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Willem, 30 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I am looking for casual hookups, I am married but sex feels like it's always just to satisfy me, like it's a chore. I'm looking for fun, something new with someone that is looking for fun and enjoys sex! I am easy going and adventurous and looking for fun! I have only ever had one partner and I think its time to explore a bit.

Xena, 31 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Hard working wife and mother looking for a funny, attractive, hygienic, intelligent long term nsa partner to play hard with on a regular basis.

Nasha, 35 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Intelligent black woman..married(discreet).. Fun,open minded and here for chats (or more)with respectable,matured descent people..

Deee, 44 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

I am looking for MUTUAL uncomplicated fun with WHITE guys only ,27 - 45, taller than 1.75 m please . I will only chat and meet white guys !!!! I have my own airtime, don't have kids so don't need babysitting money and am not interested in having a blesser either lol I only meet after work and occasionally on a weekend. I can arrange a venue. What I have marked as interests are my interests. If your real interests differ please move on . I don't do bullshit,lies and changing of interests and personality with any enthusiasm .....

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