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Shiya, 52 from Cape Town, Western Cape

.......Mature Gentleman seeking elegant, stunningly attractive Female for long term happy Relationship... .........Widower living a quite and uncomplicated lifestyle ...own Town House.... (no children nor dependants )... Many interests and well Travelled to foreign countries and locally in South Africa!

Nozi, 34 from Douglas, Northern Cape

Im here to meet intelligent, clean,healthy, open-minded guys well endowed gentlemen..

Ekwil, 54 from Vereeniging, Gauteng

Ekwil has yet to add his profile. Ask Ekwil for more info.

Tinkie, 42 from Brits, North West

ME AND BF LOOKING FOR COUPLES,LADIES AND MEN TO JOIN US FOR KINKY FUN....only whites pls!!!!

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