy a faithful relationship and would always prefer having one loyal and humble man to a colony of men/(sub)

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DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING SUB. Peterborough, UK , 27

I am a DOMINATRIX and i enjoy training men to be loyal and submissive, ready to please his mistress and live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.

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Im 41 years old, living in the Peterborough region. Peterborough, UK , 41

I'm 41 years old, living in the Peterborough region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 81.

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Onilne submissive come and play with your new mistress and have some fun togethe.. Grantham, UK , 37

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot

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We’re new to this but looking for some fun not something permanent, want to know.. Bourne, UK , 24, 32

The excitement the rush and the power is what we’re after, down for a low chill meet up. Let us know how you like it in the bedroom give us that thrill

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I’m looking for a submissive man, as fed up with being disrespected, and though.. Syston, UK , 70

I’m a widow and retired nurse from Leicester.  I love water colour painting, visiting art galleries and museums, the cinema, going for walks, watching tv, reading , going out for meals and drinks.

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I’m a dominant mistress who seek a true submissive man. Bitchfield, UK , 36

I’m a strong dominant woman who’s looking for a true submissive man who’s ready to be trained, help him explore all of he’s kinky sides and know more of he’s fantasy.

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LOOKING FOR MEN WITH BIG COCKS Stamford, UK , 23

I'm also open to women because I'm bisexual, if you're interested in me, that's okay

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Im 27 years old, living in the Peterborough region. Peterborough, UK , 27, 29

I'm 27 years old, living in the Peterborough region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 38.

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Im 27 years old, living in the Kettering region. Kettering, UK , 27, 25

I'm 27 years old, living in the Kettering region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 47.

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I am a very kind, friendly, open and sympathetic lady Peterborough, UK , 44

I am a positive person, so I see life in bright colors! I am a calm and active lady. I don't like to sit at home and do nothing. That's why I always try to practice myself, develop my skills in everything.Sociable, I love people, nature, beautiful and delicious food, I like to create comfort around me, I know how to love, I consider myself a well-groomed woman, I love my family and appreciate family values. I dream of seeing the whole world in the company of my man. I love animals, kind, gentle, sincere.

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Mistress leena, a great dom,nice Stamford, UK , 28

A serious sub,nice honest one ,kind , obeying sup

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Am seeking for my soulmate for a relationship and see where its goes from there .. Grantham, UK , 41, 41

Am single and i will love to meet the right man and have fun as well

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I have found my Dom, now looking for a female playmate x Oakham, UK , 42

I need to to explore my bi side. As I have been a good girl says I can have a female playmate x

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I’m a genuine experienced Sub looking to be owned by a mistress Peterborough, UK , 37

I got a good looking body and I’m 36 years old been searching for years now to find the perfect Dom

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Your Wish Is My Command. Come see me lets have some fun! Kettering, UK , 29

YA FAVORITE BBW  WIT THA BUTTERFLY  ON THA BOOTY AND THA BEST SLOPPY TOP
SO CATCH ME WHILE YOU CAN ❤ FUCK THA REST AND FUCK WIT THA BEST!

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Im 37 years old, living in the Market Harborough region. Market Harborough, UK , 37, 37

Open to new ideas and generally looking for friends to have a laugh with possibly more if it feels right.

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This kittys got claws ;) wanna see? Peterborough, UK , 28

Sado/maso switch looking for cute women to play with, and pathetic men to serve me. I am a FinDom to men but ladies may have my time for free :) I'm a kinky, alternative, tattooed and pierced kitty looking to fulfill my insatiable kink needs - not looking for a relationship as I'm in a long term partnership but this will all be outside of it :)

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Couple looking try new things. Im also interested to explore more with female Yaxley, UK , 22, 21

I'm 22 I like tattoo's cocktails and meeting new people.

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We are a Bisexual couple, like To go out together, drinking , looking for other.. Peterborough, UK , 39, 39

Hiya , we are XLisaXLucyX , we both are a couple, and my partner is a crossdresser, called Lucy ....We both like to spend time away ,and be free. We both are Into drag, we both like to dress up and do our hair and make up together before a night out , be both want to make new friends on here , we not looking for sex , We are looking for friendship, loyalty , respect, and generally to meet up and party basically... we dont mind the cuddles , the odd touch here n there,  or even holding hands to kissing , that's okay,  but NO other sexual activity ,NO INTERCOURSE ..myself and partner Lucy is bisexual, we are party girls , we like to drink and party ,

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Wanna get dominated then I’m the right person for you lol text me Stamford, UK , 23

Just hit me up and find out what I can do I don’t like saying much give me a trial and you would be in for the best fun you ever had lol

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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Stamford, UK , 34

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power.

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I’m a God fearing woman❤️❤️ Peterborough, UK , 39

I'm looking for love! I'm not here to play with me! I'm very easy-going person, like to explore new things and don't imagine my life without adventures. My family and close people are the most important people in my life and I cannot imagine my life without them.

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Looking try new things as couple Yaxley, UK , 22, 22

I'm 22 in loving relationship wanting try new stuff

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I’m looking for a serious and honest term relationship Peterborough, UK , 46, 46

I’m looking for a serious and honest term relationship

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