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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Kent
Hey we are a couple looking for some extra fun if you are

Fun and open minded . Open to suggestions and swaps

Disciplinarian and bondage
Mistress. Dominant lady with
a dungeon Multi skilled Dominatrix,
Disciplinarian & Kinkster
NSFW 18+ Own play space

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate

Looking for a genuine friend with benefit. I really don't mind if you're a straight Male, Bi male or female, Trans either way or lesbian. I'm sorry but I'm not in the slightest interested in couples. only interested in the following areas, Canterbury, Medway (but not Strood), Swale.

I'm 34 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 53.

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.
Looking for age range of 25-40
Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .
We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish
Please only message if your within our criteria

Young and fun love to live life and everything that comes with it!

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.

I am a honest woman who knows how to keep her man.

Am a dominant woman looking to train her submissive oral sex pleasure

We are a couple, living in the Maidstone region. We are new into this looking to explore our fantasy's. Me Bexxx is 53 yrs old. We're interested in meeting an attractive man aged up to 55. For threesome or Bull duties. No strings attached, discreet arrangement. Would prefer someone close to us or if they are willing to travel to us.

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out

I'm 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.

I'm 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 90.

Strict, yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism. Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica

I like dancing and singing and going out like being happy

Being dominated, tied up, told what to do, but pleasing me too

I’m 36 c long blond hair slim and my sexual desires are twosome men only sex in cars

I need someone willing to give themself to me 100%. I wanna be the sexiest person in your life.
5’3 or 5’4. Now I’m about medium size, not skinny anymore

Geeky Twosome looking to become a Threesome ! But ONLY if you pass the Mrs Tests !!!! LolShe's a HOT FIREFOX, A CONFIDENT SSBBW and He's a Sexy Slut !! You, your a Top dog who is respectable, honest and open with lots of chat, it's NOT all about sex, ideally your Geeky and down to earth who understands quirky uniqueness but you also love devoting time and energy into extra curricular activities too !! You must LOVE animals and coffee. NO TEA DRINKERS OR GUYS HOLDING FISH WILL BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY. ( No, I'm serious! .. I can't trust a tea drinking Fish holder - your plain weird ! Say after me - FISH ARE NOT SEXY )

I look for a caring and handsome man to spend the rest of my life with

The most important features of my character are sexuality, kindness, honesty. In any life situation, I remain optimistic. I am happy that I have a large number of hobbies. I like to take care of my body - I go to the gym and do yoga. I also do not forget about my intellectual development, I like to develop myself and do it in all different ways. This includes visiting exhibitions, seminars, webinars and all kinds of events. You can discuss any topic with me, because I'm pretty well-read and I can support any conversation, hee hee. So feel free to bring up various topics in conversations. I believe that I will meet a decent person here who needs love and support. I will give all my tenderness and care to the man I love. And I'll show him what true love is!

Active member locations
- Bearsted /
- Ashford /
- Kent /
- Milton Regis /
- Headcorn /
- Bredhurst /
- Sutton Valence /
- Sittingbourne /
- Iwade /
- Kent /
- Ulcombe /
- Chatham /
- Great Chart /
- Faversham /
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