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Come and join the online dating revolution and start doing things your way for a change. We've all got busy lives and sometimes the thought of wasting time on the dating scene when all we want to do is get down to it is just too much.

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So now you don't have to. You're not alone in not wanting to play the dating game, or in wanting to get tied up in serious long-term relationships. You're not unusual in sometimes just wanting to grab someone and have an uncomplicated night (or lunchtime, or whenever) with someone who's also just there for the sex. So let's be honest about it. My Bed or Yours is just what you need to find those people, securely and safely, whether you're looking around in Free State, or spreading your net wider across South Africa, because why not?

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Still wasting your time on social networking sites or gimmicky free apps? When you need a good shag and fast, turn to the tried and tested site designed for people like you. My Bed or Yours is designed for genuine people looking for sex. Our enthusiastic community do not tolerate time wasters or scammers. With the help of our dedicated support team, we maintain a large database of genuine, verified members in South Africa so you can be confident you are communicating with people genuinely interested in meeting for sex, sharing photos or meeting on chat/webcam for some fun.

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Taking the first steps

It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

My Bed helps you turn your fantasies into reality

The first simple step is getting yourself a free account. We give everyone, that wants want one a free (no credit card) account to let them see what we're like. You can then have a look at other people's profiles and even set up your own to start getting some messages.

If you like what you see you can upgrade your account to get access to all of the features to meet even more people. We offer full searching across all of our members profiles so you can find the right people or couples for you, private messages so you don't need to give out any personal details, staff verified profiles so you can be sure about who you're talking to.

Does it all sound a bit too good to be true? We'll be honest, it is a bit fantastic. But it's really not that unbelievable when you think about it. People love sex but are usually too timid to just come out and say it. We offer a safe place they can live out their fantasies. We believe that if you offer a good honest service and do what you say you're going to do then people will enjoy using it and keep coming back for more. Which is why we have a constantly growing number of men and women with a healthy fun attitude towards sex. Signing up for a trial account is FREE and doesn't require any sort of credit card. Your free to browse the profiles and set up your own to see if there's someone for you.

Updated profiles
Lynx, 50 from Free State

Creative artist and thinker. Yin and yang between introvert and extrovert. Would love to share good times with naughty relevant other.

Johnny, 42 from Sandton, Gauteng

Looking for new friends.I am here to meet woman and new people , chat and have some fun. I am a very staight person and don't like wasting poeple's time. Here to have good time .

Melody, 41 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I like to play

Natalie, 23 from Free State

I'm a young African girl and I'm a university student. An introvert who loves food. Bookworm too! I'm just looking for some fun and I'm interested in white guys :)

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