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Bongy, 34 from Lenasia, Gauteng

im slim,dark in complexion,love sex but im not looking for one night stand.i want a man who knows his game.all races are welcome.im a bit shy so I want to meet a guy who will take that away lol.I really like listening to good music that relaxes me and comforts me when im feeling down makes me feel great

Manda, 41 from Oudtshoorn, Western Cape

I am a full figured woman that enjoys meeting new people! I like to meet fun people that loves life ant live it to the fullest!

Mary, 44 from Lenasia, Gauteng

I would like to meet a well endowed, adventurous African man for funtimes.

Als, 47 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am a genuine and open minded gentleman. Yes I still have manners. I may be kinky and wild and sexual but I still have respect. Here for fun! So ladies, whose keen?

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