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Alpha Submissive Seeking A Powerful Dynamic. Female 36 from Kent, UK

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.


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I’m interested in meeting a man between 35 and 45. There is a lot more to learn .. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

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Looking for a fucking buddy dom Female 29 from Sutton Valence, UK

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Large lady looking to explore . Female 42 from Chatham, UK

I want to explore the lifestyle , having always found my experiences wanting I would like to explore the possibility of submission


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I Dont bite feel free to text me and I will reply ...looking to meet someone lo.. Female 44 from Kent, UK

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I everyone am looking for serious man Female 27 from Kent, UK

I like dancing and singing and going out I like being happy


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Looking for a good and romantic relationship Female 47 from Kent, UK

am a sweet and spicy lady at the same time! If you want to know more about me, I think the best way is to ask me personally! I am a very romantic girl and now I am dreaming about holding hands under the moon or having midnight picnics!


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Looking for someone to join him and I for fun Couple 47, 54 from Gravesend, UK

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman


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Im 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region. Female 36 from Maidstone, UK

I'm 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
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Hello everyone Am mistress Emily Female 28 from Ashford, UK

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Looking for something extra, message as, we would love to get to know you. Couple 40, 42 from Dartford, UK

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Am open to a serious relationship Female 31 from Maidstone, UK

I look for a caring and handsome man to spend the rest of my life with


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I’m a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 26 from Kent, UK

I’m a cool and calm lady into feltish things I love it very hard and I love a caring and a very submissive man to serve under me


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Im looking for serious minded person to have real good fun Female 28 from Kent, UK

I'm a simple lady interested in exploring all my kinky preferences


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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
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Breath play.
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44 years old woman and here to find a partner left the bdsm lifestyle about a ye.. Female 34 from Horsmonden, UK

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Im 29 years old, living in the Shoreham region. Female 29 from Chatham, UK

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Im 40 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 40 from Kent, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Extremely happily married couple looking to treat some lucky people. Single men,.. Couple 48, 48 from Kent, UK

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I dont know...just up for exploring some things -_-; Female 30 from Rochester, UK

Being dominated, tied up, told what to do, but pleasing me too


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Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me Female 48 from Kent, UK

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me


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New to the lifestyle and want to explore Couple 37, 46 from Northfleet, UK

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.

Looking for age range of 25-40

Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .

We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish

Please only message if your within our criteria


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