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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
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Breath play.
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I'm 21 years old, living in the Headcorn region.
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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive .. Female 27 from Kent, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship.


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Am here to explore more fun and training my sub for more sex and erotic pleasure Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Am a dominant woman looking to train her submissive  oral sex pleasure


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Looking for a genuine friend with benefit. I really don't mind if you're a straight Male, Bi male or female, Trans either way or lesbian. I'm sorry but I'm not in the slightest interested in couples. only interested in the following areas, Canterbury, Medway (but not Strood), Swale.


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Sexy couple looking for fun with couples, women and men Couple 54, 54 from Maidstone, UK

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Im 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region. Female 38 from Hothfield, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


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Hi inexperienced submissive hoping to find the right man.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

I’m very willing and wanting to learn and please someone I will give my whole self to you


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Looking for a big boy because It’s cuffing season. I don’t want to be a sub, sor.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

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Professional mistress looking for male and female to spank Female 25 from Kent, UK

Hi am chloe who love to be spanked  i take all implements icluding the dreaded cane but
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Im 24 years old, living in the Ashford region. Female 25 from Ashford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
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Attractive couple, living in the Maidstone region. Couple 53, 59 from Maidstone, UK

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I’m a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 26 from Kent, UK

I’m a cool and calm lady into feltish things I love it very hard and I love a caring and a very submissive man to serve under me


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave.  All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Rochester, UK

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress


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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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Couple seeking fun, enjoyment, sexual pleasure. Easy going love banter. Couple 57, 37 from Maidstone, UK

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 38 from Kent, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 81.


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Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me Female 48 from Kent, UK

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me


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Im 26 years old, living in the Gillingham region. Female 26 from Gillingham, UK

I'm 26 years old, living in the Gillingham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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I am looking for an older man near me Female 66 from Rochester, UK

I came on here to find guys who like fun with older women. I may be 66 but I have not lost any of my sexual urges, in fact I think they are stronger than ever. I prefer younger guys 30-45 but that is not set in stone so if you like my profile, just say hi.


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