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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive .. Female 27 from Kent, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship.


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Naturally submissive woman instilled deeply in my veins Female 31 from Kent, UK

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Large lady looking to explore . Female 42 from Chatham, UK

I want to explore the lifestyle , having always found my experiences wanting I would like to explore the possibility of submission


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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


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My goal is to live a life full of love , joy and fulfillment . I don’t want to p.. Female 34 from Ashford, UK

Normally I’m a Dominant woman but there is nothing more I appreciate more than a session with a man of their word . Remember,I want to push your boundaries and respect your limits.we will start our time by discussing your kinks, look at the kinks I cater to and let me know the things you your are looking to explore . You can let your fantasies run free with me . I want you to get into subspecies with me , explore it deeply and learn about yourself.whether you’re a beginner or an experienced sub. Are  you not submissive at all but call yourself a fetishist and want to explore a specific fetish on an eye level I will cater those fantasies too give yourself up to your mistress let me control and leave real world behind the door  we will create our own.


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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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Do what you want with me. Make me feel the exhilaration of feeling acutely alive.. Female 35 from Mark Cross, UK

Shy hypersexual looking for the S to my M. I have a thing for big and beardy, but it's more about your mind. If you're f***ed in the head then I'm yours.


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Im 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region. Female 36 from Maidstone, UK

I'm 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 90.


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i am seeking for a long term relationship thats leads to marriage and other thin.. Female 39 from Bexleyheath, UK

My name translates as " pleasure", and that's what I would say about myself. I enjoy life, I love sincerity, honesty, and most of all I appreciate humor, joie de vivre, and frankness in people. I try to live by the laws of karma.


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Hey, bisexual couple looking for fun Couple 28, 27 from Kent, UK

Bisexual couple looking for some fun.
Being looked after and spoilt by a hot daddy gets us excited.


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I am New to this and I hope we can each contact Female 43 from Kent, UK

I am looking for a future man who has a good heart, a good sense of humor, and who values loyalty, love and equal relationships. I don't care about material values or appearance.


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Inspired by erotica/vintage erotic, I am a submissive seeking a connection with .. Female 43 from Greenhithe, UK

I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters.    I am seeking  a physical and mental attraction/connectio n    I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters.     I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix.   If I show any interest in you,   I will make correspondence.  NO I.  D pic NO chat.


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I’m a curvaceous lady lm a submissive and want to be taken charge of and punishe.. Female 44 from Seal, UK

I’m a submissive girl I love to be tied up with a next collar on that you can tighten to punish me I love deep throat so I can’t breath in till you let me I would love to have 2 maybe 3 men fuck me at once I love vibrating toys on my clit I like my pussy smacked and teased the roughly you are with me the more I get turned on I like my hair pull and my ass smacked xx


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Cple seeking mature bi male friends Couple 74, 69 from Ashford, UK

Love to please or simply watch others getting gratification


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Disciplinarian and bondage Mistress. Dominant lady with a dungeon Multi skille.. Female 37 from Kent, UK

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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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I like to pick mushrooms. I like to photograph people and not only. I also love .. Female 33 from Dartford, UK

Maybe it sounds too corny, but I believe in love. I have no secrets from my loved ones. I am ready to tell you everything that you would like to know! With me you will find out what happiness really is, and I will show you how to look at the world in different ways. I am sure that at my age there are many opportunities to receive pleasure!


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Im 24 years old, living in the Ashford region. Female 24 from Ashford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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i am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, lets explore and.. Female 45 from Kent, UK

A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes It's true I'm naughtier than I look, certainly I deserve so much pleasure from a worth sub.


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Im 40 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 40 from Kent, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.


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Bi couple looking for a bi couple or bi man Couple 39, 39 from Bearsted, UK

We’re a bi couple been together for 7 years and looking to spice up our already awesome sex life and try things with new people we’ve had threesomes before and would like to have sexual experiences with bi man or bi couple for steaming hot foreplay and great sex together no time wasters please


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Naturally submissive looking to explore in East Sussex Female 40 from Heathfield, UK

Outdoor girl looking to explore sexually with someone local. toys, ropes, bum slapping, handcuffs, edging, teasing, being sensual, outdoors all turn me on.  Size 16/18


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I am an experienced dominatrix seeking a submissive male. Female 27 from Ashford, UK

Sweet, loyal, and caring mistress looking for a fit, mature man who has a high sex drive and isn't afraid to discuss both your fantasies and mine.


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I’m interested in meeting a man between 35 and 45. There is a lot more to learn .. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

Message me if you would like to know more about me and the secrets I hide away in the bedroom


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