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Adult dating is for people who don't want a full on relationship - or for those who want to spice up an existing one. Fancy seeing your partner with another girl? We help people find the right adult relationship for them. Our discreet service lets you find the people that are going turn the heat up on your sex life. You can take things slowly - flirting on our social media messaging service. Or dive right in and arrange to meet someone. It's up to you what you do and who you do it with.

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To ensure the best mix of members we automatically upgrade all women to premium membership absolutely free. This ensures the best mix of men and women in a traditionally male dominated environment. We want all our members to be happy. By providing free upgrades to all female members we know they are happy and with so many new women looking for sex, our male members love us.

Feeling a little curious about who's online now in Brakpan? It could be someone you know! The signup only takes a second and doesn't require a credit card at all. We want you to enjoy your time with us so we'll take care of your personal details so you keep coming back. Once you become a member make sure you've always got clean sheets handy - you never know when you'll be needing them!

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Chantal, 43 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a fun loving woman looking for discreet fun and possibly making good friends. It's not just about the sex bt sex is what we all here for so let's chat and see where it goes. Guys if you are not interested be man enough to say so. That way I will not try to contact you.

Davon, 31 from Brakpan, Gauteng

Davon has yet to add his profile. Ask Davon for more info.

Tinks, 53 from Brakpan, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, just as I won't be cut out for every person I chat to, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. I'm not perfect, but I am me and very happy with my BIG n BOLD BODY, scares included. Please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , I'm not here to keep u entertained whilst u visit Gauteng.

Lizl, 49 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Ek is 'n alleen lopend hardwekende jong van gees dame. Sal graag iemand wil ontmoet wat saam met my die lewe kan geniet.

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