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Janey, 42 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have taken the time to write this.... Surely you can take the time to READ it!!! Looking to spice up my life. Need some excitement !! I love sex, i love the idea of meeting a stranger and having a good fuck. Experimenting and playing with toys is great !! I enjoy watching a guy touch himself. I have a bit of a naughty side and am a huge flirt, so be warned. I have a great sense of humor and I love to see that in another person please show me yours. If you can laugh...

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Cool quite girl, enjoy wild sex, love reading & writing, watching movies. If you're up for a fantasy you've never had then hook me up

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Simple lady who loves laughing. Married but.... Would like to have a friend for chatting and more. A bit shy. Loves movies and reading

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