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Dori, 41 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

I'm a single parent, looking for that one man that can assist me back onto my feet and keep me there. A man that knows how to spoil. Preferably married. He needs to be comfortable in his own life to help me get comfortable in mine. No chancers please!...

Pierre, 49 from Pella, Northern Cape

Me and my Mrs. Want to put a 3some to the test. We are looking for a Bi lady that will join. Must be clean . Sexy and classy pref nicely shaven. Pls if the is any ladys out there for some fun pls let us know ONLY WHITE LADYS PLS

Juli, 42 from Gauteng, Gauteng

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Nela, 38 from Lusikisiki, Eastern Cape

Am looking for sex hunk. Come and taste a black, wet, wide holed pussy. Long time no fuck. I'm hungry. we can meet for a nice fuck

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