Leave your inhibitions at the door

My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Long term relationships can be tough. Things get a little stale and the sex dries up. Some people relight the fire by introducing someone new to their bed or just flirting with other people can be enough to get the fires burning. MyBedOrYours can help you find the missing ingredient from your relationship - whether it's with your partner or on your own. Our service is discreet and private so you're in safe hands and everything is on your terms. We do ask everyone to be honest about their relationship status from the start. You're not going to be judged for being in a relationship but it avoids confusion and avoids complicated situations later on

• Free mobile app, find local swingers on the move
• Only genuine members, no automated messages from fake profiles or staff posing as hot singles. All new profiles checked for authenticity by a real person
• Send winks, icebreakers, and virtual gifts as well as the usual chat and private messaging options either from your desktop or direct from our mobile app
• New members signing up every month looking for casual sex, regular fuck buddies or swinging couples

We recommend that you put a little effort into making your profile as attractive as possible to get the most number of messages. But you're free to do that at your leisure. As soon as you sign up you've got access to our entire member list. To create an account we just need your email address so we can send your details to you. There's no credit card needed at all for your initial account. So why not take a peek.