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Luvie, 37 from Alexander Bay, Northern Cape

In need of a friend

Pamela, 56 from Alexander Bay, Northern Cape

Too many sexual fantasies to fulfill before hubby retires in two years, then I am back to a sexless marriage. Not into well endowed, I am petite and of very small built, prefer small to medium size. Any open-minded young guns in the twenties age group who want to join me on a cruise to the world of pleasure. Winks, and tattoos an absolute no-no ! Allways wanted to do it in a cablecar at Harties, or some fun under a restaurant table... my apetite is endless...

Sunae, 28 from Alexander Bay, Northern Cape

I'm very shy but wild when I get down...I just need a friend with benefits...r you the one?? I love sports and nature, if you wanna hv fun I'm ur girl.. Oh n one last thing my hips don't lie...

Willem, 30 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I am looking for casual hookups, I am married but sex feels like it's always just to satisfy me, like it's a chore. I'm looking for fun, something new with someone that is looking for fun and enjoys sex! I am easy going and adventurous and looking for fun! I have only ever had one partner and I think its time to explore a bit.

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