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Black heart… Just like my soul Female 31 from Kent, UK

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.


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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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Professional mistress looking for a male or female to spank Female 29 from Kent, UK

Hi am Sandra who love to be spanked I take all implements including the dreaded cane but my favorite


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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Female 53 from Romford, UK

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.


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Couple seeking fun, enjoyment, sexual pleasure. Easy going love banter. Couple 57, 37 from Maidstone, UK

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.


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i am easy oing person i like to laugh and treat everyone with respect. i am hone.. Female 58 from Gillingham, UK

i am can cook, i can polay teniss ball. i like to go swiming.if you want to know more about me just ask me and i am open book


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Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man,that has a high sex drive and isn't scared to discuss your fantasies or mine as well.


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I definitely need a man who is not afraid of action. I need a man who is ready t.. Female 42 from Kent, UK

I am a loving woman, caring, sweet, understanding and romantic. I have many goals in life and one of them,


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We are a couple looking for a male to join us for some fun Couple 47, 47 from Gillingham, UK

New to this . The idea of someone joining us is a big turn on for us both


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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Couple 43, 38 from Romford, UK

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 38 from Maidstone, UK

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Hi couple in bexley looking for well endowed guy for fun straight only please Couple 60, 60 from Bexley, UK

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Im 38 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 38 from Kent, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 81.


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I am an experienced dominatrix seeking a submissive male. Female 27 from Ashford, UK

Sweet, loyal, and caring mistress looking for a fit, mature man who has a high sex drive and isn't afraid to discuss both your fantasies and mine.


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Go on your knees and say: Pain is my passion, and my passion is my pain.” “I wo.. Female 29 from Maidstone, UK

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I hope to find something serious and meaningful. Female 42 from Kent, UK

skeptical about this online dating but keeping my fingers crossed, hoping to find someone who wants to spoil me, I'm a good cook, hate dirt, over a good cup of coffee, like nice perfumes, healthy, i do have a sense of humor and enjoy life as it is.


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Hello can I meet anyone here ? Looking for a relationship and something more Female 35 from Horsmonden, UK

Travels
Vacations
Outdoor fun
Swimming
Driving


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Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me Female 48 from Kent, UK

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me


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Professional mistress looking for male and female to spank Female 25 from Kent, UK

Hi am chloe who love to be spanked  i take all implements icluding the dreaded cane but
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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive .. Female 27 from Kent, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship.


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I’m very horny and clingy I have a high sex drive and I will love to meet someon.. Female 40 from Benfleet, UK

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We are a couple who want to explore with single males or other couples Couple 43, 43 from Basildon, UK

We are a couple who want to meet other couples or single males


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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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Looking for men I can entertain… but mostly ones who can entertain me Female 27 from Bearsted, UK

Hi guys. Trying to figure this thing out, never been on here before. DM Me if you like what you see


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Couple looking for single male or couple Couple 29, 29 from Ashford, UK

Couple looking for fun with single male or couple x


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