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Jabulile, 35 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I live in the Eastrand and am available for some fun anytime, when u halla at me let it be because u want action not chit chatting this is NSA no time wasters or postponement of shagging mxm can't deal and if u stay far don't bother....and m soooo choosy NO Whites or Indians I want the real meat not some chipolata..... Halla at me ......

Heather, 42 from Concordia, Northern Cape

Just got divorced from a 15 year sexless marriage. Sex-starved and ready for action. Not into 2 minutes of fun and then listen to 8 hours of snoring... looking for toy-boys in the mid twenty age group. Treat me with lots of fun and laughter and you won't be sorry what happens next ! No married men ! I serve the needy... not the greedy.. My dislikes: I don't do cybersex or chat online. I hate winks, tattoos and piercings ! Not looking for a husband. I have a high profile business, financially I have everything I need. Let...

Mindy, 37 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

Portuguese whore. All white men welcum. And I always swallow. Oral and anal ONLY.

Ray, 30 from Noordwyk, Gauteng

Easy going but extremely spontaneous. Looking for casual encounters NSA. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA action with a hot lady is how I like to spend my spare time. I want to make, midnight sex dates a thing, there's only one way to cure insomnia. Drunk dial me me after an unfulfilled night out with your friends. Sip on some wine while I give you a clean shave. I love having sex outdoors, with the risk of getting caught just adding to the excitement. If you fancy a tumble then get in touch...

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