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Looking for some excitement in Richmond?

There're loads of people in Richmond who aren't looking for anything serious, just a bit of fun and something a little naughty. My Bed or Yours specifically caters for men and women looking for casual relationships and people looking for a new spark in their life. You only need to sign up for free (no credit card) to start looking through our member lists, when you find someone you can send them a message and see where it goes. Most people are just looking for some fun and escapism My Bed or Yours gives you a safe discreet opportunity to let your hair down.

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Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Long term relationships can be tough. Things get a little stale and the sex dries up. Some people relight the fire by introducing someone new to their bed or just flirting with other people can be enough to get the fires burning. MyBedOrYours can help you find the missing ingredient from your relationship - whether it's with your partner or on your own. Our service is discreet and private so you're in safe hands and everything is on your terms. We do ask everyone to be honest about their relationship status from the start. You're not going to be judged for being in a relationship but it avoids confusion and avoids complicated situations later on

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Sign up for free and meet girls and guys looking for sex in Richmond. Registration only takes a moment. Your details are secure, never displayed and never sold on. Once you register, you will get instant access, no waiting, no credit card required.

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Updated profiles
Kevin, 31 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Hi there! I am a fun loving guy, whom is looking to meet someone to enjoy beautiful Cape Town with. My interests are technology, pets, new adventures and being naughty for sure ;) I am rather new to Cape Town and am falling in love with how stunning it is! I am a hopeless romantic at heart, I enjoy reading, watching movies and long walks on the beach. I love pets and kids and being outdoors. We are all going to have an orgasm, why not share that with someone!

Vicky, 31 from Pretoria, Gauteng

African lady with an african built, fleshy n chubby likes been spoilt

Cleo, 33 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I'm a professional and independent lady. I'm shy but can be very naughty behind closed doors.

Sconna, 46 from Centurion, Gauteng

HI I am hoping to meet interesting people and if so lead to more. I am fun loving and like to relax and enjoy life. Believe you can always learn more, why not enjoy it! I prefer gentlemen from the same ethnic group. Contact me if you want to know more!

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